@EtTu –great post. Below, I think is the crux of MishBir. Abir runs away from home. Because it does not feel like home. Its not simple, its not khubsoorat the way he imagines it. Its complicated and a landmine.
Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus
'Gharjaisa, simple sa sidha sa lekin bahut khoosurat'.
Originally posted by: shan2430
Does she know Abir painted her?Does she know Abir has her photos? Did she know Abir had her earring till 2 episodes back? Did Abir say or give any indications to her at all ? Then how is she to guess Abir's feelings, esp when she is on a supposed marital courtship with his brother! At least she is being true to this courtship thing.And that's just why she made that inference abt Kunal after the fire. He was standing right there and she was dazed. She sees Abir as her own and she does not need to make any judgements abt him. For her to realize it as love will take a while. Right now she has been forced to think of Kunal.
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Like did she take advantage of Abir or his emotions? As I see it, she sees Abir as a very dear friend whom she trusts immensely. He inspires her. And she in return is a very loving friend too. She tries to look out for him too. Don't we hv such friends in real life?It's unfair to blame her in any way at this stage atleast. She just needs time,but the way things are moving, she may not get it. Not her fault really.
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As for Kunal, I like his character too. Let's not forget he ran into the fire too , which is not a easy thing to do. So he can't be denied any credit for saving Mishti.
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Abir is of course a darling., the main reason for me watching the show. The most perfect male lead I hv seen till date. Mishbir pair is really nice.
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The CVs have done a great job in trying to keep it as decent as possible.
Originally posted by: shan2430
But I see it this way- she knows Abir is her own subconsciously and expects him to be there for her, but for Kunal to go in and help is a big thing for her. May be for that and to push story forward with kunal-mishti, the dialog was added. I don't look at it as a big let down yet. Lets see if she remembers Abir in the coming episodes after fire. I hope she does. She should. I just feel Mishti needs time to process.She herself hasn't understood how she risked her life for just Abir's painting.Before she pauses to analyse, Kunal is again going to be thrust on her. This is my take on her:)))
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I agree abt Kunal taking creditfor flowers etc...it gives a wrong impression. But it's consistent with his character. Thats the way he is with all. But thankfully they haven't shown Mishti getting overly impressed or carried away by this. Unless I hv missed some episodes. Though they need to push for Kunal-Mishti due to storyline right now, I still feel the makers hv kept it as decent as possible.No OTT closeness, dreams etc e.. so I am ok with whatever is shown till now. No complaints.
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Thank you for making the posts @Shan. You summarised Mishti. She is a master compartmentaliser. With her complicated childhood and adolescence there was no other way she could do it. Her foster parents and their family members have a bizzare relationship with her. She looks at one relation through one lens and she is done. It’s a very linear way of thinking because if she starts branching out, it will get too complex. She just needs to know that she won’t be abandoned the way her dad did and Kunal ticks that box
In fact, I don’t know if the level-headed girl in Mishti will ever choose someone like Abir as her Life partner (she will definitely fall in love with someone like Abir, but would she like to depend on him?)because Abir leaves his family members behind and goes AWOL… her heart will get pulled towards him.. but her mind might not find it very practical
This is where her being “ghar jaisa” will be the perfect match for Abir. He needs a “home” to stay in and she needs a partner who comes home
Edited by thedramaqueen - 6 years ago