30 August 2023 - Synopsis Hub - Page 28

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I think you misunderstood me. I am in no way saying he should have waited for Ak. But the kid thing I don't agree with. Parents are obliged to put their kids above themselves in all situations. Even if the kid rejected him, he is still obligated to be there for him. In that he is doing everything right in my opinion.

Divorced or otherwise, parent child relationship is a different equation, something Ak never understood. But Abhi does and he also knows that what Abhir needs right now is peace and stability. Most parents wouldn't care about their own mental state in these situations and that is alright. And no kids are undeserving yaar, that is going too far.

I am not even commenting whether abhiM is doing right or wrong, it's his free will to do whatever he is doing . But it is not a duty . A lot of divorced people do prioritize their mental state over their kids, both women and men do that . What is the person supposed to do after divorce and losing custody when the kid is exclusively inclined towards the other parent and choses to live with , at the same time the favored parent doesn't let the child associate with the former. In real life people move on ( not necessarily remarry ) from such situation.

As a third person if one feels so sensitive to the equation between a particular father son , can it be imagined how the person himself feels when he has to let go of the child to another parent due to being bound by circumstances.

Being a parent doesn't exempt one from being a human , and it's absolutely fine to prioritize ownself over everything, when nobody else cares. Divorced person who loses custody of the child already has enough trauma to go through . They don't need to be held responsible for taking care of the child when the child willfully dissociated from the person.

Even anupama prioritizes her ownself sometimes .

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

lol as everyone predicted 😂 abhinav bhi ab abhira ke love ke baare main bolega usse patha tha toh pehle hi bhej detha 😂

Instead of abhir, muskaan ke dream aana chahiye bhaiji ko!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Mare hue bhaiji se bhi naraz ho jayegi!! 🤭🤭

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I think you misunderstood me. I am in no way saying he should have waited for Ak. But the kid thing I don't agree with. Parents are obliged to put their kids above themselves in all situations. Even if the kid rejected him, he is still obligated to be there for him. In that he is doing everything right in my opinion.

Divorced or otherwise, parent child relationship is a different equation, something Ak never understood. But Abhi does and he also knows that what Abhir needs right now is peace and stability. Most parents wouldn't care about their own mental state in these situations and that is alright. And no kids are undeserving yaar, that is going too far.

This exactly 👏

When you are a parent, you have to put the child above everything....doesn't matter whether your kid is currently understanding or valuing you....at this tender age especially, it is your responsibility as a parent to put your child above everything including all other complications of your life.

Abhi is demonstrating the responsibility he always had in him but was never given any credit for by Ak and Goenkas.

Ak has always put her grudges above her child's need....this is why it is so hilarious to see her scolding Muskaan for this right now😆....cuz this is exactly what Ak did at many points in the last 8 months - putting her pettiness and spite against Abhimanyu above her child's needs and emotions. She made faces whenever her child yearned for Docman, literally tried till the last second to not tell her kid who is his real father even if it messes him up and confuses him....lol but now she is lecturing to Muskaan about tameez ki why can't you focus on Abhir's happiness and forget your own grudges against Abhimanyu😆

Even now, Ak's knee-jerk reaction is to scold Abhir if he acts out while Abhimanyu's first reaction is always to try to calm down Abhir and talk to him on a one on one level. He puts his child above himself in every situation....everyone forgets that even after he won custody, he brought Abhir back to Birla house only when Abhir asked him....he has literally always given in to every request from Abhir and yet people accuse him of snatching Abhir away😆

I just want to see one scene of Ak saying in front of Muskaan that Abhi is Abhir's father and Muskaan lashing out at her that how did Abhi become Abhir's father now when Ak herself was saying just one week back that only Nav is Abhir's father? 😆.....I want someone to directly call out Ak ka double speak...lol mazaa aayega phir....waise bhi makers ne koi izzat toh chhodi nahin FL ki who keeps changing baap of her baccha every other day mood ke hisaab se😆

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

O God please no...I don't want to skip any scenes in Abhira wedding..they can show him in one scene at last agar dalna hi hai usko kahi..when everything is done and wedding is finished and Abhira are ready to go to their honeymoon..he can just waive them off .🙄

But I think this time it ll be a low key wedding!!!

That would be really pathetic. I also remember AB telling her that with Abhir things have changed and when he agreed for the engagement he wasn’t aware of Abhir. Also it was very clear to everyone too that he was just forced to do it. I really hope they don’t show AR still desperate to marry him.

But I think this time it ll be a low key wedding!!!

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They can keep it any level just keep it AA free...this time kids can do cute stuff...🥰

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

Yeah. Muskaan should get Hulu subscription and watch the previous episodes. 😆

But seriously. I want someone to sit down with her and explain things to her. She is seriously too much. And it’s getting super ridiculous! 🤪

I think everyone needs to sit down and watch previous episodes including Kairav ..Goenkas..Akshara ji too to see all good times she shared with Abhi and how much she traumatized him...ab they are away from home..free time me kar le binge watch 😀

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

https://www.tellychakkar.com/spoiler-alert/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-wonderful-abhinav-makes-his-way-through-abhir-akshara-and?fbclid=PAAaYs1g0BQuVJdtyRo60Fu83Y0gseD71bcCzurl_zgVn9_-B0QsKfybJE05A

Kuch kuch hota hai! Maybe we will see navs ghost during abhiras wedding 🤭

lol, I am looking forward to watching the wedding, please no 👻 😀

So as per this, Abhir will try to hitch AbhiM and Ak together like Ruhi tired to get her poppy and matashree together with dhassi jap.

Which means eventually it will all be for Abhir’s sake??!

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

O God please no...I don't want to skip any scenes in Abhira wedding..they can show him in one scene at last agar dalna hi hai usko kahi..when everything is done and wedding is finished and Abhira are ready to go to their honeymoon..he can just waive them off .🙄

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

dont worry, don’t think we are getting any more scenes with him in it. Farewell ho gaya set se, he isn’t coming back. Don’t think he has already shot the scene before leaving. Tho zada se zada photo dikha sakte hai, aur kuch nahin. They won’t pay him and bring him back for a few scenes.