Vidya mata g key ache sanskar 
Character assassinate a woman and her mother for verbal one year deal despite being legally married to your supposed son, unlike your illegal marriage and having illegitimate relationship with a man knowing that his wife is alive.
Emotionally blackmail your son to leave a woman who is infertile, or give him ultimatum to choose between his supposed mother and would be wife, curse and treat a woman like a shit because of infertility, gaslight your supposed son for choosing his life-partner when she needed him the most.
Emotionally blackmail your son to take revenge on his wife, by humiliating her publicly.
Ask your supposed son to choose between the birth mother and you, after intentionally separating him from his birth mother for 30 years, lying to him for years.
Let your real son push and call your supposed son sutela and paraya. Stop your real son from saving his wife and biological child and ask your stepson/supposed son to jump in fire to fulfill responsibilities of your real son.
Character assassinate your DIL infront of your son expecting him to leave her based on your whims and demands.
Armaan was adarsh beta and couldn't voice his opinion before Abhira came to his life because this ache sankar wali fake mata indebted, conditional and controlled him to never express his disappointment or to argue and take stand for himself and his dead mother. The way she has been a mute spectator to KP's wrath towards Armaan every single time. But would move heaven and earth if her own son Rohit was treated even 10% of the way Armaan was treated. She is proud of her parvarish and shaping up Armaan in a way that he was chabi wala gudda for his family. No palne wala should be proud of taking away innocence, childhood, sense of belonging, unconditonal love from his/her child.
Armaan's blind devotion towards his family even if they were wrong was never a plus point. Vidya mata's puppeting shouldn't be hailed as achi parvarish. Armaan has been inherently good with soft heart who redeemed not victimized himself after hurting people and the credit shouldn't be given to his abuser. Shivani's dialogues regarding how difficult it would have been for Vidya that time also reflect 7th century thinking of DKP, a woman replacing another woman without her death/divorce, living her life is justified because it was difficult to leave useless sahara like Madhav? Vidya might've loved Armaan or got attached to Armaan in real or given him love of a mother he craved for in years, but she also conditioned him, let him get mistreated and abused, let him feel like an outsider in his family by making him believe that them accepting the motherless child is a biggest favor, that also after separating him from his mother. Armaan would've been completely different Armaan, free of debt, free of blind devotion and would've cherished all happy moments of his life without baggage and guilt, without fear of being abandoned if he stopped being an adarsh beta.
Edited by ShadowImbue - 5 months ago
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