How do anyone rate akshu as mother ???? - Page 3

Akshu is a closed chapter..

Although I feel tht she could've done things differently but moving on with abhinav wasn't one of them ..moving on with abhim after abhinavs death actually killed her character ..

She did wrong by hiding abhirs existence from abhim ..she was non confrontation that's her biggest flaw..no idea it was intentional but the writers were extremely unfair to her ..she didn't have to take arohis death blame on her ..n if she had to, tell the goenkas the real story..she could've just moved to a diff city & they cud Chuck out goenkas from the picture and kept kairav instead for this gen ..

Originally posted by: Krinya

Akshu is a closed chapter..

Although I feel tht she could've done things differently but moving on with abhinav wasn't one of them ..moving on with abhim after abhinavs death actually killed her character ..

She did wrong by hiding abhirs existence from abhim ..she was non confrontation that's her biggest flaw..no idea it was intentional but the writers were extremely unfair to her ..she didn't have to take arohis death blame on her ..n if she had to, tell the goenkas the real story..she could've just moved to a diff city & they cud Chuck out goenkas from the picture and kept kairav instead for this gen ..

💯 match with my thoughts ❤️. .When it comes to gen 3 discussion, we both have always been on same page.

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💯👏🏻!! Agree with every word you said… The thing that annoys me the most about Akchoo is her replacement policy.. yeh nahi toh woh sahi, woh nahi toh koi aur sahi… she literally lived all her life replacing people and that’s just so disgusting!!

First replaced Abhi with Nav. Then within a month of nav’s death went back to Abhi… was about to abort Abheera for Abhir and then erased Abhir for Abheera..

And the shraad part is so true.. my friend's elder sister died when she’s was 9. My friend was just few months old then, still she knows about her elder sister. There are photos of her in their house.. what Ak did is inhumane in my eyes.. you don’t erase your loved ones like that… she never loved anyone truly in her life.. and that’s why died hearing she’s hated by her family..

I don’t buy the theory she wanted to protect Abheera.. she literally brought her up in a false bubble ab use jatke mil rahe hai.. coz sach kabhi na kabhi toh bahar aata… Ab’s life would’ve been so much better had she known these truths from her mother.. Ak was just guilty for ruining so many lives.. and I agree with Ruhi that all that Abheera is facing now is just extended karma of her mom..

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Agree with above , plus again she ran after aru died ...she could have taken manyu help to find a counselor and helped ru out ..stuck to truth ..

And they left Ruhi behind ...

I don't agree with abira need not know things, I mean atleast her son she must have done the yearly shradh Pooja 😥😥😥😥😥 ..

She had a successful singing career never understood why she made jams ..why when manyu threw her she did not go to gorillas

I mean she did pay some neglect part in niel death who puts themselves in trouble..they could have looped cops ..

She moved on from nav so fast ...

She was too impulsive

Now shippers or individual lovers of her pls don't come at me ..I don't like impulsive peep or peep who run away from situation

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Akshu is the character I feel is most pathetic written character. But I used to like her love for abhir her miracle baby. Akshu love for her miracle baby was the only thing I admired in s3.

But how easily she removed his existence from her life. There was no trace,no mention of abhir in 22 damn years.

Parents do loose their kids due to accident or some other reason. But they keep their memories. There are shraddh pooja for their soul peace. There are pics with garland at home.

But Akshu decided to replace abhir with abhira just like that.

What kind of pathetic mother akshu was to abhir. I have no words how to understand this pathetic character.

akshu was a wonderful mom...and the report card is in the form of abhira....the wonderful person that she is...and the way akshu has brought her up...compare her to any kid...be in ruhi...armaan rohit....she is the best..and the credit goes to akshu's parvarish...

and if u had the love for akshu for her love for abhir...the magical baby...y not for her love for abhira too...y would u expect akshu to make abhira ki life complicated...y canst u love her to keep abhira ki life simple...when abhir was no more...it is indeed painful to tell ur child about the death of older siblings..and that too when abhira was so young when akshu left her...

agar sach batana itna zaroori hai...to y dont question akshu...ki usne manyu ka sach abhir ko kyun nahi bataya...y did she not telll the baby abhir...ki uske bio papa ne kya kiya...and so abhinav is so great...bio papa ne to mamma ko nikaal diya and ignored all the calls that mamma made to tell about his existence...even after what he did to mamma...abhir is alive onnly because of his papa...abhinav....tab to akshu ko yeh sach bata dena chahoye tha...

she was a wonderful mom...keeping all negativities away from her kids...as much as possible...isi liye..even after abhir came to know abhout manyu..she did not tell what manyu had done to her....warna..the love abhir had for akshu....usse woh manyu ko sir to kya hi bulata....per maar kar bhaga deta...😂

Originally posted by: India_TV

she was a great mom....

as a person, she was taken for granted by her relatives.....

she has always been the most precious person...for her husband and the two kids....

even her ex husband...took her for granted....initially....and once he realised that he has lost her forever...he regretted it big time....and knew how precious she was...and so left EVRYTHING and EVERYONE.....just to b with her...in whatever capacity she let him be...

that was the power of Akshara!!

Her kids k liye voh sab kuch rahi hei I felt bad seeing the way abhir cried today.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Akshu is the character I feel is most pathetic written character. But I used to like her love for abhir her miracle baby. Akshu love for her miracle baby was the only thing I admired in s3.

But how easily she removed his existence from her life. There was no trace,no mention of abhir in 22 damn years.

Parents do loose their kids due to accident or some other reason. But they keep their memories. There are shraddh pooja for their soul peace. There are pics with garland at home.

But Akshu decided to replace abhir with abhira just like that.

What kind of pathetic mother akshu was to abhir. I have no words how to understand this pathetic character.

Maybe she didn't want to mention it to her daughter because it would be triggering for her as well. She lost her baby perhaps her way of dealing with the trauma was burying it deep so she could pretend to forget about it. She did remember though they showed her looking at the accident list in Musoorie resort later on when Yuvi was threatening them. Everyone has a different way of dealing with grief also Akshu was shown to have mental health issues with panic attacks so in her case it totally makes sense that she buried her trauma and sadness for her lost child deep within herself as a coping mechanism. I mean she had a lot on her plate. Her new baby, no money and her career as well.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Agree, which mother does this ..plus she could have asked her to join some hostel or everything..I mean usually resort or business owners have 3 months or expenses aka cash flow..

Again impulsive like her mother..

She is a lawyer and her mom was one ..she could not diff btw premature and Fully grown..

No premature mom will expose kid b fore it 6 months ( pls this part is no fun , esp in premature kids first 4 months is all about gaining weight, check ups to see if all is ok, immunity, sleepless nights, colic - any change causes so much dev issues 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥 would not wish to an enemy ..I have a niece in extd fam who has poor vision now due to premature born 😥😥)

What nath function episode voh pur function akshara k saving k through hi tha pehele episode dekho then baat karo I cm understand you people won't like her as he doesn't give a damn about manyu.

Originally posted by: Seafarer

She was a perfect mother. She bought Abhira up beautifully didn't let her own past be a shadow for Abhira and made sure that Abhira was protected even in her last breaths. Sure she didn't tell Abhira about Abhir and saved her the pain of loosing sibling long before her birth as she believed Abhir to be no more. I know certain fan groups are targetting Akshara calling her vile names.. Maybe they will realize once they themselves become a mother the pain mother goes through so that her child stays happy and positive.

That's not how dead are treated..akshara surely wanted abhira to live with the pain of losing her father, but for some reason , not her dead sibling ? She can keep a photo of abhinav but not abhir ?

Akshara for sure was a good mother to abhira (except for some debatable points ) , but she failed miserably when it comes to abhir & ruhi ....only if she didn't take the blame for arohis death uselessly , ruhi , abhir and abhira would be better than what they're now ..she wanted to shield ruhi from some pain toh she went away instead of dealing with the situation?

Today abhir raised some valid points but he won't get his answers..like Manish had no answer ..he's guilty as charged..likewise it's OK if akshara was flawed & her flaws can be pointed out..she wasn't a divine character ..

There are many mothers on forum who know the value of kid and how protectively a mother rises kid. But saving abhira from her past trauma she didn't tell the truths or reality of her life. Which abheera is facing now. If abheera was in different place she has no need to get her mom past back. A kid can't question a mother on her life or her survival for situations but kid has haq to know everything as the memories from parents. Asfrom nav side nothing there ak rised her as real orphan legacy with none on their side. If only ak told what all happened now situations won't be complicated. If ak mentioned how abhir was close to her and she sees abhir in abhira loves him today abhir won't be crying. He will easily see ak in abheera. There is no memories nor attachment nor connection. Just accept present as past is coming out for abheera. For her there is no link it's like memory loss only for her take all characters coming in. There is no foundation to riste. With ggs heart connects given an year to form. With ruhi it will never come till end of season.