Love your post...
That's what..normally it was said mother's can't go out coz they have to feed so that problem was taken care of with pumps ..and daksh is on formula...but again ..taking out the baby itself was not ok , ye faltu parivR specially goenkas , why can't abhira delegate the responsibility to them ?
She could go out only bec her baby doesn't ask for mother's milk.. otherwise she has to be available every 2 hours ..there r nursing rooms in most public places these days ..
Also this bacha khelta hai toh parivar ka and rota hai toh ma ka , it's with everyone not just her ..bec the baby recognizes mothers touch ....that's why taking care of an infant is exhausting and that's why a mother needs rest & healing ..
I don't Blame the poddars here..sab aisa hi kehte hai. N sach bhi hai.
I will try to explain dono ka POV...
In Abhira's defence: Bachcha is on formula, he can sleep or do whatever. 2-3 hours is not a big deal and family can take care of him. Utna toh manage ho sakta hai. Kya problem hogi and kuch hua toh mei aa jaungi.
In Poddar's defence: Child needs mother at this stage and she is just filling in for someone. So why risk it. Bachcha > job.
Where they have made a bhel is they have have Poddars stance for a 1-2-3 month old while Abhira's stance is more appropriate for 6+ month old baby. Isliye mere hisab se dono match nahi karte and that's why I wrote earlier no one is completely right or no one is completely wrong.
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