You know Nandu....you just highlighted root of mishbir's problems. I understand Mishti is at fault ....but as much as it is her fault....it is also Abir's fault!!!Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus
Abir's blessing and curse in disguise - is his ability to look over/forgive too easily.
Abir has never pushed or forced Mishti in opening up about anything. He's always felt and knows there is something wrong, he does question her once maybe twice - but never pushes further. This method works well when they are just friends, best friends and even during the one-sided love phase - Abir always gives her time to realise her own feelings, emotions, and make informed decisions.
However, the issue now is - Abir needs to realise if they are going to life partners, he needs to step up his intensity with Mish, he has every right to ask her questions...
1. He questions mishti at rajgadh on KC, but then backs off when she faints. 😒 He has every right to ask her again what's going on - why she's lying about shopping for curtains, why she's out at night in rajgad etc.. but he stops because he thinks he isn't ready to hear anything when he hears "Mehul Kapadia" from the pandit ji.
2. Mishti apologises for being late on godhana - and he simply says "you haven't eaten anything"? Seriously, any normal man should be mad that she took this long to simply make an appearance - surely he's been waiting for more than 2 hours. Who does that? When mishti says she will tell Abir everything after the godhana, he knows something is wrong but trusts her she will say after. Even then he had every right to so "no, tell me now so we don't have to worry during the ceremony"
3. Even after the godhana ceremony - Mishti sitting alone (aloof in thoughts). Abir tries to cheer her up as usual👍🏼, then immediately expresses his worries. One simple thing he had to ask "Mishti, what were you wanting to tell me before the godhana? why did it have to wait until after?" that's it.
Abir just too soft and gentle, most of the time we love it!🤗But there are times when he just needs to be firm with Mishti. It's all a learning process👍🏼
I believe in my man! He'll do what is right.🤗
As much as I like gentle Abir there are times you need to be firm also!!! Its his softness that people take advantage of... Everybody knows...kuch bhi kare....Abir will forgive and forget!!!Atleast Mishti is aware of the consequences of her action....I was okay with her decisions till yesterday......but yesterday's episode was a bad writing on another level with regard to Mishti' s character graph......
Aur ye zabardasti ka separation and reunion without any real growth in these characters is the worst thing that can happen to the story!!!
Kuhu is looking more and more relatable these days and sensible!!
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