Armaan being trolled is nor a new thing and rightly deserves too but I guess his behavior has a lot to do with his childhood and upbringing.
He is mute infront of ever single Poddar and Bansal while infront of Abhira, he speaks without break.
Now the conclusion that i have came to arrive is that it's like he is indebted to the Poddar family and doesn't love them but thinks he is their GULAAM and he is bound to do anything which makes them happy. Now Abhira is someone who according to him should be indebted to him since he went against his family who he worships to marry her and take her zimmedari! In this he conveniently forgot that her mother lost her life to save him. He thinks just by going against his family once he has balanced Akshara's death.
Now when it comes their 9 month marriage, he considered Abhira as his property same way Poddars tream him and hence if he sees her happy without him it makes him angry since he believes she should do what he does for poddar family.
One more thing is deep inside he loves and she is the only one who is only his while to others he is just bound by feelings of indebtness but Abhira is just his person and hence he believes he can say anything to her because unlike Poddars she won't and actually she had never made him feel guilty.
The nurturing of Poddars had made him like them only, the 0.1 percent good in him is only due to his mother's blood rest he is just like them.
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