So a grieving mother’s perspective..

We know how much Manjiri was cursed because she lost her marbles and accused Akshara after her adult grown up son Neil’s death. If Abhira can kidnap a one month old kid and can’t bear this separation, then was it really wrong for Manjiri to succumb to her bitter self after losing Neil? Also not to say running away after a disaster? Akshara and Abhira running away like this especially when babies are involved, why writers think that we should feel sorry for such people? These women upon grieve end up hiding and kidnapping and their sorry asses are sold as some exemplary feminists in 2024? ITV needs serious revamping. Paternity fraud, baby kidnapping, are extreme crimes and innocents suffer in real world, no way they shall be glorified as some act of being a powerful women. PERIOD.

When FL gets hurt it's blood

When Pl gets hurt it's tomato sauce

That's what happened in Mandir today. Everyone can see Abheera's pain, but why no one came forward for Roohi? She was mourning her living baby these many weeks/months.

So Abheera would die without a baby, but Roohi is strong enough to survive.

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

When FL gets hurt it's blood

When Pl gets hurt it's tomato sauce

That's what happened in Mandir today. Everyone can see Abheera's pain, but why no one came forward for Roohi? She was mourning her living baby these many weeks/months.

So Abheera would die without a baby, but Roohi is strong enough to survive.

Actually that shows Abhira’s lack of grit and Ruhi’s strength, isn’t that is why characters like Abhira are deemed to be weak and lacking self respect. Also the entire scene was poor, to evoke sympathy for the character they should have build up the situation, instead for some odd reason sympathies were built up for Ruhi instead.

Also the show has enough examples of bad mothers, be it Swarna, Vidya, Naira, Akshara 2, and now Ruhi and Abhira. That’s why I said mothers losing their marbles shall have the initial buildup, in gen 3, Manjari’s story was so well written, surviving an abusive marriage and bringing up Neil, if that doesn’t break your heart and this Abhira does who by the way was taking the baby to court (I swear that’s considered dumb in every medical field) then I swear writers are doing sasta nasha.

Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi

Actually that shows Anita’s lack of grit and Ruhi’s strength, isn’t that is why characters like Abhira are deemed to be weak and lacking self respect. Also the entire scene was poor, to evoke sympathy for the character they should have build up the situation, instead for some odd reason sympathies were built up for Ruhi instead.

Also the show has enough examples of bad mothers, be it Swarna, Vidya, Naira, Akshara 2, and now Ruhi and Abhira. That’s why I said mothers losing their marbles shall have the initial buildup, in gen 3, Manjari’s story was so well written, surviving an abusive marriage and bringing up Neil, if that doesn’t break your heart and this chapri Abhira does who by the way was taking the baby to court (I swear that’s considered dumb in every medical field) then I swear writers are doing sasta nasha.

I don’t know if you understand the actual meaning behind the word or you used it mistakenly, but please be mindful!! We don’t need to use castes of real people as derogatory terms to win internet brownie points.

https://www.espncricinfo.com/story/sidharth-monga-why-indian-players-need-to-be-more-aware-of-caste-privilege-and-oppression-1355275

Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi

We know how much Manjiri was cursed because she lost her marbles and accused Akshara after her adult grown up son Neil’s death. If Abhira can kidnap a one month old kid and can’t bear this separation, then was it really wrong for Manjiri to succumb to her bitter self after losing Neil? Also not to say running away after a disaster? Akshara and Abhira running away like this especially when babies are involved, why writers think that we should feel sorry for such people? These women upon grieve end up hiding and kidnapping and their sorry asses are sold as some exemplary feminists in 2024? ITV needs serious revamping. Paternity fraud, baby kidnapping, are extreme crimes and innocents suffer in real world, no way they shall be glorified as some act of being a powerful women. PERIOD.

Ye hai Double standards. FL's one month >>>>>> Manjiri's decades with Neil.

One can't compare grief and motherhood but people unfortunately do.

Abhira's pain and denial is okay. But unlike Naira who went into shock and acted impulsively and locked herself with Krish and then slowly regained her composition and after spending sometime with him let him, Abhira will go to Goenka Villa, regained consciousness, think and take the descision of taking the baby away. She had enough time to pack stuff in her pink potli. I can obviously give her a pass but she can't be compared to Naira like everyone is comparing. Whatever Naira did happened with short time.

Also Manjiri's bitterness was given. She loved Akshara like the daughter she never had. At every turn, she supported and wanted Akshu by her side. Obviously her descision was not very rational but her grief can be accepted.

And Ruhi is right (not about Abhira though) how the ones who knew the truth did not care when she was begging and crying for her child daily. How people were celebrating baby Daksh and Abhira without minding her grief.

Abhira's grief is definitely real and very valid but it doesn't diminish what the other mothers went through.

Originally posted by: Isolophiliac00

I don’t know if you understand the actual meaning behind the word or you used it mistakenly, but please be mindful!! We don’t need to use castes of real people as derogatory terms to win internet brownie points.

https://www.espncricinfo.com/story/sidharth-monga-why-indian-players-need-to-be-more-aware-of-caste-privilege-and-oppression-1355275

I was t aware of the word being specifically for caste, thanks for the suggestion. I edited my post.

Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi

I was t aware of the word being specifically for caste, thanks for the suggestion. I edited my post.

Appreciate it! 👍

Thank you

I really liked manjari and abhimanyu. I don't know what manjari did as i have skipped some of the parts of gen 3. But whatever i have seen manjari only fights for happiness of her family.

I usually analyze character by putting myself in that situation.

If i was in place of manjari and if get to know my dil due to her mahanta syndrome became a catalyst in getting my son killed and my grand children's death. I will hate her to the core. As when she did not prioritize my family over her mahanta syndrome she should definitely should not marry and should take sanyas instead so that ppl don't keep expectations from her.

If i was in Abhimanyu's place who treated neil as his son more than brother and he gets to know from police 10 minute wait karthe toh neil zinda rehtha toh i would have definitely divorced my wife too as I don't want to loose anymore family members. He had withnessed enough carelessness and she was constantly being careless even when people were mourning which got manjari admitted to hospital.

If I was in AK'S place i never would have let neil go out. I would stopped by giving my kasam as i already know police 10 minute main ajayenge. Putting his life into risk and risking those kids life too just because i can not wait for 10 minutes or i can't follow them silently is not something i will do.

Even if there was no 10 minute thing and if i want to save those kids i would have gave my kasam to neil to not to come out and sacrificed my life instead of letting him sacrifice himself for my mahanta syndrome. This is the major reason i can not connect with ak.

Manjhari loved Neil Luke his real mother. She equally loved abhir ruhi as her grandkids.

Agar mahaa kaandmata ke genes activate nahi huye hote toh sab khushi khushi rehte.