Kaash hum kabhi badhay na hotay 2nd August analysis

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“People think dreams aren't real just because they aren't made of matter, of particles. Dreams are real. But they are made of viewpoints, of images, of memories and puns and lost hopes.”

― Neil Gaiman

Even though the entire confession was a dream as expected but did you all notice how Mish is sure of Abir’s love and trust for her. To me that thing was beautiful even in a dream she knows that her Abir will stand with her whereas Kunal won’t hesitate to leave Kuhu on his mother’s insistence. There is such a stark difference in the personalities of both the brothers.

“Naanko yay galti nahi yay pyar hain. Aur agar tum meray pyar ki izzat nahi kar sakaty toh kam say kam uss ki beizziti mat kar” Even when the truth is out Abir will act in this way.

“Main apni puri life Abhir kay saath rehana chaati hu” In her heart Mish is also sure that she wants to spend her whole life with him by her side.

“Main Meenakshi Rajvansh iss risthay kay liay tyar nahi hun” BB as expected will oppose them

“Maa ristha mera hain main tyar hu” Abir has the audacity to challenge his mother which is so in line with his actual character

“Agar mera aik beta Misthi karay ga toh mera dossra beta Kuhu say shaadi nahi karay ga” This is something BB has threatened her with.

“Yay betay abb badhay ho gay hain Maa aur apna faisla khud lain saktay hain jis tarah mainay lia”

. Naanko bhi apna faisla khud lay ga” Abir would definitely state this reason and would expect Kunal to chose Kuhu

“Aur Kunal ,Kuhu say pyar karta hain” Even Mish thinks that Kunal loves Kuhu so he might just take a stand for her

“Toh mera jawab bhi sun lo tum. Meray liay meri Maa aur meri family say badh kar kuch bhi nahi hain aur main un kay liay kisi ko bhi chod sakta hun” How well does Mish know the actual Kunal though she knows that there is a high possibility that Kunal will reject Kuhu.

“Main tumhari behen ko accept nahi kar sakta” Kunal has been very open about his hate towards Mish so I don’t blame her for thinking he would actually say this.

“Yay larki tootay huay ghar say ahayi hain aur yay sirf todhna jaan ti hain. Abhi bhi yay apnay baray main soch rahi hain” Whatever BB said in that mandir somewhere somehow still hurts her. It has such a powerful hold on her. Ever since her parent abandoned her imagine all the things she would have to bear in terms of taunts. People would have called her a home-breaker and an unlucky girl and even in her adopted family the likes of Kuhu and Jasmeet blame her for every problem. So, naturally she does not want to cause any problem hence Mish is shown to be extra careful and reserved around people. Then she imagines that BP might not be able to bear the shock if Kuhu’s marriage breaks due to her and he might get a heart attack, so she gets scared. Her reaction is completely natural if I had been in her place and would have been threatened by the terrifying BB even I would have been this traumatized added to this if I knew that my actions would have consequences for my sister who is getting married I would have backed off as well. So, please stop judging Mish for being incredibly human all of us in our lives are put in a difficult situation, kind of like a double-edged sword and it takes us time to figure out our next course of action. So , please give Mish that time.

Mish is lost in her thoughts when Abir’s voice brings her back from the void.

“Misthi tum theek ho? Are you okay Mishti?” He is very concerned because the girl in front of him is visibly distressed.

“Yes I am okay” She pretends that she is fine as her eyes land on BB who standing in the far corner. Aik toh yay BB ki timing kharab hain har jaga aha jaati.

“Tuhmari baat maan nay ka mann toh nahi kar raha lekin angry chorni aaj maan lay ta hu” Homeboy knows that his girl is not okay but for now he is letting it slide. Then BB interrupts them and tbh that conversation is not worth analyzing at all. So Kuhu already knows about her birth secret but still acts like an entitled dimwit and the Masehwaris always think about these secrets at the 11th hour when will these people learn. Loved the conversation between Nanu and Abir though and the way Abir trolled Nidhi.

“Main aik wife ka nahi husband ka intezaar kar raha hu” Rofl I literally laughed like a manic and my driver and father gave me a questionable look since I was watching this while being on a road trip.

“Tur darr mat bro tu jis ki bhi maang main sindoor bharna chayay ga main teray saath hu” So, we kind of already know that Naanu will always support Abir.

“Seriously mujay bata teray aur Misthi kay beech main koi problem hain kiya” Naanu asks Abir eafter they manage to send Nidhi away

“Buddy problem ho ni toh nahi chayiay par kuch toh hain pata lagana padhay ga. Who mujha kuch kehna chaati ti asisa mujhay laga tha par acchank say uss nay palti maar di” Abir is confused but he knos that something is definitely bothering his girl.

“Misthi saach main sab say alag hain ussay thoda time day ho skata hain who tum say apni dil ki baat karnay ahayi ho aur last minute main ghabara gayi ho” Naanu goes on to explain that girls can be complicated and maybe Mish got scared at the last moment.

“Ho sakta hain. Hmm bolnay ahayi thi par ghabara gayi thi. Cold feet ho sakta hain” Abir muses that this could be the case maybe something did scare of Mish from confessing. He then remember to give the kundali to Parul and on the other side everyone is concerned about Kuhu’s birth secret but Kuhu lies that she has already told Kunal. So BP and BM are relieved and even Mish is happy as she looks at the family being content from the other room. She remembers how BB asked her to stay away from Abir. She is crying but no one is bothered about her except Abir who calls her and then sends her text asking her if she is okay and that scene was so endearing. In all the chaos around her she knows that Abir cares about her. The conversation between Kuhu and Misthi though was the highlight.

“Kaash hum kabhi badhay hi na hotay” When Mish says this my heart broke for her because as adults at numerous points in our life we just want to be kids again as adulting is so hard and as kid we believe we can have everything. Kids are so carefree as the tensions of adult life have not touched them yet but sadly Mish did not have a normal child hood as well. So hearing her say that was even more painful. For a certain time she had her real family and their love but then that was so brutally snatched away from her and now when real love is within her reach she is afraid to take the leap. Instead she doesn’t mind being young again and going through all that pain

“Baachpan ki sarai kahani jhooti nikali. Red hearts pink roses , happily ever after kisi nay yay nahi bataya kay pyar karna kitna muskil hota hain” Haaye my poor girl. Its like BB shattered her world through her threats. She had just started to experience the concept of love when she realized that being in love is the hardest thing ever. Pyar karna ahsaan hain par pyar nibhana bohot muskil hota hain.

“Tunay Abir say kuch kaha na. Please uss say kuch mat kehna agar tunay kuch kaha toh Kunal mujhay chod day ga” how easily but selfishly Kuhu asks for her own happiness from her sister.

“Mainn teri aur Kunal ki shaadi kabi nahi todhu gi” Mish tells Kuhu that she was never against Kuku.

“Par tu aur Abir” at least here Kuhu shows a bit of humanity that BB and Kunal lack. She is concerned about her sister’s happiness.

“Main aur Abir kiya hain aur kkyun hain yay toh mujay bhi nahi pata par main teri aur Kunal ki shaadi karwa kar rahu gi” She says and wipes off Kuhu’s tears.

The precap was lit like OMG how intently Abir was looking at his girl. He knows something is bothering her. I am hoping that he gets to know soon or at least Parul gathers the strength to confide in him. Let see I think we have to prepare our selves for some angst between Mishbir.

Stray thoughts

• Abir has again started to doubt that Parul is harboring a big secret I hope he figures out everything soon.

• When BB told Kunal that his marriage with Kuhu won’t happen he didn’t show even a tiny bit of remorse.

• BB wants to use Mish to break the ristha at this point I just want Kuku married so we can be spared from the Kunal getting married track.

Sorry for posting this late. I was gone on a mini vacay for a shaadi in another city. I wanted someone to dance as well as Shah on the mendhi this show has taken over my psyche.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Beautiful post Zara...👍👍 Its like reading lines from a novel... Thank you... I liked the conversation between the 2 sisters... For a change it was more a heart to heart conversation and more natural unlike the usual rant...

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Originally posted by: Drfb

Beautiful post Zara...👍👍 Its like reading lines from a novel... Thank you... I liked the conversation between the 2 sisters... For a change it was more a heart to heart conversation and more natural unlike the usual rant...

Thank you for the kind words🤗 and yes the conversation between the sisters was nice for a change.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don’t blame mish for backing out for time being. Yes! Its a sacrifice that we all didn’t want her to make.. but she had valid reasons to do so. I’m glad that she did not give in to BB’s threat yet..she’s still processing it.. usne abhi bi pura blackout karne ka nahi socha.

Beautiful write-up yet again, Zara!👏

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Hi zara..you have given words to what I was feeling about mishti's back out from confession.she is in complete dilemma.what I feel is she is not completely an ITV fl but reacts to situations as a normal girl would have reacted in reality.when you come from a broken home and when people in ur surroundings blame you for each and everything then at some some point of time even you feel that may be its coz of you.BB is playing mind games with her she is hitting her mentally and she knows that its difficult to broke her but then she us family oriented she will give preference to her family and that is why she us doing it.

The differences between mishti and kuhu are not that much that for her own love she will break kuhu's marriage.

Have this feeling that she has not completely backed off but waiting for this marriage to be done..

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Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

I don’t blame mish for backing out for time being. Yes! Its a sacrifice that we all didn’t want her to make.. but she had valid reasons to do so. I’m glad that she did not give in to BB’s threat yet..she’s still processing it.. usne abhi bi pura blackout karne ka nahi socha.

Beautiful write-up yet again, Zara!👏

Yeah she is still struggling on what to do which is natural and thanks 🤪

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Originally posted by: etrika

Hi zara..you have given words to what I was feeling about mishti's back out from confession.she is in complete dilemma.what I feel is she is not completely an ITV fl but reacts to situations as a normal girl would have reacted in reality.when you come from a broken home and when people in ur surroundings blame you for each and everything then at some some point of time even you feel that may be its coz of you.BB is playing mind games with her she is hitting her mentally and she knows that its difficult to broke her but then she us family oriented she will give preference to her family and that is why she us doing it.

The differences between mishti and kuhu are not that much that for her own love she will break kuhu's marriage.

Have this feeling that she has not completely backed off but waiting for this marriage to be done..

Hey yes about Mish you and I are on the same page. BB has hit Mish right where it hurts and has brought her biggest insecurity to the surface. Also at the end of the day Kuhu is kimd of her sister so she ain't going to do anything that breaks her wedding.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Beautiful analysis Zara! Love that her trust in Abir is so staunch 👏.. My heart broke when Mish spoke those dialogues to Kuhu ! What a traumatic childhood ! 🥺.. and now when she deserves her love, Meenu has decided to hit where it hurts most .. 😡 Not even blaming her for temporaryily backing off ., she is going to ruminate and I am sure she will find a solution .. I have faith in our angry chorni ! Precap has me singing my dil goes hmmm !

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Originally posted by: Aanchal15

Beautiful analysis Zara! Love that her trust in Abir is so staunch 👏.. My heart broke when Mish spoke those dialogues to Kuhu ! What a traumatic childhood ! 🥺.. and now when she deserves her love, Meenu has decided to hit where it hurts most .. 😡 Not even blaming her for temporaryily backing off ., she is going to ruminate and I am sure she will find a solution .. I have faith in our angry chorni ! Precap has me singing my dil goes hmmm !

Thanks yaar. Precaps lately are making me hear sing a lot of songs. Yeah the Mish and Kuhu conversation is something we all have discussed with our siblings at some point in our lives when adulting gets hard. Mish's faith on Abir and their equation is one of the reasons I am still watching this show. BB ko toh chod doh. Even if they redeem her later I won'tbe able to forget what she did with Mish.

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Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Thanks yaar. Precaps lately are making me hear sing a lot of songs. Yeah the Mish and Kuhu conversation is something we all have discussed with our siblings at some point in our lives when adulting gets hard. Mish's faith on Abir and their equation is one of the reasons I am still watching this show. BB ko toh chod doh. Even if they redeem her later I won'tbe able to forget what she did with Mish.

Same yaara!! Btw kaisi ho ? 😊

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