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Originally posted by: chaipaani

He is clueless about it as well. Usually all his focus is on what Ruhi is feeling. It is what it is

Abheera is only his zimmedari as of now.

And he clearly said to Ruhi that after 3 months they're going to get separated. So he has no feelings for Abheera.

Abheera should understand that Armaan said I REJECT to her indirectly. 🤭🤭🤭

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Bhai ya behan joh bhi ho tum kahin aur jaake lecture do..Its boring

Selective Pheminism you see.. 🤣🤣🤣

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I just saw some BTS where Abheera asks Armaan to save Ruhi..

And her dialogue was,

Mein akeli hoon, main mar bhi jaun kisiko farq nahi padega, tum ruhi ko bachao..

Isnt this Emotional manipulation??

Behen, agar farq nahi padta toh Armaan se shadi karke uski zindagi barbaad kyun kara.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I just saw some BTS where Abheera asks Armaan to save Ruhi..

And her dialogue was,

Mein akeli hoon, main mar bhi jaun kisiko farq nahi padega, tum ruhi ko bachao..

Isnt this Emotional manipulation??

Behen, agar farq nahi padta toh Armaan se shadi karke uski zindagi barbaad kyun kara.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I just saw some BTS where Abheera asks Armaan to save Ruhi..

And her dialogue was,

Mein akeli hoon, main mar bhi jaun kisiko farq nahi padega, tum ruhi ko bachao..

Isnt this Emotional manipulation??

Behen, agar farq nahi padta toh Armaan se shadi karke uski zindagi barbaad kyun kara.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Maine pehle hi kaha tha. Ab anyway is not interested in marriage. She can treat marriage as joke. And anyways jo uska dkp fls ke pathi badhalthe rehthe hai. She could have just married yuvraj not saying in reality a women should give up and marry stalker but knowing dkp fls since for dkp marriage is a joke and for itv fl they just marry multiple times they could have shown her abhira marrying yuvraj as a fake marriage and reforming him.

Advantages of that

1. Akshara zinda rehthi

2. Ruhmaan ka rasta easy hotha

3. That guy who died who was restaurt guest woh zinda rehtha

4. Yuvraj will forever stop killing ppl and may end up loving her more to the extent woh khud apna gunah karke jail chala jaatha after freeing abhira.

And abhira can stay in no touch relationship with him as he is very dumb 🤭

Sab ka jeevan asaan hojatha and she could have been next inspirational character like the alia Bhat's character in raazi who gave up her life for betterment of society.

Who is denying that 90+ are not family. They are family but the age they are in makes it less accessible for child to share their trauma and pain. Great grand parents can not take place of real parents. Having mother and father makes a kids life much easier than having just great grand parents. There was no fbs shows to say who raised ruhi whether it was her grandparents or some servnat in the family. So i do not want to assume they raised her.

You can ask makers why she is not contacting her cousins. May be reasons are similar to why akshu can not not contact her brother ?

Please watch gen 3 to know the bond between ruhi and abhir. They both were more than just cousins. She was there for her brother whenever he needed her. So just sharing blood does not make some one brother and sister. Abhir is more closer to ruhi than abhira. For abhira he is complete stranger.

In the end everyone are free to put their pov. If ppl are calling out Ruhi's mistakes they are free to do so. In the same way ppl want to call out abhira's mistakes they are free to do so too. Every coin has 2 sides. You may understand one side of the coin. Other ppl might be viewing the coin from other end. Both are not wrong.

She did share it all with her greatgrandma so she can share her feelings with them.

Once again therapy was supposed to help.

There's no other side of coin for this one and abhira's rejection of yuvraj. This two matter she was in right, not wrong. I have no opinion if you wanna call out her when she spoiled ruhi's dish but not when she's taking a stand for her self respect rightly so.

Btw i saw in other comment you saying abhira should've destroyed her life to save others. And if ml marrying multiple times doesn’t make marriage a joke(kartik married 3 people) why would fl marrying multiple time would make it joke?

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Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

I did a very good thing opening this thread😅😅.. abheera ke manipulations pe toh thesis ban sakti hai..🤣

The first thought that came to my mind as I watched today’s episode was why on earth Ab is giving so over the top reaction🤔.. I can understand she is hurt, but behen yeh toh hona hi tha na… if not today after 3 months, you were bound to leave him… you weren’t in a janamo janam rishta or had you mentally planned to trap Ar in these 3 months…jisne 9 months mein tumse pyaar nahi kiya woh 3 months mein kya hi karega…

The ability of Ab to play the victim card and make the other person feel guilty for something he hasn’t done is commendable👏… but tbh I am not surprised coz emotional manipulation uske khoon mein kut kut ke bara hai thanks to you know who.

What was beyond me is why was she blaming Ar like he cheated on her? It’s not Ar’s mistake that she made a deal out of this marriage for her benefits. It’s not his mistake that she being a hypocrite went back on her word and fell for her deal husband despite clearly knowing that he hadn’t moved on from his past relationship… infact she herself saw them hugging… who in their sane mind even thinks of falling for someone who isn’t emotionally available… ab begairat hai isme Ar ki kya galti hai… at least Ruhi knows Ar still has feelings for her toh uske actions samajh aate hai… yeh daydream kar rahi hai lekin galti Ar ki😅

I didn’t like her dialogues today, she could have simply said that you could have waited for 3 more months before preparing these papers…

And abheera ke immaturities ke bare mein jitna kam bole utna acha hai🤦‍♀️.. even a kid is taught that you don’t wash your dirty linens in the open… screaming and calling people as if Armaan is a real molester and saying he isn’t her husband🤦‍♀️😒… she didn’t even think for once that people could have actually beaten him… itna sab drama karne ke baad madam has the audacity to call Ar as “Dramebaaz of the year”… seriously man had hai… if Ar is DOY then Abheera (fake surname Sharma) is MOY - “MANIPULATOR OF THE YEAR”

A bit late to reply for your post Noor . Lemme tell what I think.

This is a clear case of her going back on her words and set of principles. She was the one who termed the marriage as a deal. She and Armaan were in full consent about the terms and conditions. Plus, she knew Armaan had a lover whom she called chitwali. Though she didn't see her face, she saw them hugging on that day. She was planning to reunite Armaan with Chitwali girl.

It begs the question as to why she feels cheated or betrayed by the divorce papers? They were supposed to end this deal after 3 months. So this should not have been affected her emotionally to this extent. Her use of words to make him feel guilty is commendable . Armaan's inention was always to fulfil his reponsibilites as a benefactor for Abbeera. He said this countless times. So if Abheera along the way develops feelings for Armaan is it his fault or does she get entitlement to be rude and play victim card? Nope she does not. It is HER FEELINGS and she has to DEAL with it. I am baffled how she even let her feelings grow despite knowing Armaan's history lol. Anyways falling in love may be not in your hands, but controlling your feeling by looking at the reality is certainly within your scope.

If Abheera regarded self-respects highly she would not reacted in this manner. She would have accepted his decision nonetheless. Calling others for help to pose him as some kind of a harasser and ditching the benefactor on the road at the mercy of the strangers just because of divorce papers is typically her inconsideration towards Armaan. This is also another commendable act from the greatest FL of all time . I expected nothing less from her!