So a grieving mother’s perspective.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

When FL gets hurt it's blood

When Pl gets hurt it's tomato sauce

That's what happened in Mandir today. Everyone can see Abheera's pain, but why no one came forward for Roohi? She was mourning her living baby these many weeks/months.

So Abheera would die without a baby, but Roohi is strong enough to survive.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Manjhari loved Neil Luke his real mother. She equally loved abhir ruhi as her grandkids.

Agar mahaa kaandmata ke genes activate nahi huye hote toh sab khushi khushi rehte.

LOOOOOOL no she didn't. She let him think he was some street kid who was lucky to be adopted for 20+ years of his life. She also let his father constantly bash him and treat him like he was trash. All of that could've been prevented if she had just told Harsh the truth that he was Neils father and told Neil that Harsh was his father but she didn't and wouldn't have had Akshara not revealed it.

Manjari herself was a victim of DV. How could she stand up for Neil. She did what she could. She adopted him and raised him like her own kid.

So lets stop blaming Manjari for everything. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Manjari herself was a victim of DV. How could she stand up for Neil. She did what she could. She adopted him and raised him like her own kid.

So lets stop blaming Manjari for everything. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Sorry but how exactly did she stand up for Neil? Neil himself called her out on it, even saying that she didn't even need to reveal the truth to Harsh, just Neil himself learning the truth would've been fine but she allowed him to be bullied and belittled for most of his life, making him feel like he was trash she picked up from the streets just for her bio son. Yes she had it tough and was unfortunately a victim of DV but that doesn't excuse her actions in giving Neil a horrible life.

Originally posted by: Blurlaa

Sorry but how exactly did she stand up for Neil? Neil himself called her out on it, even saying that she didn't even need to reveal the truth to Harsh, just Neil himself learning the truth would've been fine but she allowed him to be bullied and belittled for most of his life, making him feel like he was trash she picked up from the streets just for her bio son. Yes she had it tough and was unfortunately a victim of DV but that doesn't excuse her actions in giving Neil a horrible life.

Originally posted by: Blurlaa

Sorry but how exactly did she stand up for Neil? Neil himself called her out on it, even saying that she didn't even need to reveal the truth to Harsh, just Neil himself learning the truth would've been fine but she allowed him to be bullied and belittled for most of his life, making him feel like he was trash she picked up from the streets just for her bio son. Yes she had it tough and was unfortunately a victim of DV but that doesn't excuse her actions in giving Neil a horrible life.

Okay..

First of all..

You are insulting the surname Birla!!! Its the surname used by lakhs of people. (Real people). Insulting an actual surname just for the hatred for one fictional character 👍🏻

And please read my read my post before commenting. I said how could she stand up for Neil, when she couldn't do it for herself. Yes, she did wrong, but that's all she could do.

And How does it make sense to tell Neil the truth and ask him to hide it lifelong?? Also, Except for Harsh, nobody ill-treated him in Birla house. Everyone else loved Neil.

Originally posted by: Blurlaa

Sorry but how exactly did she stand up for Neil? Neil himself called her out on it, even saying that she didn't even need to reveal the truth to Harsh, just Neil himself learning the truth would've been fine but she allowed him to be bullied and belittled for most of his life, making him feel like he was trash she picked up from the streets just for her bio son. Yes she had it tough and was unfortunately a victim of DV but that doesn't excuse her actions in giving Neil a horrible life.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I really liked manjari and abhimanyu. I don't know what manjari did as i have skipped some of the parts of gen 3. But whatever i have seen manjari only fights for happiness of her family.

I usually analyze character by putting myself in that situation.

If i was in place of manjari and if get to know my dil due to her mahanta syndrome became a catalyst in getting my son killed and my grand children's death. I will hate her to the core. As when she did not prioritize my family over her mahanta syndrome she should definitely should not marry and should take sanyas instead so that ppl don't keep expectations from her.

If i was in Abhimanyu's place who treated neil as his son more than brother and he gets to know from police 10 minute wait karthe toh neil zinda rehtha toh i would have definitely divorced my wife too as I don't want to loose anymore family members. He had withnessed enough carelessness and she was constantly being careless even when people were mourning which got manjari admitted to hospital.

If I was in AK'S place i never would have let neil go out. I would stopped by giving my kasam as i already know police 10 minute main ajayenge. Putting his life into risk and risking those kids life too just because i can not wait for 10 minutes or i can't follow them silently is not something i will do.

Even if there was no 10 minute thing and if i want to save those kids i would have gave my kasam to neil to not to come out and sacrificed my life instead of letting him sacrifice himself for my mahanta syndrome. This is the major reason i can not connect with ak.

Plus in true lub which sis humiliated sis in mantap ..could have ru. Off after roka only

Which sis does impulsive Kands and keeps running away

Originally posted by: Blurlaa

LOOOOOOL no she didn't. She let him think he was some street kid who was lucky to be adopted for 20+ years of his life. She also let his father constantly bash him and treat him like he was trash. All of that could've been prevented if she had just told Harsh the truth that he was Neils father and told Neil that Harsh was his father but she didn't and wouldn't have had Akshara not revealed it.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I really liked manjari and abhimanyu. I don't know what manjari did as i have skipped some of the parts of gen 3. But whatever i have seen manjari only fights for happiness of her family.

I usually analyze character by putting myself in that situation.

If i was in place of manjari and if get to know my dil due to her mahanta syndrome became a catalyst in getting my son killed and my grand children's death. I will hate her to the core. As when she did not prioritize my family over her mahanta syndrome she should definitely should not marry and should take sanyas instead so that ppl don't keep expectations from her.

If i was in Abhimanyu's place who treated neil as his son more than brother and he gets to know from police 10 minute wait karthe toh neil zinda rehtha toh i would have definitely divorced my wife too as I don't want to loose anymore family members. He had withnessed enough carelessness and she was constantly being careless even when people were mourning which got manjari admitted to hospital.

If I was in AK'S place i never would have let neil go out. I would stopped by giving my kasam as i already know police 10 minute main ajayenge. Putting his life into risk and risking those kids life too just because i can not wait for 10 minutes or i can't follow them silently is not something i will do.

Even if there was no 10 minute thing and if i want to save those kids i would have gave my kasam to neil to not to come out and sacrificed my life instead of letting him sacrifice himself for my mahanta syndrome. This is the major reason i can not connect with ak.

Neil was Arohi's husband, Manjiri's son, Abhimanyu's brother, Akshara could not put her grief aside and be there with her sister and husband in their worst, she chose to run away by blaming them for not sympathizing her. If she was grieving her dead unborn, Manjiri was grieving her freaking adult son, no way Akshara was right unless we want glorification of foolish female leads in ITV, and we have many, Prerna in Kasauti was dumb and somehow led to Prem's death and Anurag dumped her, same with Ishita somehow being dumb led to Ruhi's kidnapping? I forgot .. dammit, Naira and Swarna's son's death, Akshara and Neil's death, too much dumbness is there in ITV.

PTV is 2 degrees higher, Male leads directly kill female lead's siblings and then the love story starts.. LOL