Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan
You are right that Abhinav didn't know her hobbies or interests.
Even I used to think initially how a person can be six years in the same room with their spouse and not know any details about past but eventually as the story continued, I understood his nature and how he gave her the space to open up when she was ready, showing his empathy and sensitivity to her trauma.
I feel it is not about knowing every detail of someone's past, but about being supportive and present in the moment. From my perspective, Abhinav respected her personal agency and never overstepped that boundary. Whether or not he knew his wife could sing or ride a bike doesn't matter in the bigger picture. There must be something about him and the way he treated her that Akshara could never forget him.
How can you be supportive and present in the moment without knowing anything. You are a supportive partner/freind be it any relationship of someone when you know who they're exactly.
Only then you can be supportive. He wasn't giving any space lol he wasn't allowed in any of her Space by her. There is a different and that was what executed and shown.
The mere dialogues can be anything but him not knowing anything whether it's her nature, about her hobbies, passion, past whatever is something he chose to do coz one he wasn't allowed to second thats fits with his definition of family. He was a family man in the society so he was happy with the namesake relationship.
Similarly, saying he accepted Akshara with her past is laughable how can you accept something without knowing what it is.
He till the end wasn't aware of what went wrong between AbhiRa and he didn't bother to ask coz that would have hampered his madeup world. That is not a sign of selfless person.
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