9 Oct 2023 - Synopsis hub - Page 14

Originally posted by: ambika02

Lol. As per the spoilers akshara does back out. akshara clearly had not learnt once bitten twice shy for manjri yet, she will now

If the matters to “interfere” are how soon or if her son can bed his wife then that’s a sick mentality.

I’m not into fan wars, but since you quoted me, replied you.

I don't see Manju being wrong here. She already had this discussion with Akshara and said friendship par shadi nahi chal sakti. Akshara, the great assured her that she ll give her best in this marriage!!!

So if anyone is to be blamed it's akshara here. Manju has given an option, she can choose her baby, whoz stopping her??

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I don't see Manju being wrong here. She already had this discussion with Akshara and said friendship par shadi nahi chal sakti. Akshara, the great assured her that she ll give her best in this marriage!!!

So if anyone is to be blamed it's akshara here. Manju has given an option, she can choose her baby, whoz stopping her??

Yes, akshara is wrong, she should have said explicitly that 'Giving my best to marriage is not equal to giving my body to my husband right away!' But then again, she is coming from a previous marriage where this aspect was trivial, rightfully so.

Anyhow. there's a reason I don't post much here, can't do these fights.

Had to reply since you quoted, but would like to stop. thanks. tc.

You are referring to something that hasn’t been shown or discussed in the episode regarding Manjari’s perceived sick mentality on how soon AK-Abhim can wed and bed! Manjari isn’t even asking Akshara to marry Abhim. At this point, it’s only Ak proposing a friendship shaadhi/Abhir keliye shaadhi. Manjari is flawed but she isn’t asking Akshara to abort her baby anywhere! Perceptions are not inferences.
You are talking abt not getting into fan wars but don’t shy away from instigating one!

I feel like its not even that much. Like Abhi was ready to accept Ak when he thought Abhir was Abhinav's son. But I think what Manjari is trying to say, is what we are all thinking, that to have relations with another man, and then marry someone else within a span of two months is just gross. I think she wants this marriage to not happen right now. Let Ak give birth, let her settle into her new life with both her kids, then eventually if they fall in love again, then they can get married.

The idea in this marriage atleast for the families was that they have a kid together and they still have feelings for one another. But Manjari knew this was not the case from Ak's end. She knew Ak didn't have any feelings for Abhi and so had that talk in the first place. Where Ak said she will try and she will give 100% whatever, but I doubt the discussion was ever about physical relations. Manjari just wants his son's wife to actually love him, the way he loves her. But that is never going to happen with Ak. At this point, if Akshnav relationship has indeed gone that far, then how is she ready to move on from that so quickly?

Originally posted by: ambika02

Lol. As per the spoilers akshara does back out. akshara clearly had not learnt once bitten twice shy for manjri yet, she will now

If the matters to “interfere” are how soon or if her son can bed his wife then that’s a sick mentality.

I’m not into fan wars, but since you quoted me, replied you.

I agree

She is like main apne bete ko dosti ke liye shaadi nahi jarne de sakti

Wtf

Now she is going to discuss her son s** life too whether he is getting laid or not after marriage.🤣

Her son is old enough to decide what he wants not a 5 year old child like abheer that he needs his mother with him.
She can go cry someone else

Originally posted by: ambika02

I completely agree. It is so disgusting. What does she mean marriage can't happen because ak is pregnant with her dead-husband's baby? That's a legitimate baby! Was the basis of marriage having s*x? Or maybe it's all about since ak is pregnant, she can't sleep with or give any action to abhimanyu anytime soon and thus such a big problem? Very disgusting!

And if she meant aborting the unborn, then Plain. Gross!

Originally posted by: Ria23

I agree

She is like main apne bete ko dosti ke liye shaadi nahi jarne de sakti

Wtf

Now she is going to discuss her son s** life too whether he is getting laid or not after marriage.🤣

Her son is old enough to decide what he wants not a 5 year old child like abheer that he needs his mother with him.
She can go cry someone else

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Who said mothers have to keep mum in the old enough son’s marriage matter?! Opinions and point of views every mother ke hote hai
Abhimanyu ko uska point of view nahi pasand ayega so he will decide on his own and Akshara bhi manjari ke objection ko ignore kar ke he shaddi karne niklegi abhimanyu se.

No

I dont think so

I think this is the tendency of indian mothers to keep their son under control. Har cheez mein apna muh chalana

Some things they need to let their son decide and not interfere
I just hate these kind of mils. Iske jese mother in laws wajah se lot of relationships gets destroyed

Manjiri said to Akshara please promise me that Abhinav won’t come between Abhi and you- then Akshara responded how can someone who’s dead come between us. Then Akshara goes how can I forget 6 years with him.

Now Akshara is pregnant with Abhinav’s baby- so Abhinav will always be in their lives in the form of the baby. Akshara is the who brought up marriage proposal to Abhi after 2 months of Abhinav’s death - where he kept asking if she is sure, not to agree under anyone’s pressure . She could continue to ignore Goenka and Abhir’s request, Abhir was also shown giving on hopes of Abhira’s marriage- remember during the family photo he was like to Bade Papa- Mumma will never agree, let’s stop.

Akshara herself decided she wants to give 100% to this marriage, be actual husband and wife- while Abhi is shown to have no expectations from her. This why in Haldi, he again said please let me know if you don’t want this wedding.

When Goenka family brought up Abhira marriage, I clearly remember Manjiri saying she will leave it up to them, she won’t interfere in their marriage decision. Then she even asked Akshara to convince Abhi to move on with someone else as she is worried her son will be alone. Never did Manjiri be like to Akshara please marry him. Goenkas and Abhir are the ones who pressured Akshara, Birlas all didn’t even talk about the marriage with Akshara- they only talked to Abhi and that was it.

Manjiri is definitely wrong to tell Akshara to choose between baby and Abhi, but she isn’t wrong to worry about her son’s happiness.

Ultimately decision will be Akshara’s because it’s her baby and her marriage.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Manjiri said to Akshara please promise me that Abhinav won’t come between Abhi and you- then Akshara responded how can someone who’s dead come between us. Then Akshara goes how can I forget 6 years with him.

Now Akshara is pregnant with Abhinav’s baby- so Abhinav will always be in their lives in the form of the baby. Akshara is the who brought up marriage proposal to Abhi after 2 months of Abhinav’s death - where he kept asking if she is sure, not to agree under anyone’s pressure . She could continue to ignore Goenka and Abhir’s request, Abhir was also shown giving on hopes of Abhira’s marriage- remember during the family photo he was like to Bade Papa- Mumma will never agree, let’s stop.

Akshara herself decided she wants to give 100% to this marriage, be actual husband and wife- while Abhi is shown to have no expectations from her. This why in Haldi, he again said please let me know if you don’t want this wedding.

When Goenka family brought up Abhira marriage, I clearly remember Manjiri saying she will leave it up to them, she won’t interfere in their marriage decision. Then she even asked Akshara to convince Abhi to move on with someone else as she is worried her son will be alone. Never did Manjiri be like to Akshara please marry him. Goenkas and Abhir are the ones who pressured Akshara, Birlas all didn’t even talk about the marriage with Akshara- they only talked to Abhi and that was it.

Manjiri is definitely wrong to tell Akshara to choose between baby and Abhi, but she isn’t wrong to worry about her son’s happiness.

Ultimately decision will be Akshara’s because it’s her baby and her marriage.

I like your analysis and agree with all of your points, but there is def more to the scene than what is shown in the precap. I am sure Manjari isn't saying kill the baby to marry my son. Nor has she ever talked about them having a physical relationship. Her only point even with that conversation was for Ak to acknowledge that Abhi loves her, so this is not a friendship shadi because it cannot be. If Ak feels she cannot reciprocate his love, then she should back out of this relationship. That was her point. But oh well, people want to turn everything into something absurd.