21 Sept, 2023 - Synopsis Hub - Page 20

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

Absolutely ❤️

And Sanam on abhira is the best ❤️❤️

Music is something these people always got it right even with the title song, O Kahna, Janiyae and Roodhariyan…missing these, hopefully it’s all coming back soon…

I read a comment..that Abhira has been musical love story..it's musical journey..coz bond of Abhira started with music...songs on them hit different..these songs were soul of Abhira..I hope we get them back♥️

Posted 21.9 review on page 34 Haris thread. Pl chk guys.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Even if this will never happen in this show as the narratives are usually twisted and lines are usually in favour of how bechari and right Akshara has been all the time despite of execution being different.

Even though Abhimanyu will accept her as it is as soon as she takes one step towards him whole heartedly and might even apologize more.

But as an audience I wonder isn't it actually more difficult for Abhimanyu to trust Akshara & the relationship with her no matter how they try to show it otherwise.

Abhimanyu knows the impact of his one impulsive decision anger now. Abhimanyu realised one thing that's it doesn't matter whose fault it was he can't move on from her, she is the only one he loved so obviously if they reconcile one thing this guy won't do is let her go again. Something Akshara was angry with so he realised that he 99% won't repeat that.

But without Aksharas' realisation of anything how is Abhimanyu ever going to be at peace that she won't take Abhir or for that matter any of their future child away from him if he did another mistake.

Something Akshara said galati se bhi galati hogyi but that applies more to her now. Even with this coparenting situation there's no space of err from Abhimanyu's end while Akshara can do anything she wants.

How will a person will ever actually trust her for not leaving when things get wavy again and startover like they had nothing together.

Even when he was angry and everything he never said their whole relationship was a sham but Akshara has said it tons of time. Akshara keeps on changing her views on Abhimanyu and their relationship as per her mood. Sometimes any girl would be lucky to have him and somedays tum badal hi nahi sakte.

Whereas AbhiM has always accepted Akshara without any conditions. Like Manjari said during 1st leap it's actually always going to be Abhi who loved more and get hurt.

P.S: As per shows perspective i am finding the episodes quite funny and interesting as Akshara is trying so hard to hid her feelings and run from them and how she is going to finally give in.

Also My favourite Muski ❤️❣️

I have always felt this right from Manjiri’s accident track to whatever is happening now.

Their relationship is heavily skewed because of Abhi’s unconditional love for Ak and Ak’s conditional love for Abhi.

Manjiri’s accident track is when I realised, bhai sab kuch bhi hojaye, he will always run to her, he will overlook anything just to be with her. And her behaving like she did for Ar when he said Ar can’t attend wedding and everything after until he agreed for Ar to attend the wedding. I was like she will never ever love him the way he loves her. Their relationship is so skewed, that is a recipe for disaster in my opinion. People always love others in different ways and it’s natural but this level of imbalance in love is harmful, specially for the one whose love is more intense like in this case Abhi. He will always suffer. If I was Manjiri, I won’t let Akshara anywhere near my child.

Look at first leap, how he suffered but Akshara didn’t even bother asking even once instead she was busy sulking over how icecream was banned for her, no thought about Abhi popping anexity and sleeping pills. But he ignored all that just to be with her and took all the blame on himself for not trusting her. No mention of Akshara breaking his trust.

Even after that when she missed his MD party for Vansh’s first meeting with a girl, he just accepted that because he had made peace with the fact that she will put her family before him. If I was in Abhi’s place and my husband did that, he would get an earful. It was just first introduction meeting for marriage alliance versus MD party, it was a no brainer priority in my opinion. It wasn’t Vansh’s roka or anything.

I felt then that bit by bit Akshara had chipped away his character to get her way. And it is same now when she threw a tantrum by not attending Abhir’s PTA as a way of punishing him. I had expected Abhi to point out her wrong behaviour, but he let it go and just consoled Abhir that it is ok.

Even if they get together now specially with current Akshara avatar, I get a feeling (based on everything they have showed so far) it would be like Abhi living in fear of her throwing a tantrum rather than having a balanced relationship where they can talk to each other and sort out matters.

P.s - I don’t think Akshara realises any of this, she is forever in victim mode or probably it is writer’s prerogative to show the story and her character that way because that is what sells, donno 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Even if this will never happen in this show as the narratives are usually twisted and lines are usually in favour of how bechari and right Akshara has been all the time despite of execution being different.

Even though Abhimanyu will accept her as it is as soon as she takes one step towards him whole heartedly and might even apologize more.

But as an audience I wonder isn't it actually more difficult for Abhimanyu to trust Akshara & the relationship with her no matter how they try to show it otherwise.

Abhimanyu knows the impact of his one impulsive decision anger now. Abhimanyu realised one thing that's it doesn't matter whose fault it was he can't move on from her, she is the only one he loved so obviously if they reconcile one thing this guy won't do is let her go again. Something Akshara was angry with so he realised that he 99% won't repeat that.

But without Aksharas' realisation of anything how is Abhimanyu ever going to be at peace that she won't take Abhir or for that matter any of their future child away from him if he did another mistake.

Something Akshara said galati se bhi galati hogyi but that applies more to her now. Even with this coparenting situation there's no space of err from Abhimanyu's end while Akshara can do anything she wants.

How will a person will ever actually trust her for not leaving when things get wavy again and startover like they had nothing together.

Even when he was angry and everything he never said their whole relationship was a sham but Akshara has said it tons of time. Akshara keeps on changing her views on Abhimanyu and their relationship as per her mood. Sometimes any girl would be lucky to have him and somedays tum badal hi nahi sakte.

Whereas AbhiM has always accepted Akshara without any conditions. Like Manjari said during 1st leap it's actually always going to be Abhi who loved more and get hurt.

P.S: As per shows perspective i am finding the episodes quite funny and interesting as Akshara is trying so hard to hid her feelings and run from them and how she is going to finally give in.

Also My favourite Muski ❤️❣️

@bold: Valid points, CP.

It continues to be ironic that the narrative is still accusing Abhi of being emotionally volatile when Akshara is the one who keeps changing her stances daily 🤷‍♀️😂. Sometimes Abhi is a great guy in her eyes whom any girl would be lucky to have. And next moment she’s like you have too many mood swings that’s frustrating me and will give trauma to your son ….there is no consistency to her thought process or dialogues and still people keep imagining a whole alternate story for her where she is supposedly waiting for Abhi to set things right 🤷‍♀️😂. All she does is berate him per her whims even now when he is showing way more patience with her talking so horribly to him all the time. lol but even then it is Abhi who apparently needs to “set things right”

Anyways I don’t imagine an alternate Akshara beyond the narrative. I go by what is shown onscreen in the episodes. She’s just a dumb shallow girl who can’t face her own truths. Lol isse zyada kuch nahin hai. And Abhi will always love her - his love will overcome all as it ultimately does. There is nothing in her hollow brain that will be meaningfully evolved. She will just flip when story is ready for reunion. Until then she will jerk Abhi around as per her whims.

I don’t know if there was supposed to be any purpose to the last Ak Abhir scene but I found it sad to watch that Ak had basically lied to Abhir about having pain in her neck and he even asked her if she was telling the truth but then the convo randomly turned to him saying I will take you in a car wherever you want to go and stop for whatever items you want. Lol so they used Abhir to cut down Abhi’s point about how Ak has a pain in her neck cuz she kept asking to stop the car and then they showed Ak getting super happy that her son will blindly do anything for her and never question her 🤷‍♀️😂

So basically they proved once again that Ak only wants blind obedience from everyone or she will punish and gaslight them. lol obedience milte hi she’s like you’re the best, mere jeene ki wajah and all 😂

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

I have always felt this right from Manjiri’s accident track to whatever is happening now.

Their relationship is heavily skewed because of Abhi’s unconditional love for Ak and Ak’s conditional love for Abhi.

Manjiri’s accident track is when I realised, bhai sab kuch bhi hojaye, he will always run to her, he will overlook anything just to be with her. And her behaving like she did for Ar when he said Ar can’t attend wedding and everything after until he agreed for Ar to attend the wedding. I was like she will never ever love him the way he loves her. Their relationship is so skewed, that is a recipe for disaster in my opinion. People always love others in different ways and it’s natural but this level of imbalance in love is harmful, specially for the one whose love is more intense like in this case Abhi. He will always suffer. If I was Manjiri, I won’t let Akshara anywhere near my child.

Look at first leap, how he suffered but Akshara didn’t even bother asking even once instead she was busy sulking over how icecream was banned for her, no thought about Abhi popping anexity and sleeping pills. But he ignored all that just to be with her and took all the blame on himself for not trusting her. No mention of Akshara breaking his trust.

Even after that when she missed his MD party for Vansh’s first meeting with a girl, he just accepted that because he had made peace with the fact that she will put her family before him. If I was in Abhi’s place and my husband did that, he would get an earful. It was just first introduction meeting for marriage alliance versus MD party, it was a no brainer priority in my opinion. It wasn’t Vansh’s roka or anything.

I felt then that bit by bit Akshara had chipped away his character to get her way. And it is same now when she threw a tantrum by not attending Abhir’s PTA as a way of punishing him. I had expected Abhi to point out her wrong behaviour, but he let it go and just consoled Abhir that it is ok.

Even if they get together now specially with current Akshara avatar, I get a feeling (based on everything they have showed so far) it would be like Abhi living in fear of her throwing a tantrum rather than having a balanced relationship where they can talk to each other and sort out matters.

This is so true! In earlier Generations the level of love from both partners was always same. Both suffered equally during separations. Just for eg. in Abhira's first leap Abhi developed Anxiety and tried to change himself and stayed away from the home. But Ak as soon as she came back was back to her family jaap. Even during the divorce proceeding while Abhi was finding it difficult to cope with she was opening dance academies and what not. Whereas in Gen 2 first leap if Kartik became an Alcoholic Naira also gave up dancing and developed a brain tumour due to the grief.

@bold honestly I feel bad for Manju because she doesn't reallly have an option her son is madly in love with this girl. She can not do anything. At least with whatever love he gets from her being with her makes happy otherwise he lives like a zombie. She tried to set him with Aru twice but both the times he became more of a corpse.

That MD party scene I felt so bad for Abhi. I think if Iwould have been at his place I would definitely be mad at my partner especially after everything Abhi had done for her non existent career inspite of his busy schedule. Ak never really supported Abhi in anything. Honestly I dont think she was a good wife.

Everyone says he should have understood her condition on WD. Why everytime him? Why couldn't she do it one? I mean when Abhi got to know about his hand at the same time Arohi insulted Ak about her career and Abhi ignored his pain and supported in her career. Similarly during the conceiving wala thing he was equally broken because he wanted a child too but he kept his pain aside for her. For once she could have done it. And Ak has an issue with blames. Did she not blame their love for BP's heart attack that too after Abhi had operated on him and he was out of danger so why so much fuss if Abhi blamed their relationship for Neil's death!

Atleast earlier she was a sweet person who was soft spoken and had empathy not she come accross as rude, narcissistic and obnoxious. I mean kids can be punished by cutting down their candy supply, taking away their phone, scolding them or maybe not speaking with them for a couple of hours but not by missing their PTMs and embarrassing them in front of everyone.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

I don’t know why they give Akshara word diarrhoea, when she starts talking. She just speaks nonsense without thinking.

She acts like a child who just speaks without thinking. Let alone with Abhi, even with Abhir her conversations today were like she is a child, not his mother. Her phone conversation with Abhir, saying what you want with me and docman will never happen. I mean this isn’t a topic of casual conversation with a kid, act like a grown-up, not like a 6 year old. Maintain your stance but don’t talk like a child.

Exactly. She is welcome to stick to her stance. But there is a basic way of talking like a grown-up which seems to be totally beyond Ak’s capacity 🤷‍♀️….she talks so petulantly herself but goes around snapping at others claiming they are wrong and she is the only right one 🙄😂

Makers write her like such a joke. lol it confounds me that people interpret things like grief and trauma out of her constant misbehaving 🤷‍♀️. There is no standard to hold her to. Lol she gets a blanket free pass for everything without explanation while Abhi is dragged for vague references to WD.

She misbehaved so much with Abhi to drag out this truth from him. Lol but no one will claim she is controlling or coercing him. While Abhi compelling her to confess in the first upside down confession is still held up as some all purpose example of “toxic controlling”

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don’t know if there was supposed to be any purpose to the last Ak Abhir scene but I found it sad to watch that Ak had basically lied to Abhir about having pain in her neck and he even asked her if she was telling the truth but then the convo randomly turned to him saying I will take you in a car wherever you want to go and stop for whatever items you want. Lol so they used Abhir to cut down Abhi’s point about how Ak has a pain in her neck cuz she kept asking to stop the car and then they showed Ak getting super happy that her son will blindly do anything for her and never question her 🤷‍♀️😂

So basically they proved once again that Ak only wants blind obedience from everyone or she will punish and gaslight them. lol obedience milte hi she’s like you’re the best, mere jeene ki wajah and all 😂

According to Ak obedience = pyaar = mature love = Navra

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Valid points, CP.

It continues to be ironic that the narrative is still accusing Abhi of being emotionally volatile when Akshara is the one who keeps changing her stances daily 🤷‍♀️😂. Sometimes Abhi is a great guy in her eyes whom any girl would be lucky to have. And next moment she’s like you have too many mood swings that’s frustrating me and will give trauma to your son ….there is no consistency to her thought process or dialogues and still people keep imagining a whole alternate story for her where she is supposedly waiting for Abhi to set things right 🤷‍♀️😂. All she does is berate him per her whims even now when he is showing way more patience with her talking so horribly to him all the time. lol but even then it is Abhi who apparently needs to “set things right”

Anyways I don’t imagine an alternate Akshara beyond the narrative. I go by what is shown onscreen in the episodes. She’s just a dumb shallow girl who can’t face her own truths. Lol isse zyada kuch nahin hai. And Abhi will always love her - his love will overcome all as it ultimately does. There is nothing in her hollow brain that will be meaningfully evolved. She will just flip when story is ready for reunion. Until then she will jerk Abhi around as per her whims.

There's a quote I read that suits Abhi a lot -

you could stab me in the chest, yet I’d still apologize for getting blood on your clothes.

Unfortunately, Akshara let him do that.

Even though I know ITV writers never go in this deep but maybe the narrative is like that coz the story is from Aksharas' POV.

Through execution no matter what they say we know who was at fault and when.

@bold definitely 💯. I mean she herself get the fb of her wearing his shirt but she is still like Jacket dedete ho phir kehte ho badbu aarhi hai. I was like what waah re mature mother of 6 years old. 🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don’t know if there was supposed to be any purpose to the last Ak Abhir scene but I found it sad to watch that Ak had basically lied to Abhir about having pain in her neck and he even asked her if she was telling the truth but then the convo randomly turned to him saying I will take you in a car wherever you want to go and stop for whatever items you want. Lol so they used Abhir to cut down Abhi’s point about how Ak has a pain in her neck cuz she kept asking to stop the car and then they showed Ak getting super happy that her son will blindly do anything for her and never question her 🤷‍♀️😂

So basically they proved once again that Ak only wants blind obedience from everyone or she will punish and gaslight them. lol obedience milte hi she’s like you’re the best, mere jeene ki wajah and all 😂

They have literally made a joke out of maa beta rishta with Ak and Abhir. It doesnt even feel real. If you have watche katha ankahee in that show thw FL is a single mom and her story of second stint at love. There the bond between Katha and her son is so well established! No unnecessary maa monologues just meaningful scenes and bonding - like Abhiruhi bond here. Its organis and beautiful.

Sr Ak and junior Naksh bond was also so organic. But ye Ak ne apne bacche ko toy banake rakha hai jab jaise mann aata hai waise khelti hai uske sath. So much for her bachha jaap when Abhi wanted her to abort. Its like she wanted a child because its cool to be called maa but now she doesnt want to take the responsibilities that come along with the pleasure of being a mother.