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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Swathi.A

There was a show in Tamil about surrogacy after Nayanthara welcomed her kids via surrogacy and they bought a surrogate to talk about her experience.. She admitted she did it for money and that she was not shown that baby's face, never knew the opposite party as well.. Only mediators took care of everything and money was given regularly.. Though it is illegal it might be happening at many places silently..

I watched that episode of Neeya Naana. It was a bit triggering honestly. By the time episode aired, the law was fully in place and the episode itself was irrelevantly discussed and most seemed to argue abt commercial surrogacy. The lady who came seemed sad but they commercialized on her unnecessary feelings abt cutting cake for the child and how she feels it’s hers. Ppl willingly sign up for this stuff and complain later smiley44
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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

surrogacy via outsider by paying money is illegal. Here is the reference

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Thanks! Then according to this - they haven’t been married for 5 years? It’s barely been 3-4 years right?


Thanks, I was wondering why Ruhi and none of the elders and youngers as old she fulfills the requirement

Charu & Kiara don’t have their own kid yet and the other women’s are too old

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

Thanks! Then according to this - they haven’t been married for 5 years? It’s barely been 3-4 years right?


Thanks, I was wondering why Ruhi and none of the elders and youngers as old she fulfills the requirement

Charu & Kiara don’t have their own kid yet and the other women’s are too old

Only manisha can potentially qualify if she meets age requirement..others are too old

Usa Columbia cyprus mexico are some countries where commercial surrogacy is viable and some celebs do go der for it

Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Ambajee

I watched that episode of Neeya Naana. It was a bit triggering honestly. By the time episode aired, the law was fully in place and the episode itself was irrelevantly discussed and most seemed to argue abt commercial surrogacy. The lady who came seemed sad but they commercialized on her unnecessary feelings abt cutting cake for the child and how she feels it’s hers. Ppl willingly sign up for this stuff and complain later smiley44

I was in dilemma post that episode.. On one side I felt bad when she said she misses baby often but later on as she spoke i was like dint u know already about what will happen after 9 months ? You signed up for it how is the other party wrong here.. But that episode ended on bad note.. They called surrogacy itself as wrong and selfishly exploiting other women instead of questioning only commercial surrogacy..

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Posted: 4 months ago
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IVF is such a sensitive topic... Kahin aur ban ho na ho... But iTv mein definetly ban hona chahiye and it should be illegal to air such tracks in India...

Producers should be jailed for it...

Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Swathi.A

I was in dilemma post that episode.. On one side I felt bad when she said she misses baby often but later on as she spoke i was like dint u know already about what will happen after 9 months ? You signed up for it how is the other party wrong here.. But that episode ended on bad note.. They called surrogacy itself as wrong and selfishly exploiting other women instead of questioning only commercial surrogacy..

Exactly my thoughts. I couldn’t believe the judgmental note on one side arguing abt adoption and asking to normalize childless. Without society ever acknowledging the normalization of perfect family with kids, we shouldn’t be asking couple to go through it!
Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Ambajee

Exactly my thoughts. I couldn’t believe the judgmental note on one side arguing abt adoption and asking to normalize childless. Without society ever acknowledging the normalization of perfect family with kids, we shouldn’t be asking couple to go through it!

Yeah I was upset how they had chance to educate people but ended up shaming women for her choice and urging women to be childless if they can't conceive and winning award for it .. 🤦‍♀

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Swathi.A

There was a show in Tamil about surrogacy after Nayanthara welcomed her kids via surrogacy and they bought a surrogate to talk about her experience.. She admitted she did it for money and that she was not shown that baby's face, never knew the opposite party as well.. Only mediators took care of everything and money was given regularly.. Though it is illegal it might be happening at many places silently..

there’s countries in Europe and even the USA …where it can be done for profit. I think even Canada allows surrogacy for profit. I’m sure I read that on Google.. But on the other hand.. not only India..there’s many other countries where surrogacy can’t be done for profit. So the biological parents don’t pay the surrogate..but they pay for her medical expenses and also if she’s lost income due to the pregnancy..they compensate her for that..
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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Swathi.A

I was in dilemma post that episode.. On one side I felt bad when she said she misses baby often but later on as she spoke i was like dint u know already about what will happen after 9 months ? You signed up for it how is the other party wrong here.. But that episode ended on bad note.. They called surrogacy itself as wrong and selfishly exploiting other women instead of questioning only commercial surrogacy..

Offcourse surrogacy is morally and ethically wrong but materialistic and primitive mindset people who see women only as child bearers will deem it fine.

Exploiting someone by taking advantage of her financial crisis or emotionally manipulate her to carry a baby and eventually separate it from the mother via some stupid contact, only perverts can find this thing to be right.

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Posted: 4 months ago
#20

Originally posted by: ThukkadRajaShah

Offcourse surrogacy is morally and ethically wrong but materialistic and primitive mindset people who see women only as child bearers will deem it fine.

Exploiting someone by taking advantage of her financial crisis or emotionally manipulate her to carry a baby and eventually separate it from the mother via some stupid contact, only perverts can find this thing to be right.

Again why are u shaming people for their choices when other person is ready as well.. Some people don't even take money but do it out of love for others.. How it is wrong?

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