YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #112 - Page 75

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

yes i am friends with abhinav fans on x

I don't like any character in gen 3 including leads. I don't like gen 4 lead characters too. Yet I watch the show for time pass for only drama. But I got categorised as gen 3 fan whenever I criticise lead characters. Same way I won't deny abhira sometimes gets unwarranted hate. But I see this from both sides. Even abhir's cheating also gets linked to gen 3 characters. I wish people treat characters based on their actions instead of their parents or blood.

I miss those days when we had just one NFZ.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

I don't like any character in gen 3 including leads. I don't like gen 4 lead characters too. Yet I watch the show for time pass for only drama. But I got categorised as gen 3 fan whenever I criticise lead characters. Same way I won't deny abhira sometimes gets unwarranted hate. But I see this from both sides. Even abhir's cheating also gets linked to gen 3 characters. I wish people treat characters based on their actions instead of their parents or blood.

Also some people have no fav character in gen 4. But if they go through personal attacks while trolling a character they will hate the character even more. They will ensure to troll the characters more and more

When everything is settled then people come with some posts to bring gen 3 into discussion just to enjoy riling up and indirectly abhira will face the impact of those posts. As people tend to attack their soft spot. So it's vein to control this fandom wars. I myself decided to call abhira as kachri as I was angry that people do moral police and call people as uneducated and all. But then i still use abhira as it was just a response for those people and i had no intention to call a character with such names unless i just want to have some fun 😄

Everything aside....Both of them look good in these outfits....

https://x.com/yellowgoldens/status/1909786905174065468

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I don't think the problem was ever having different preferences or criticising Abhira. Her own fans criticizes her. It's all about below the belt statements. Saying things "Abhira is khokless" does not come under the category criticism, trolling. That comes under the category crass and despicable.

I don't like Ruhi. But I have always defended her when people have made below the belt statements. Or when people insulted her as mother or said that she didn't deserve her baby back. No she absolutely did. Neither did I blame Ruhi for her miscarriage. Like some people did with Abhira. Or called her grief over losing her child as "natak"

Neither have I ever made below the belt comments about Garvita or edited her pictures to troll her. Just for the fun it. My dislike for her character has never extended to the actor.

Or even Harshad for that matter. I didn't like Abhimanyu and I find his fd crass. But that has never made me make below the belt comments about him, his looks, his body. As people have been doing here to Sam.

It's about understanding the fact that at the end of the day, everyone is allowed to have their opinion. But it also very important to understand where to do the draw line . Fertility and martial rape issues are extremely sensitive and should not be made fun of. Not to be used in stupid fd wars.

Also, looking down on others opinion. Harmless push and pull is ok. But when you go around making snooty remarks. Then that's problem.

Please. Please. Stop with gaslighting. "Atleast we don't insult real life people" "we are just criticising".

No. Saying "Abhira is khokless" is not criticisms. It's very telling of the extreme unnecessary hate for a fictional character. I mean why would you go so below the belt for mere fictional character? Why?

I think it's best we draw a line here. Not everyone is going to think the same way, and if someone is unwilling to acknowledge their own biases, there’s only so much we can say or do. At the end of the day, conversations like these just go in circles.

And to be fair, I’ll admit that both sides have been at fault. Just because we might not personally indulge in name-calling or negativity doesn’t mean that other Abhira, Ruhi, Abhimanyu, Abhinav fans haven’t said worse to each other. There's been a lot of back-and-forth from both ends, and that’s part of the larger problem too.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

I don't like any character in gen 3 including leads. I don't like gen 4 lead characters too. Yet I watch the show for time pass for only drama. But I got categorised as gen 3 fan whenever I criticise lead characters. Same way I won't deny abhira sometimes gets unwarranted hate. But I see this from both sides. Even abhir's cheating also gets linked to gen 3 characters. I wish people treat characters based on their actions instead of their parents or blood.

There’s actually a whole thread accusing Abhir of being a cheater just because of his khoon and khandaan, and some even go as far as questioning his parvarish. It’s pretty disturbing how people are so quick to reduce a child's behavior to genetics or lineage, completely ignoring the environment he’s been raised in or the complexities of his situation.

P.S.: That doesn't excuse Abhir cheating on his wife.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

I think it's best we draw a line here. Not everyone is going to think the same way, and if someone is unwilling to acknowledge their own biases, there’s only so much we can say or do. At the end of the day, conversations like these just go in circles.

And to be fair, I’ll admit that both sides have been at fault. Just because we might not personally indulge in name-calling or negativity doesn’t mean that other Abhira, Ruhi, Abhimanyu, Abhinav fans haven’t said worse to each other. There's been a lot of back-and-forth from both ends, and that’s part of the larger problem too.

Honestly I am so done with constant gen 3 kalesh. Abhimanyu. Abhinav. Baccha chor. paternity fraud. Khoon. Khandaan. Sl*t shaming Akshara. The absolute classist remarks against Abhinav. As if being driver something filthy to be looked down upon.

Shaming Abhira for her infertility. Age shaming, body shaming.

Or even saying that Ruhi is getting her karma. Or she didn't deserve to be Daksh s mother.

But can't do anything about it. It will continue even after this gen ends. Gen after that. Gen after that

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

I don't remember seeing any defences when people were 'wishing' for Ruhi to be Kokhless or for her Kokh to be thrown in the dustbin or that she should have a miscarriage or when she was refered to as Raste ki Sasti R**** and Wh*re or that she should be in Heeramandi. She was even romantically linked to her brother Abhir once. Why weren't there any defences for Pakhi Didi when she is mocked for being Kokhless Virgin? Simple cause audience do bhed bhav between heroines and vamps. There is also a difference between merely stating something and literally 'wishing' for something for sadistic pleasure. I didn't want to use the Kokhless word as i personally find it gross but if it fine to use for the vamp then why not the FL? Isn't it despicable to wish for a woman to suffer a miscarriage and for an innocent foetus to die just because it was born from the womb of the vamp and not the FL ?

I so agree, I feel disgusted with comments and posts that abuse ru after her change. .now pankas want dakshu to be bsp and ab ro have both kids .... saying about ar can give kd better upbringing..thoda zyada nahi hua ..they don't even want ru to have solace and no benefit doubt

She thought ar was to in deep sleep for that I saw so many eww posts and tweets ..but no one acknowledged later she pushed away once she realised..

If they can defend leads even running away with dakshu calling it turmoil and not a sin ..

Still many pankas don't want pookie coz ru is carrying it ..I don't want coz I want ru to grieve without trouble or guilt

https://x.com/admirer_rp_sam/status/1909614516213596644?s=46&t=dzKZB2uU1tqYutZBFzHRvg

Love this episode!!!

https://youtu.be/e5uJCKO6DT8?si=PHnhIBYvt8WGvrP0