Originally posted by: fangirl1012
Geetha don't even get me started on this good for nothing spineless RV fam. You see I don't care if Baba was a criminal , a cheater or a fraud what I care is that every child has a right to get to know his father and than form an opinion. When Baba conveniently ran away he didn't realize that he was robbing Abir of his childhood. Added to this the way BB and co tried to handle Abir was wrong on so many levels , Kunal was introduced as a distraction in Abir's life so that in his big brother role Abir might abandon his quest of finding his father. I am still shocked that in such a toxic environment wirh pathological liars like Parul and BB and spineless character's like Nanu , Abir turned out to be the gem we all admire today. I loved how he admitted that he is aware that he might be wrong or his father could be wrong but the way Nanu and co have been treating him his whole life and the lies they continue to weave around him is not right either. It's not something normal families do because your family is suppose to be honest and upfront to you. Sending him on a wild goose chase knowingly was such a despicable thing I felt even more enraged because Nanu called Abir at the bus station and did some melodrama but still didn't tell him the truth and after misleading their own son knowing that he would be hurt they were all like lets prepare for his bday. They wanted to celebrate his faliure, tears and the victory of their lies I am glad Abir called out everyone for their hypocrisy. No wonder this boy considers Mish to be his home because that girl has always understood him she doesn't care about the mask he shows the world rather she knows about the boy underneath the mask and she accepts him with both his merits and demerits.
Hey Zara!🤗
Now that twitter has become a regular medium for these discussions, I forget how convenient and satisfying it is to discuss the show in the forum especially when we want to rant longer. I love how you started with "don't get me started on the spineless RV family"😆 Trust me, it was exactly the thought that managed to reel in my longer rants and helped me keep this post as short and on point as possible.
I feel like I can write a 3000 words rant on every single character in the RV house explaining how cowardly and undeserving they are of Abir. But that would only hurt my hands and my head so I figured this would have to do.
The fact that all of us being rather young, most of us having no real experience in raising kids or being parents, understand the fact that a kid has the right to know the truth about his father. The fact that we know no matter what issues lie between a couple, they have no right to let it affect the relationship the kid has with either of them individually. Yet someone as old as Nanu or that whole family of older generation, parents of adolescents do not understand this small fact is ridiculous. They have no right to do what they did with Abir. Baba chose the easiest and selfish way to deal with his own problems and Meenakshi continues to do everything to control him and thus pushing him further away from herself and forcing him to find that love he years for somewhere else. If only his mother could understand the simple fact that her son's biggest strength and weakness is his love for people around him, she would have seen how pointless it was to have tried to control him when he would have surrendered himself completely if she had reached out to him through love. What an absolute and utter failure as a mom she is. It's absolutely appalling to see how badly she went wrong in being his parent and she continues to not learn from any of her mistakes. I've truly given up on this despicable character that dares to call herself his mom. I'm reserving my thoughts on Abir's baba until we truly understand the character. He isn't a father I'd have preferred for Abir but it does seem like he understands his son better than any of his other family do so I'm hoping and praying he doesn't turn out to be yet another manipulative parent who has only their interests in mind and use Abir to push their own agenda. We already have one doing it, Abir doesn't deserve another one. Someone, please ask makers to not break his heart further.
However, I will never forgive him for abandoning him in the first place. No amount of excuses will make that 'okay' in my books. But when I compare the two parents, it's easy to see which one of them is better suited at being a parent and an influence on Abir. So right now, even though I believe in both being complete failures as parents, I am ready to give Baba another chance to redeem himself and become a parent that Abir deserves unlike that selfish mother of his who continues to only work for her own selfish agendas ignoring her only son's wishes. I swear I feel like that rant on Meenakshi might actually happen sooner than later. That woman is the luckiest woman in the whole wide world for being Abir's mother. She doesn't even realize how lucky she is and what she is going to eventually lose. I don't know if I should be sad or enraged at this character. Absolutely despicable!
Anyways, it's completely understandable and obvious why both Mishbir find home in each other and prioritize their relationship and other person's happiness above everything else. No one else have done it for them before and they deserve to be someone's else's first priority after so long. I sincerely hope the makers realize as much as we do, how important these two are to each other and never compromise their relationship for anything else on the show.
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