And so it begins..the angst phase of Mishbir's journey, the separation - Page 2

Originally posted by: Onyourface

That was Abir's shayari ...ohh...I don't remember this one actually...😲...I thought you have written ..ohh...

Thank you for the confidence in me... actually I write shayaris here...not as good as Abir..but I try...😃

And yes I totally agree with your views...thank you for making a seperate post...much needed !❤️

And yes...I am going to reply on your soulmate post reply ...I was actually waiting for you to be online and also I wanted to end my day with that reply ..so 🤗

@Bold - Haha guessed as much! I was actually surprised that you didn't remember his 'ghar vala' shayari re. Confession day one this is! Oh How I wish it was mine! But I am not as talented as Abir or even Shaheer is with Shayaris unfortunately.😆

Oh I know how talented you are with your poems too. I've seen enough to know you are a natural when it comes to them. Which is why I am looking forward to reading it tomorrow. ❤️ Your highlights post is my favorite on the forum. I have already said this multiple times to you I think. Tomorrow's episode and highlights are going to be the highlight of the evening for me , I am sure.

Ohh thank you for always leaving such sweet replies to my posts Uru. You don't have to but you always do and for that!🤗

Originally posted by: misaki

*Spoilers for 17.09.2019 episode*

The fact that we got two scenes and moments today that hinted at Mishbir separation had me completely 💔 yet also excited for the same? Before you guys think I am a complete sadist, let me explain..

Every love story has their beautiful beginning, confession and then finally the union phase. However not all love stories really make you want to passionately root for the pair, only the greatest love stories do. What makes a love story great? One that has a beautiful angst phase where the two people who are meant to be for each other fight against all odds and come out as the winners, becoming a truly memorable and 'epic' love story. So yes I am sort of, kind of a little happy that we are getting one. Does that make me a sadist? I don't know. A little maybe? :P

But I'm a little surprised by the fact that the makers decided to actually give us clear hints at their separation before the actual phase. First they make a random dude( I still hate the guy btw😆) separate Mishbir's hands at the airport and then they give us the more significant hint, using one of the biggest elements that has always played a critical part in Mishbir's journey, the red-heart balloons and literally bursting them all while Abir watches on helpless( Abir's expressions there almost breaking my heart. Shaheer 👏 So good!).

If I'm not reaching too much which I believe I really am not at this point especially after watching the precap, I am both terrified and little excited about what they have planned for Mishbir. Precap was a little worrying with Abir asking Mishti to remember that he loves her and Mish in turn assuring him she'd never forget even if he does. Making me go, Why would you possibly forget something as important and life changing as that, you cute daft kids?😆 But then I remembered this beautiful promise they made each other...

Hain dagar Mushkil badi,

Ek aag ka bawandar bhi hain,

Par uss paar ek pyara sa ghar bhi hain.

Dar hain tujhe ki aisa na ho,

Ki sapne saare toot jaye,

Saat aane pe apne,

yaar humse root jaye,

Apne agar roote hue tho,

Has ke unhe manalenge,

Rakh bharosa pyaar par,

Hum woh pyaara sa ghar banalenge.

Because I believe in them and their love. My Mishbir will ensure they keep this promise to each other, come what may. So bring it on YRHPK🤗

*Edit*: Let me know if similar thoughts ran through your mind while watching tonight's episode or if you think I'm over-analyzing stuff, giving too much credit to the makers of being really smart. I'd love to hear all of it😆

agree with all of it..

even i m a little bit excited but scared as well..hope cv's do a good job in this track

Originally posted by: misaki

I agree on it not going to be an easy ride but I don't quite agree with Abir being emotionally weak. He is definitely the most emotionally affected person of the lot but he has also exhibited multiple times as to how strong he can be when it really comes to something he really prioritizes. He runs away not because he is weak but because he doesn't want to be the cause to someone else's pain as we saw him do during Kunal and Mishti's engagement but as soon as he realized Mishti loved him and that her true happiness was with him, it took him no time to return and ensure he fought for her.

That is why I believe Abir is really strong when it comes to being emotionally connected to someone or something. He gets affected really easily but he also fights the hardest.

More than them realizing each other's worth, I think this separation is to make the others realize how much Mishbir mean to each other. Either way, really looking forward to the track.

Thank you for the insight and sharing your views with us!🤗

I agree that this is needed for their families to realize mishbir's love.. I meant him affected a lot emotionally as a emotionally weak person . when his loved ones are at a risky scenario and really fears if they will go away from him .. I think we have seen mishti succumb to pressure when she was asked to give up her love bcoz of family. I kind of feel now it's Abir's turn where he needs to choose between his family, kunal vs mishti .We will need to see how he will react. I think we got a glimpse of it on the haldi day where he was visibly shaken .. I think something like that is gonna happen and everyone will see how lifeless Abir becomes bcos of mishti.. also how incomplete Abir would feel without mishti.. this will also make him prioritize his love over others.. from my personal experience, I always felt a short separation is like a reboot to the relationship..

Imagine kunal bad-mouthing mishti in front of bp bm.. Abir isn't able to control him.. just like how he couldn't during ganesh pooja.. it is not gonna give a good impression on him to bp bm and they will be very apprehensive in getting mishti married there and with no support from rv house ..nanu is voiceless. So this will make him understand that he needs to stand rock solid with mishti and really needs to change kunal.. he has been supporting mishti in the back but I am sick and tired of every character bad-mouthing her and no one very strongly stopping others from bad-mouthing her..Bp did do that during party date time fiasco but no one after that.. everything was swept under the carpet as it was kuhu's day which was so unfair to mishri.. I really hope this brings every mishti supporter in the show to stand up for her like bp, bm, nanu, Abir ..And I think baba will play a big role in changing the perspective for Abir may be..

I hope they address the junk that ppl throw at mishti in this track by making Abir even more stronger to stop everyone from doing that to mishti and put them all in their place..

Originally posted by: divvk

I agree that this is needed for their families to realize mishbir's love.. I meant him affected a lot emotionally as a emotionally weak person . when his loved ones are at a risky scenario and really fears if they will go away from him .. I think we have seen mishti succumb to pressure when she was asked to give up her live bcoz of family. I kind of feel now it's Abir's turn where he needs to choose between his family, kunal vs mishti .We will need to aee how he will react. I think we got a glimpse of it on the haldi day where he was visibly shaken .. I think something like that is gonna happen and everyone will see how lifeless Abir becomes mishti.. also how incomplete Abir would feel without mishti.. this will also make him prioritize his love over others.. from my personal experience, I always felt a short separation is like a reboot to the relationship..

Imagine kunal bad-mouthing mishti in front of bp bm.. Abir isn't able to control him.. just like how he couldn't during ganesh pooja.. it is not gonna give a good impression on him to bp bm and they will be very apprehensive in getting mishti married there and with no support from rv house ..nanu is voiceless. So this will make him understand that he needs to stand rock solid with mishti and really needs to change kunal.. he has been supporting mishti in the back but I am sick and tired of evey character bad-mouthing her and no one very strongly stopping others from bad-mouthing her..Bp did do that during party date time fiasco but no one after that.. everything was swept under the carpet as it was kuhu's day which was so unfair to mishri.. I really hope this brings every mishti supporter in the show to stand up for her like bp, bm, nanu, Abir ..And I think baba will play a big role in changing the perspective for Abir may be..

I hope they address the junk that pol throw at mishti in this track by making Abir even more stronger to stop everyone from doing that to mishti and put them all in their place..

Oh my God! I love this reply so much. I need sometime to actually give a satisfying answer. Absolutely agree with you here. I am going to have so much fun discussing this with you. Someone finally gets it. I'm so glad!

Will get to replying soon as soon. 🤗

Originally posted by: misaki

Oh my God! I love this reply so much. I need sometime to actually give a satisfying answer. Absolutely agree with you here. I am going to have so much fun discussing this with you. Someone finally gets it. I'm so glad!

Will get to replying soon as soon. 🤗

Sure misaki.. anytime.. would love to discuss about this and get to know your thoughts..🤗

Originally posted by: misaki

Oh I love how you pointed out the silver lining in both, the otherwise gloomy situations. Although I did notice some of the balloons surviving, I didn't quite relate it to BP, BM, Naanu/Baba at the moment. That is an interesting observation indeed. If that was intentional, kudos to the makers.

However, I did pay more attention to Mishti reacting much more aggressively than Abir did with the hands situation at the airport. I am happy to share the same opinion as you do on the scene. I believe Mishti will be the one who will probably will initiate and take a firm stand in their fight and Abir the one who will be the voice of reason whenever she needs it. And of course them holding the hands again had to happen, the leads of the show and the most amazing love story on TV currently will eventually have to win. Makers can't be that sadistic. 😆 I'm really looking forward to this track.

I always enjoy reading what you have to say about a certain topic related to Mishbir by the way, so thank you for sharing this.

Bold: I think the ball is now in Abir's court his love for Mish is yet to be tasted. I feel like Mish is clear that she wants to have a future with Abir hence she suggested that we need to talk to our elder but did you notice how before her call Abir was worried about Kunal. That alone was disturbing because not once did Abir think that needs to make Kunal see reason it was all about how to pacify Kunal. I am hoping against hope that at least once Abir calls out Kunal for misbehaving with Mish. If this separation plays out I want Kunal to see how much his Bhai is suffering. I want Abir to detach from his family and to immerse himself in work or other stuff or he could leave again but I want Kunal to realize the mess he has put his brother in. Even Ben Baa who was being all high and mighty to Parul that you can't see your son's pain well I want her to acknowledge Abir's pain in the separation track. They all need to realise the importance of Mishti in Abir's life. Ideal scenario would be if Kunal actually goes up to Mish apologises and asks her to come back in to his bhai's life. I feel for sometime we will see Abir faltering he already apologised to Mish for the insults she might be subject to and maybe due to that he sort of feels like she is better off without him so he kind of let's her go. I feel Mish will desperately try to hold on which is sort of in line with the dialogue in the Precap.

Well written post..... even I'm very excited for the separation track.... bcoz I know at the end, Mishbir will always be together..so no worries, in this track everyone will get to Know how Mishbir are deeply connected to each other...... hope CVs will handle this track nicely.

Beautiful post Misaki! Loved reading it!!

Yes, separation is on the way... and I am ready for it 😈 A good love story needs insurmountable obstacles and I guess the time has come in our story for MishBir to gather their core strengths to face and eventually overcome these obstacles. Our story will go through progress, sacrifices, setbacks and then finally their sweet reunion!

The separation will be only a physical one since we know how much they understand each other and are totally connected mentally! It will be interesting to see what brings about this separation - will it be enforced by the elders (BP and BM) and they will oblige or will they voluntarily decide to take break for a while or will there be some planning plotting against them by the old and new villains of MishBir...

I feel that even if you forget I won't dialog will be symbolic and nothing to do with memory loss like some are predicting (gosh, hate those memory loss tracks!). Abir may get preoccupied with either Baba or with fixing Kunal's marriage once it's truth comes out and may kind of put his own love story on the back burner till his nanko's happiness is sorted and that can be one kind of bhul jaana Mishti... though if they do have a track where Abir prioritizes Nanko's happiness over his&Mish's, it's going to serve as a lesson for Abir. He does need some kind of jhatka to come out of his nanko obsession and to stop treating Kunal as this innocent little kid. I would say such track should come, let Abir also learn it the hard way that Kunal is a grown man and is responsible for his own actions!!

Or Abir may witness the opposition for MishBir not only from RVs but Maheshwaries too and decide to back out of the relationship to keep Mish away from the toxicity and hatred.

Hopefully Baba will come at the right time and help Abir choose the right path!

The best would be if Abir comes to know about all the kaands done by Ma-bhai (and bhabhi to some extent) in the name of protecting him and decide to go away from them all, elope with Mish and stay separately for a while 😎

Sorry, my thoughts are all over the place. But in short, I am excited about what's to come!

Originally posted by: misaki

@Bold - Haha guessed as much! I was actually surprised that you didn't remember his 'ghar vala' shayari re. Confession day one this is! Oh How I wish it was mine! But I am not as talented as Abir or even Shaheer is with Shayaris unfortunately.😆

Oh I know how talented you are with your poems too. I've seen enough to know you are a natural when it comes to them. Which is why I am looking forward to reading it tomorrow. ❤️ Your highlights post is my favorite on the forum. I have already said this multiple times to you I think. Tomorrow's episode and highlights are going to be the highlight of the evening for me , I am sure.

Ohh thank you for always leaving such sweet replies to my posts Uru. You don't have to but you always do and for that!🤗

First of all big big thank you for such words ...tareef mujhe meri Sunna pasand hai...😆

Jhappi to you 🤗...my highlights are up..let's see aapko shayari pasand aati hai ya nahin...na aaye toh bhi bol Dena...mujhe Bura nahi lagega ...🤗

N extremely sorry... actually I was typing my reply on soulmates post...but in between I pressed the back button..n it was lost....toh phir mein so gayi😆

But I will surely reply tonight !

Bold - arey I was actually feeling sleepy...haha..I actually read your post again this morning ..n now I remember 😛

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Steve Jobs once said "Nothing worthwhile ever comes easy" and we all know that the love #Mishbir have for each other is worth surpassing any obstacle. Btw did you notice how 3 balloons still remained intact maybe that indicates that from elders #Mishbir will get support from BP,BM,Nanu/Baba in the future also in the other scene where the hand hold breaks Mish is ready to pounce on the guy while Abir calms her down indicating that she will fight back this time and they start holding hands again which means the separation will be temporary.

After watching today's episode I feel that BM will be the first one to support them as she was looking at Abir photo and thinking what Shankari tai was saying..

And mishti has already warned Kuhu that if she can fight for their love then she will not leave any stone unturned for her love