abhira has become very annoying now

Why is she doing jale pe namak?? It is rule of thumb that whenever someone has lost, you do not put your win in their face. Ruhi has lost her child, she is grieving HER child. Seeing her mother’s murderer’s grandchild is not going to soothe her right now. It will obviously make her more agitated to see Abhira, her worst enemy’s child right now.

Abhira making Ruhi and Rohit BSP’s parents like you do not do that. Why can’t she just let Ruhi live and grieve right now?? Ruhi will not be happy if her worst enemy’s child calls her mumma when she has lost her own child who should call her mumma. Ruhi can’t stay in the home she is in right now, how does Abhira think Ruhi can see her child properly. It’s almost like Abhira is taking revenge towards Ruhi.

And Abhira saying that the baby will call Ruhi matashree. That is a slap in the face to Ruhi, a huge one in fact. In her mind Abhira’s mom killed her matashree. Do not make her matashree — that is a special space in her heart. Everyone is seeing that Ruhi called the child samaan but nobody is seeing the joke Abhira made about matashree.

And Abhira asking Ruhi to feed the child — why?? Is there not a breast milk bank in the hospital? Is there not formula? WHO MAKES A GRIEVING MOTHER DO THIS? Let the woman grieve. She does not need to feed a child right now.

Abhira is also still too childish and immature to be a mother; she needs to grow up and see the world a bit more.

And also to this sub — why are we so mean to someone who has lost their child? Granted it’s fictional but everyone has a past and everyone learns from it. Doesn’t mean that we justify anything and everything just because Ruhi has troubled Armaan and Abhira in the past.

I agree with your perspective.

Nobody can teach this to someone, people are born with it.

Abhira's portrayal of insensitivity is weird. I never expected this out of her. Can she put herself in Ruhi's shoes and shut the f*ck up.

From shoving the baby in her arms to loitering around her to feed the baby.

You can't breastfeed in stress. In that amount of stress. Idk how Abhira has no milk to feed the baby, and for a moment Abhira is in much better place rt now when compared to Ruhi.

Not defending Ruhi's behaviour towards a child.

And obviously she will have to express breast milk, can't keep it inside.

But the way Abhira reasoned with all the elders, too intelligently countered everybody, saying the baby will call Ruhi mom too, I don't think she is oppressed or a victim.

She takes all descions on her own and never gets influenced by anyone.

So yeah,she always makes a choice,whether good or bad.

And the way Arman parots her every decision. He is literally 8-9 years older to her and has more experience of a joint family and wt not but he will never rightfully have anything to say to his wife.

Are they trying to replace Abhira with all these tracks and dialogues?

She was awesome once though.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

She is not a bad girl, she has a huge heart but I will admit that she behaves like Anupamaa sometimes. I don’t like her overdose of mahaanta. I liked her old self when she was savage and gave it back to people. Sucking up to people like Vidya and Roohi who despise her guts is silly and not like the old Abhira at all. I bet Og Abhira would laugh if she saw her current self. One can argue though that she has been through many traumatic events during the past year so maybe that’s why she has become a selfless mahaan aatma.

I think a lot of the change in Abhira has to do with Armaan. He is the submissive one to the family and in his influence, she has also become submissive. I think a lot of it has started with Armaan's baby asking -- she felt the pressure and that has changed her to become more of a homemaker than a daredevil lawyer.

I hate her character arc, it has completely changed from a low-income household girl --> Delhi Supreme Court (the original dream) to low income household girl --> becomes rich bahu. It's like she never wanted that dream in the first place! It's not traumatic events because if it had been, she would not be Ms. Independent after Ak's death. It was her falling in love with Armaan that made her like this.

Originally posted by: shahi10

I think a lot of the change in Abhira has to do with Armaan. He is the submissive one to the family and in his influence, she has also become submissive. I think a lot of it has started with Armaan's baby asking -- she felt the pressure and that has changed her to become more of a homemaker than a daredevil lawyer.

I hate her character arc, it has completely changed from a low-income household girl --> Delhi Supreme Court (the original dream) to low income household girl --> becomes rich bahu. It's like she never wanted that dream in the first place! It's not traumatic events because if it had been, she would not be Ms. Independent after Ak's death. It was her falling in love with Armaan that made her like this.

She became mahaan like anupama. I don't blame her completely but it's annoying to watch.

Whole family including abhira knows how much ruhi hates abhira.

Ruhi came out of coma after delivery, got to know she lost her kid. Saw how whole family celebrating armaan abhira kid's arrival with functions. Got wonderful suggestion of taking her hater's kid as replacement that too with the reminder of her mom's name, now asked to breastfeed the child.

All within 24 hours of her baby's death news

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

She became mahaan like anupama. I don't blame her completely but it's annoying to watch.

Whole family including abhira knows how much ruhi hates abhira.

Ruhi came out of coma after delivery, got to know she lost her kid. Saw how whole family celebrating armaan abhira kid's arrival with functions. Got wonderful suggestion of taking her hater's kid as replacement that too with the reminder of her mom's name, now asked to breastfeed the child.

All within 24 hours of her baby's death news

And still people call Ruhi bad in this situation... like wtf do they want her to do? Happily disregard the fact that her child "passed" away and be her baby's loving masi?

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

I always knew that Abhira would become a typical itv Bahu as same happened to her original copy Sai and Anupamaa. DKP are trying to mould her into a junior version of Anupamaa which clearly doesn’t work as there is a huge contrast between both characters. This regressive PH sadly has an obsession with mahaan, doormat, bahu slaves with no self respect. Armaan’s love has definitely changed her which is sad as she is the same person who never believed in love. Just hope makers don’t butcher her character further.

Anupamaa was not that educated, she was made to be doormat due to the people around her. It's another thing that she didn't come out of doormat era despite having the chance later.

Sai character was degraded so much. But sai's situation was worse. There was not a single person in chavan family who treated her as basic human being. Even virat's mom and harini's mother trashed her many times. Virat always supported pakhi over her.

But abhira was at better situation compared to the other two. Except vidya and ruhi, everyone in the family treats her so well. Instead of being content with the people who love her, she is desperate to please the people who hates her. And her occasional mother's love is hypocritical.

She slapped ruhi for telling something about her parents, but was desperate to please kaveri/ vidya who literally character assassinated her mother.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

Anupamaa was not that educated, she was made to be doormat due to the people around her. It's another thing that she didn't come out of doormat era despite having the chance later.

Sai character was degraded so much. But sai's situation was worse. There was not a single person in chavan family who treated her as basic human being. Even virat's mom and harini's mother trashed her many times. Virat always supported pakhi over her.

But abhira was at better situation compared to the other two. Except vidya and ruhi, everyone in the family treats her so well. Instead of being content with the people who love her, she is desperate to please the people who hates her. And her occasional mother's love is hypocritical.

She slapped ruhi for telling something about her parents, but was desperate to please kaveri/ vidya who literally character assassinated her mother.

Woh bhi Ruhi has a reason to hate Abhira. Yes it is the wrong reason but still it is valid from her perspective. Vidya is only in her ego. Still both of them treat Abhira much much better than Anupama and Sai.

Originally posted by: shahi10

And still people call Ruhi bad in this situation... like wtf do they want her to do? Happily disregard the fact that her child "passed" away and be her baby's loving masi?

If we empathize with her situation then we are called ruhi fans lol.

Only mahaan person will take care of her hater's child just after learning the news of her own kid's death.

I rather watch realistic vamp over unrealistic mahaan actions. Talking only about this current track before people come and say their fav lines that ruhi is desperate, lusty , bad mother bla bla.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

If we empathize with her situation then we are called ruhi fans lol.

Only mahaan person will take care of her hater's child just after learning the news of her own kid's death.

I rather watch realistic vamp over unrealistic mahaan actions. Talking only about this current track before people come and say their fav lines that ruhi is desperate, lusty , bad mother bla bla.

what cracks me up is that people will say that ruhi is desperate and lusty etc etc but armaan is treating her better than rohit 😂 he is treating her better than her own husband right now. two-min pyaar wala ex has more concern about ruhi ka haq and the fact that baby is hers. her husband is on an all military mission to keep baby away from ruhi.