Originally posted by: hobbit
But I feel Abhira is wrong this time. Who is she to make decisions for others? She knows this marriage isn’t real and other family members don’t want her to interfere in their matters. Instead of accepting her mistake, she is still asking Armaan to convince others to accept Dev-Charu’s relationship. She’s further victimising herself by hiding in the cupboard, could’ve just gone out for a walk or something and let Armaan know or could’ve gone to the guest room. Abhira is becoming difficult to tolerate.
If my younger sister were dating a guy who is 15 years older than her and is her boss, I’d be very suspicious of his intentions. Armaan is absolutely right in this case.
Kaveri let Charu work, and now she gets to know she’s in a relationship with a guy who is way older than her, and is her boss. Who wouldn’t be angry and horrified at this situation? Armaan is Charu’s brother, of course he’s scared at the moment and is lashing out.
She is messing up the situation lot more to be honest. She’s viewing it from her POV than PH’s.
Everyone’s emotions are running high because of shock value of the way it was disclosed . Abhira wasn’t supporting the secret affair she just didn’t inform others in time but after initial scolding she shouldn’t have meddled in family’s conversation with Charu to take stands and argue.
She doesn’t even know the whole situation of Dev but is supportive of the relationship, why ? Anyone in Poddar house is bound to get irritated by her counsel right now.
Though I get that she’s hurt but hiding in cupboard and being sad about no one paying attention to her when priority is Charu and Dadi’s situation, following self victimisation was not in a good taste but it seems to be usual ITV FL sympathy sequence for TRPs. So be it.
Armaan wasn’t wrong when he said that she doesn’t understand his position because she doesn’t have a sister .
Abhira has habit of objectively viewing world from her own perspective and morals but doesn’t know that this is not the way to handle grey matters , she’s quite immature and idealistic to gel in a big family .
Even though she’s good at heart, she still needs to learn ways of dealing /communicating with others as till now it was just her and her mom but can’t be so wilful with others.
She has started considering PH as her family and wants to fix the family but it’s not a project that she has taken up , she must learn to share / communicate her feelings with them , take advices too.
Abhira meddles in family matters and gets closed off from PH at her own convenience.
Her “ I am alone in the world” monologues are getting quite annoying to be honest because unlike OG she had gained significant support from elders and they were actively advocating for her against Dadisa but Abhira is always ready to give them advice but never approaches the elders really to get their advice and wisdom on things , I would understand if she was still finding it difficult to learn ways of joint family due to lack of elderly guidance but she honestly she didn’t give them the fair opportunity.
Deal marriage has created lot of issues and conflicts , lot of her relationships in PH take one step forward and two steps back because of this one barrier .
So this was bound to happen one day . I am hoping that this contract reveal track is a base for genuine development in the relationships.
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