Originally posted by: Anu234
One question always pointing akshara fault what about abhimanyu 's .Both of them have share of their own mistakes in this. But I have seen many of them pointing out only akshara. And also a question when did abhimanyu showed mercy on that day while spewing those words. Dono ne ek dusre ko aise aise baate bole hei jo nhi kehni thi.Akshara ka point out kar rahe ho toh point out this also. Dono b mahan nhi the galti kar chuke hei. Now on the path of their realisation and redemption.
That's cause in show everyone is always pointing out Abhimanyu's mistake but none are questioning the choices Akshara made. The impulsive actions that got unreasonable reactions coz there consequences were unbearable.
I have read long paragraphs on how Abhimanyu was more wrong on blaming Akshara as she was his wife at that time and he owes her that- I agree.
& Akshara doesn't owe him that trust or chance to listen during Nav's death blame- I agree to that too.
But the fact that AbhiM even without any relationship or promises understands the fact that they blamed him or said mean things were because they were in grief, was not in senses and is now being their for AK and hold no grudges against anyone.
Yet years ago under similar situations Akshara choose her ego and hurt more than being there for someone she promised to. She owed to. That time her husband was being stupid, unreasonable and was under immense grief yet she fled and hid the one thing that could have helped in coping better.
Now again many arguments has been - Self respect, he divorced her ehy should she stayed and all.- I completely agree.
But now also she blamed why should he care, why can't he file a case on Goenkas and Muskan of defamation, assualt. But he is standing taking insults of Muskan coz he understands how it feels to loose someone/a sibling.
The sheer difference between what you do afterwards matters the most and that's why more number of people likes Abhimanyu as a character.
In anger, in sadness many of us loose control said words we didn't want to, hurt others coz we are hurting, blame others coz we think that will make us feel better which is wrong but a human nature but what we do afterwards, how we behave, how we manage our relationship after is matters the most.
Our capabilities of not holding grudges is what makes us a better human. The fact that he was in jail for a month yet he introspect on where he was wrong years ago and apologize and Akshara till date hasn't is why more fingers are pointed towards her in comparison.
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