this is not about comparing the guilt he feels towards them vs Abhira…I am not even suggesting they’re the same ..but his conditioning has made him complicated … he’s not like you and me, who’re able to see the difference ..he’s a bit too black and white in his personal relations and that is problematic …if he feels deeply obligated to Abhira for accepting him, he won’t be able to express himself freely going forward …it might not have an impact on their present ..but this will be used to sow the seeds of discord later .. seems to me that’s exactly where the writers are going with this …this is why I always felt they needed time and distance to sort out their feelings ..but ITV is never about sense or logic :(Originally posted by: Chaitu.V
I totally get what u r saying and agree to the most ,but can we really compare his guilt for Abhira with his Dadi and maa? He haven’t done anything wrong with his Dadi or Vidya to feel guilt , in fact most ppl in that house never made him feel he is part of the family ,they always made him feel an outsider who is indebted to them for keeping him in the house ,and guilty for no reason, he is living in his own house with his family but was always alone until Abhira came into his life. His papa is the main culprit in all this as he never took a stand for his son .
But with Abhira he have done enough of mistakes to feel guilty , he never respected her or her efforts , she is the one who tried to bring him out of that guilt and made him understand he should come out of the guilt and accept the love when Krish gifted him shoes , she made Vidya realise her mistakes how she never accepted him as her own heart fully , she is the one who made that Chalu to apologise for calling him sautela. Just because he have a traumatic past and his family treated him like trash and he said he loves her she can’t accept him , he has broken her trust and he needs to win her trust back , because he brokeam happy he is realising his shortcomings ,mistakes and accepting them and trying to work on them.
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