29, August 2023 - Synopsis Hub - Page 29

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

lol akshu ensured that she don't fall from past 6 years and fell after abhinav's death and abhir caught her 🤣

Loved the precap and how they are coming back to good old days when she called him “Abhi” so effortlessly..❤️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

On the topic of Abhimanyu's endless love for Ak....I think its interesting that he has loved and will always love her even with all her flaws.

Even now if you ask him - Abhi will instantly say that he loves the very same things about her that he is also frustrated by, hurt by😆.....that dichotomy will always remain for him....that is why he never got over his love for her. Otherwise if you start hating the very things you loved in a person, then you can still cut off from them....but for Abhi, those things always remained intertwined....this shows that he never really wanted to change her as a person....he just wanted them to find common ground.

While for Ak, she grew to hate the things about Abhi that she felt hurt her....what she loved about him was always very seperate from what she disliked about him....that is why she could sever him from her life since it was not intertwined for her. Ak's love showed that she needed him to change for her to fully love him.....while for Abhi, he's loved her as a whole, not in parts that you can pick and choose.

Again, this love isn't measured by a divorce or a seperation....it is about the emotions which never changed for Abhi....but they did change for Ak cuz she was able to covert her love into hate for the things she didn't like about Abhi like his temper and what she calls "paagalpan".....they both lost trust in each other but it was only Abhi who could never stop loving her even then.

So it will be interesting to see Ak's perspective on love on this new journey....will she find a new perspective towards her old/first love that she didn't really comprehend the first time around? She will have to learn to view Abhi through fresh eyes cuz she has also been deliberately keeping her eyes shut all this time😆

I really feel like Ak doesn't know how to love someone/ doesn't understand love clearly herself. From pre-confession time this has been clear. I know both Abhira have hurt each other, but Abhi was always shown clearly being hurt himself when he hurt her. He felt bad that she was in pain, he wasn't sure of himself etc. That has consistently not been the case when she hurts him. During pre-confession, I was amazed at her ability to remains stubborn in her position and in her lie despite Abhi literally dying for her to tell the truth. We as viewers and people in the show could see his desperation so clearly, why couldn't she? She was shown guilty about it in some cases esp. after her accident, but then she immediately reverted back to not telling him the truth and had to be forced to tell him by the suicide threat. Long term consequences to bhad me jaye right? Like she was literally forcing herself and him to live in this way where they would be constantly emotionally unfaithful to their partners forever?

Then even during the marriage, he wasn't ordering her not to interfere in things, he was literally begging her not to, for his own sake. When she left, I won't go into it, because she honestly was misguided about what was right in that instance. But when she came back, there was no guilt about putting him through hell. She got mad at him for being this angry person, but never wondered what happened to him in that one year. Never even tried to find out. After their reunion both of them were at fault for not discussing that one year properly and talking about their trauma. But the same situation was repeated. He begged her to take care of herself and she didn't care. She cared about herself and her babies, yes, but she didn't care about how all of this would affect him. And then after that whatever had happened, all of her decisions, all of her actions to purposefully hurt him are all there.

Its about the fact that when you love someone, you just can't hurt them this much and she has repeatedly.

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

What new character is that..any news?🥺 Sharma baby🤢🤢 plz God no

no news on any new character but the pyarvachan talked about new character and I was just speculating based on all the gossips floating around Ak's pregnancy.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I really feel like Ak doesn't know how to love someone/ doesn't understand love clearly herself. From pre-confession time this has been clear. I know both Abhira have hurt each other, but Abhi was always shown clearly being hurt himself when he hurt her. He felt bad that she was in pain, he wasn't sure of himself etc. That has consistently not been the case when she hurts him. During pre-confession, I was amazed at her ability to remains stubborn in her position and in her lie despite Abhi literally dying for her to tell the truth. We as viewers and people in the show could see his desperation so clearly, why couldn't she? She was shown guilty about it in some cases esp. after her accident, but then she immediately reverted back to not telling him the truth and had to be forced to tell him by the suicide threat. Long term consequences to bhad me jaye right? Like she was literally forcing herself and him to live in this way where they would be constantly emotionally unfaithful to their partners forever?

Then even during the marriage, he wasn't ordering her not to interfere in things, he was literally begging her not to, for his own sake. When she left, I won't go into it, because she honestly was misguided about what was right in that instance. But when she came back, there was no guilt about putting him through hell. She got mad at him for being this angry person, but never wondered what happened to him in that one year. Never even tried to find out. After their reunion both of them were at fault for not discussing that one year properly and talking about their trauma. But the same situation was repeated. He begged her to take care of herself and she didn't care. She cared about herself and her babies, yes, but she didn't care about how all of this would affect him. And then after that whatever had happened, all of her decisions, all of her actions to purposefully hurt him are all there.

Its about the fact that when you love someone, you just can't hurt them this much and she has repeatedly.

Woh toh I've also said many times before that Ak doesn't have a fundamental understanding of love only😆......I was just going for a different point regarding Abhira's different approaches to love here.

It has been a running theme of the story that Abhi is equal parts enamored and frustrated by Ak's core traits of impulsiveness and thinking more for others before herself. Let's put aside whatever the mess of the 8 months of the leap have been....I'm talking core traits here....and it's been consistent from Abhi's side that this is what he loves about her but at the same time, this is what leads to clashes between them as well....and he has never been able to hate these traits even though these have caused rifts between them.....cuz the same traits still keep pulling him back to her too.

But for Ak, it didn't work that way....his core traits didn't keep pulling her back to him....she had a different set of traits she loved about him and a different set of traits she disliked....and the traits she felt hurt by became the sum of him in her eyes....she never even attempted to love him as a whole....it was always in parts for which part worked for her, which part didn't. Again, this can tie back to her basic flawed understanding of love. She demands absolution but isn't really ready to give it herself....her lack of introspection fails her as a person many times over....and then some cycle of pain or heartbreak descends on her so she regresses even further as a person rather than actually becoming a stronger, more self-aware person.

I won't say that when you love someone, you can't hurt them.....Abhi also hurt her by letting her down on WD even though he loved her just as much then as he does now.....but as you said, we could always see the devastation on Abhi's face that any pain he caused her, he himself was feeling too - we could see that he was basically an open wound walking around in a haze after losing her. Ak went in the opposite direction because she claims WD hardened her as a person so she no longer felt anything when she hurt him....there isn't much for us to grasp from her POV cuz the makers never gave it....lol they spent 8 months showing her giving no reaction to Abhi's pain and over-reacting to Nav's slightest discomfort....only a few times the mask slipped like when Abhi had the accident....so since the narrative is inconsistent, we can't say for sure Ak never felt any pain while seeing Abhi in pain.....but for the sake of my argument here, I'm going to presume that she simply compartmentalized Abhi's traits to forcefully hate him so that she doesn't remember what she loved about him. Meanwhile for Abhi, he could never seperate the two set of traits, that is why his love remained boundless and eternal.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Woh toh I've also said many times before that Ak doesn't have a fundamental understanding of love only😆......I was just going for a different point regarding Abhira's different approaches to love here.

It has been a running theme of the story that Abhi is equal parts enamored and frustrated by Ak's core traits of impulsiveness and thinking more for others before herself. Let's put aside whatever the mess of the 8 months of the leap have been....I'm talking core traits here....and it's been consistent from Abhi's side that this is what he loves about her but at the same time, this is what leads to clashes between them as well....and he has never been able to hate these traits even though these have caused rifts between them.....cuz the same traits still keep pulling him back to her too.

But for Ak, it didn't work that way....his core traits didn't keep pulling her back to him....she had a different set of traits she loved about him and a different set of traits she disliked....and the traits she felt hurt by became the sum of him in her eyes....she never even attempted to love him as a whole....it was always in parts for which part worked for her, which part didn't. Again, this can tie back to her basic flawed understanding of love. She demands absolution but isn't really ready to give it herself....her lack of introspection fails her as a person many times over....and then some cycle of pain or heartbreak descends on her so she regresses even further as a person rather than actually becoming a stronger, more self-aware person.

I won't say that when you love someone, you can't hurt them.....Abhi also hurt her by letting her down on WD even though he loved her just as much then as he does now.....but as you said, we could always see the devastation on Abhi's face that any pain he caused her, he himself was feeling too - we could see that he was basically an open wound walking around in a haze after losing her. Ak went in the opposite direction because she claims WD hardened her as a person so she no longer felt anything when she hurt him....there isn't much for us to grasp from her POV cuz the makers never gave it....lol they spent 8 months showing her giving no reaction to Abhi's pain and over-reacting to Nav's slightest discomfort....only a few times the mask slipped like when Abhi had the accident....so since the narrative is inconsistent, we can't say for sure Ak never felt any pain while seeing Abhi in pain.....but for the sake of my argument here, I'm going to presume that she simply compartmentalized Abhi's traits to forcefully hate him so that she doesn't remember what she loved about him. Meanwhile for Abhi, he could never seperate the two set of traits, that is why his love remained boundless and eternal.

I do agree with most of these points, but at this point both Abhira have changed. Ak has changed her core traits itself by the so called "hardening" and Abhi has mostly become a softer more balanced person than he was before. But he still loves her, despite her not possessing any of the traits that he fell in love to begin with. I think for him it goes a step further than just loving her as a whole and accepting her negatives with her positives, cause right now the positives are basically non existent. He just doesn't know how to move on, or how to stop loving her. His love is pure devotion and that cannot be shaken so easily unless she does something really extreme and intentional to him. Even hiding a kid was not enough, so I am not sure what would be really. But I don't think its entirely about the traits because she doesn't have those traits anymore. She is not Akshu anymore.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I do agree with most of these points, but at this point both Abhira have changed. Ak has changed her core traits itself by the so called "hardening" and Abhi has mostly become a softer more balanced person than he was before. But he still loves her, despite her not possessing any of the traits that he fell in love to begin with. I think for him it goes a step further than just loving her as a whole and accepting her negatives with her positives, cause right now the positives are basically non existent. He just doesn't know how to move on, or how to stop loving her. His love is pure devotion and that cannot be shaken so easily unless she does something really extreme and intentional to him. Even hiding a kid was not enough, so I am not sure what would be really. But I don't think its entirely about the traits because she doesn't have those traits anymore. She is not Akshu anymore.

If she wasn't Akshu anymore, how would an "Abhi" still slip out of her mouth?😆

Akshu always existed underneath the many many hardened layers of Mrs. Sharma....lol she never went away fully....she was forcefully suppressed by the narrative all this while. But what we are seeing now is a thawing as she's giving up on the hate that fueled her for 6 years and as the hate melts, Akshu is emerging from the thaw slowly. We see this in glimpses of her compassion re-emerging as she herself approaches Abhi to thank him, appreciate his help etc. etc....yes there are still knee-jerk reactions but overall she is gradually moving back to her core traits where she hadn't conditioned herself to paint Abhimanyu as some eternal villain of her life.

No, I wouldn't say that Abhi feels her positives are non-existent.....we still get him listing out her positives even when she is berating herself as a failed mom, failure in different ways....lol Abhi still has the capacity to connect with the positives even when all she has given him has been negative for so long.....so it's not devotion - if it was devotion, he would have her up on a pedestal saying she is right on everything....but that isn't what he does....he still disagrees with her, pushes her out of ruts she falls in or tries to hide in. But fundamentally he still loves the very same things about her....even as he notices the changes in her, he is convinced that her core is the same....I bet if someone asked him today, he would still list the same things as what he loves about her. So boundless is still the only word I can think of to describe his love....he loves her through everything - the good, the bad, the highs, the lows.....it is not the one-note of devotion....it is a love with a lot more texture to it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If she wasn't Akshu anymore, how would an "Abhi" still slip out of her mouth?😆

Akshu always existed underneath the many many hardened layers of Mrs. Sharma....lol she never went away fully....she was forcefully suppressed by the narrative all this while. But what we are seeing now is a thawing as she's giving up on the hate that fueled her for 6 years and as the hate melts, Akshu is emerging from the thaw slowly. We see this in glimpses of her compassion re-emerging as she herself approaches Abhi to thank him, appreciate his help etc. etc....yes there are still knee-jerk reactions but overall she is gradually moving back to her core traits where she hadn't conditioned herself to paint Abhimanyu as some eternal villain of her life.

No, I wouldn't say that Abhi feels her positives are non-existent.....we still get him listing out her positives even when she is berating herself as a failed mom, failure in different ways....lol Abhi still has the capacity to connect with the positives even when all she has given him has been negative for so long.....so it's not devotion - if it was devotion, he would have her up on a pedestal saying she is right on everything....but that isn't what he does....he still disagrees with her, pushes her out of ruts she falls in or tries to hide in. But fundamentally he still loves the very same things about her....even as he notices the changes in her, he is convinced that her core is the same....I bet if someone asked him today, he would still list the same things as what he loves about her. So boundless is still the only word I can think of to describe his love....he loves her through everything - the good, the bad, the highs, the lows.....it is not the one-note of devotion....it is a love with a lot more texture to it.

Okie, I agree with this. He is still looking at positives that perhaps we cannot see right now, but they exist. And he is definitely pointing out her negatives like trying to hide from the world and stuff. He has never put her on a pedestal either. So I agree that its not the one note of devotion. But I think devotion still exists which allows him to continue loving her through the negatives. Something Ak doesn't have towards him.