Originally posted by: MishBirStruck
Mish didn't torture innocent people for abir Uru, that's the major difference, and because of meenu only mishti had to do it, meenu ne abir ko Sab bata diya hota to Ye naubat nahi aati , meenu could've collected proofs but she didn't do that until climax, mishti collected proof on god dhana and went straight away to talk to abir, the only mistake she did is to tell meenu first
And abir gave clean chit to meenu and kunal for making that horrendous plan, he knows what all kunal did with mishti but still he's talking with him like a normal person, he knows what kunal did to kuhu still he's behaving like a good bro, why he's not shifting, he had only said ki ghar chodne ka decision Usne baba ke liye nahi mishti ke liye liya hai, then What changed
He couldn't break up with mishti just because she lied, he could get angry , he could get hurt, he could postpone the marraige, but he can't just leave the girl he loves
I do understand what you're saying yaar. And I get mishti got herself stuck in a very tight tricky situation...
but ultimately this is a very complicated dilemma and a deep-rooted problem mishbir have.
Abir has time and time again told Misthi how important trust and honesty is for their relationship. He's even expressed how hurt he was when "best-friend" Nanu had lied to him. Mishti knows exactly how high Abir values honesty and trust, but she still lied to his face on KC night. Abir actually thanked her for telling what he thought was the truth😒 That's where Mishti took Abir's trust for granted.
I know at that time, Mishti didn't have any solid proof and felt scared to express her doubts given that her dream 'nightmare' fight with Abir was very realistic. But the basic idea that Mishti really thought Abir usko trust nahi karega and chod ke chala jayega was Mishti's self-monologue due to her long deep childhood trust issues.
Mishti needs to break out of that cycle of doubting Abir will leave her and trust Abir will not leave her at the drop of a hat. Abir will definitely be hurt that even after all the things they've been through, Abir blindly trusting her each and everytime (no questions asked at all) and constantly telling her how much he trusts her and supports her - it will be good for them to have a break collect their feelings and then gradually talk it out👍🏼
Mishti needs this break to realise her problematic decision, re-evaluate and correct her actions
Abir needs a break to just catch some fresh air, away from the chaos, away from the secrets and lies.