Pyar ka izhar karna zaroori hain(20th June Analysis)

I am sorry I am always so late to the party. Due to work commitments I watch the episode before sleeping and it has slowly become by favorite past-time. Khair, lets get to the amazeball episode we got today. May Allah bless the writers they have written Misbhir beautifully. I wish I could say the same for characters like Meenu and Jasmeet. Tbh Rhea Sharma stole the show today I actually connected with her more then Kuhu's plight. The poor thing is so tired of people blaming her that she has started blaming herself. Time and time again characters like Kuhu and Jasmeet have made her feel unwanted and Ben Baa's venomous words have left an impact. Ever since childhood Misthi did not have a stable happy family frankly her parents were trash and her dadi didn't want to raise her which I still don't get. Then she became a part of the Mashewari family and finally found solace. He dream of a happy family was fulfilled but then Kuhu attacked her by accusing M of stealing her families love and Jasmeet started calling her muh boli and gradually she realized that apart from Bade Papa and Badi Maa no one really cared but she cared and she still does and thats the only reasons she wants Kuku to happen. Kuhu is like a petulant child who won't be happy until she gets her favorite toy Kunal and Misthi thinks by giving Kuhu what she wants maybe Kuhu will finally start treating her like a real sister. I feel for this poor girl so much. She is trying so hard to please everyone but she needs to know that we can't make everyone happy that's impossible. I legit had tears in my eyes when she was crying because she made me feel her pain. Misthi has such a good heart and sadly people who have good hearts often get hurt. There Misthi was crying alone and along comes Abhir similar to how he entered her life. She chides herself for crying because she thinks it makes her vulnerable and Abhir gently reminds her that its okay to cry. Sometimes even the strongest of us break down and its okay we all need to cry sometimes. I know our culture promotes that crying is a sign of weakness but sometimes crying is the only thing you need. It heals you because you finally allow yourself to feel the pain and then the pain slowly leaves you so don't ever bottle up your emotions. Misthi thought that she had failed in every relationship but Abhir told her that she hadn't failed this friendship and the bond she has formed with him is unbreakable. That entire AM scene was beautiful, this is what true companionship is supporting and being their for your partner when they are at their lowest. I live for such scenes who focus on emotional depth rather then intimacy I mean thats all hot and happening but emotional connection is the most precious thing in the world.

Part 2 below

Part 2

Now coming to the title of the post which says that its important to profess your love. Abhir's line that samany wala samajta kyun nahi hain baatna kyun padhtha hain. Well because us girls can never be sure. Yes actions do tell a lot about a person's intention but then non-verbal gestures are often misinterpreted and there is always this doubt that what if I am over thinking or reading too much into certain actions. That's why its important to say what you need to say sometimes all of us need that validation in both words and actions that the other person really cares. Also then their are guys like Kunal who are such hard to read so agar pyar hain toh bol doh hain.

P.S red balloon scene makes me skeptical and Ben Baa knows about Kuku now. Haaye Allah please don;t let drama ruin the essence of Misbhir.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Part 2

Now coming to the title of the post which says that its important to profess your love. Abhir's line that samany wala samajta kyun nahi hain baatna kyun padhtha hain. Well because us girls can never be sure. Yes actions do tell a lot about a person's intention but then non-verbal gestures are often misinterpreted and there is always this doubt that what if I am over thinking or reading too much into certain actions. That's why its important to say what you need to say sometimes all of us need that validation in both words and actions that the other person really cares. Also then their are guys like Kunal who are such hard to read so agar pyar hain toh bol doh hain.

P.S red balloon scene makes me skeptical and Ben Baa knows about Kuku now. Haaye Allah please don;t let drama ruin the essence of Misbhir.

Kunal jaise ko to galti se bhi confess na karo on the other hand😆

Originally posted by: meen123

ofcourse bol dena better hota hai, I agree . Par itna simple ni hota .Na batane me safety hoti hai ke maine bataya hota to pakka baat aage badhti.

Kunal jaise ko to galti se bhi confess na karo on the other hand😆

Risk toh hain par if you never tell the other person you might never know. I know it's not easy but think of it like hitting an arrow it could hit the target or it could miss it but not using it would ultimately cause the arrow to rot and become useless. Even in investments we learn that high risk securities give high return the question is if you are willing to take a chance it's a gamble either way.

Lol yeah I just used him as an example but if the guy is like Kunal a girl should run and never look back.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Risk toh hain par if you never tell the other person you might never know. I know it's not easy but think of it like hitting an arrow it could hit the target or it could miss it but not using it would ultimately cause the arrow to rot and become useless. Even in investments we learn that high risk securities give high return the question is if you are willing to take a chance it's a gamble either way.

Lol yeah I just used him as an example but if the guy is like Kunal a girl should run and never look back.

Irrespective I'm very proud of the people who put themselves out.

maine joke kia tha. makes me wonder agar Kuhu khud bole i love you Kunal. uska response hoga kya?(i know it though) I'm pretty sure he's gonna ridicule her or maybe not ki uska anti mishti partner chala jayega. Ugh

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I am sorry I am always so late to the party. Due to work commitments I watch the episode before sleeping and it has slowly become by favorite past-time. Khair, lets get to the amazeball episode we got today. May Allah bless the writers they have written Misbhir beautifully. I wish I could say the same for characters like Meenu and Jasmeet. Tbh Rhea Sharma stole the show today I actually connected with her more then Kuhu's plight. The poor thing is so tired of people blaming her that she has started blaming herself. Time and time again characters like Kuhu and Jasmeet have made her feel unwanted and Ben Baa's venomous words have left an impact. Ever since childhood Misthi did not have a stable happy family frankly her parents were trash and her dadi didn't want to raise her which I still don't get. Then she became a part of the Mashewari family and finally found solace. He dream of a happy family was fulfilled but then Kuhu attacked her by accusing M of stealing her families love and Jasmeet started calling her muh boli and gradually she realized that apart from Bade Papa and Badi Maa no one really cared but she cared and she still does and thats the only reasons she wants Kuku to happen. Kuhu is like a petulant child who won't be happy until she gets her favorite toy Kunal and Misthi thinks by giving Kuhu what she wants maybe Kuhu will finally start treating her like a real sister. I feel for this poor girl so much. She is trying so hard to please everyone but she needs to know that we can't make everyone happy that's impossible. I legit had tears in my eyes when she was crying because she made me feel her pain. Misthi has such a good heart and sadly people who have good hearts often get hurt. There Misthi was crying alone and along comes Abhir similar to how he entered her life. She chides herself for crying because she thinks it makes her vulnerable and Abhir gently reminds her that its okay to cry. Sometimes even the strongest of us break down and its okay we all need to cry sometimes. I know our culture promotes that crying is a sign of weakness but sometimes crying is the only thing you need. It heals you because you finally allow yourself to feel the pain and then the pain slowly leaves you so don't ever bottle up your emotions. Misthi thought that she had failed in every relationship but Abhir told her that she hadn't failed this friendship and the bond she has formed with him is unbreakable. That entire AM scene was beautiful, this is what true companionship is supporting and being their for your partner when they are at their lowest. I live for such scenes who focus on emotional depth rather then intimacy I mean thats all hot and happening but emotional connection is the most precious thing in the world.

Part 2 below

@Bold - fantastic 👏 Exactly what I felt watching this scene.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Part 2

Now coming to the title of the post which says that its important to profess your love. Abhir's line that samany wala samajta kyun nahi hain baatna kyun padhtha hain. Well because us girls can never be sure. Yes actions do tell a lot about a person's intention but then non-verbal gestures are often misinterpreted and there is always this doubt that what if I am over thinking or reading too much into certain actions. That's why its important to say what you need to say sometimes all of us need that validation in both words and actions that the other person really cares. Also then their are guys like Kunal who are such hard to read so agar pyar hain toh bol doh hain.

P.S red balloon scene makes me skeptical and Ben Baa knows about Kuku now. Haaye Allah please don;t let drama ruin the essence of Misbhir.

Validation is absolutely required. If a person isn't thinking along the romantic lines, they will never understand that someone loves them.

Firstly, there is the fear of losing the person, if an action is misinterpreted, that's troublesome too. You don't want to ruin good/solid relationships based on actions and what you think that action means. Mishti isn't even thinking along the lines of romance, there is no way she will understand that Abir is in love with her.

Originally posted by: Namzie1226

@Bold - fantastic 👏 Exactly what I felt watching this scene.

Thank you:) Rhea really made me feel so much. She is a good actor

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Part 2

Now coming to the title of the post which says that its important to profess your love. Abhir's line that samany wala samajta kyun nahi hain baatna kyun padhtha hain. Well because us girls can never be sure. Yes actions do tell a lot about a person's intention but then non-verbal gestures are often misinterpreted and there is always this doubt that what if I am over thinking or reading too much into certain actions. That's why its important to say what you need to say sometimes all of us need that validation in both words and actions that the other person really cares. Also then their are guys like Kunal who are such hard to read so agar pyar hain toh bol doh hain.

P.S red balloon scene makes me skeptical and Ben Baa knows about Kuku now. Haaye Allah please don;t let drama ruin the essence of Misbhir.

Oh God..... It was exactly my thought after watching the episode. You have expressed it beautifully. Yes, i totally agree with you. You have to speak up . Especially in Mishbir's case, i can't see Mishti realising her feelings for Abir in this scenario. Her life is so messed up at this moment that she has started doubting herself. Now Abir needs to give her that confidence that she can rely on him forever and express his feelings. I know it's not that easy though.

Kya karun... I am a die hard Mishbir fan.❤️after seeing the long list of their enemies i am a bit scared.😆

Originally posted by: meen123

haan i know🤗 or kuch ni to I feel apne dimaag ko khali karna ho to definitely bata do , irrespective of the other party's answer

Irrespective I'm very proud of the people who put themselves out.

maine joke kia tha. makes me wonder agar Kuhu khud bole i love you Kunal. uska response hoga kya?(i know it though) I'm pretty sure he's gonna ridicule her or maybe not ki uska anti mishti partner chala jayega. Ugh

@bold- exactly meri behan. jyada se jyada kya hoga. Rejection,right?aur hum apne normal life mei aajayenge. Back to square one.For a guy like kunal,i will prefer to maintain a 100 ft distance rule.😆

I have a feeling Kunal has soft corner for Kuhu. He will never reject her directly.He never liked Mishti,that's why never made any efforts. par kuhu ke sath,thoda alag equation hei ushka.dono bilkul ek jaise hein.That's why i don't like both of them.