26 Aug, 2023- Synopsis Hub - Page 36

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The current Abhi we see now reflects a little more before acting. He has grown and I think some people want to continue to put their blinders on and think he is still that Abhi of the past. But he isn't. The pattern of breaking things/relationships when things got out of control is gone.

He let Akshara go and he let his son go. He admitted what he is going through is his karma for WD. If this was the old Abhi he would still be fighting. Instead he is simply fulfilling his responsibility to his child. He is the biological father and he has ever right to be there for Abhir and help him through this depression phase.

LOL see, Abhi's mere existence feels like fighting to some people na. To me it's amusing to see people calling him passive now.....would a passive guy have bluntly said to Ak that do you also want to hide in a cupboard like Abhir? 😆.....he is just being calmer now and people are already jumping to call him a doormat over that😆.

People say Abhi is a character of extremes but these days it feels more like people are assigning extreme judgements to his actions in a knee jerk fashion 😆.....he is only trying a calmer approach to help those who are struggling with grief. Putting aside your own emotions, your own pain to help someone who is facing the grief of losing a loved one - how can this also be twisted into a bad thing is beyond me😆. But when it comes to Abhimanyu, I'm learning that people will never have a moment of peace....lol no matter what he does, it will be judged in an extreme fashion😆

As for Abhi's rights as the biological, ACTUAL father....lol that will be a continuing drama I suppose since characters in the story want to deny that as per their convenience 😆....this is why Abhi isn't getting into the flip-flopping of these opinions and simply trying to fulfill his duties and responsibilities as a father to the best of his abilities in whatever access he's being allowed.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

He was always there for her!!! Even before pre leap, much before they fell in love!!! Only he knows to calm her down!!!

He has always supported her in her career!!! He was even ready to sacrifice his own career for her!!!

Why have the makers forgotten everything and showing as if it's all new to the audience!!! 😡😡

So true..they show like WD as day 1 and post leaps events after and many people too who started watching post leap accept these narratives...makers literally have erased all references to preleap story and that leads to such a disconnect...Abhi has been a gem of a person..he fought for their love..he helped her remove Aaroo jap.. supported her career.. encouraged her..a lot of external factors affected their relationship that's true...but Abhi loved her most truly genuinely out of everyone else in her life...way more than Goenkas could care for Akshara

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

He was always there for her!!! Even before pre leap, much before they fell in love!!! Only he knows to calm her down!!!

He has always supported her in her career!!! He was even ready to sacrifice his own career for her!!!

Why have the makers forgotten everything and showing as if it's all new to the audience!!! 😡😡

I don't think they forgotten. It is to remind those who either jumped in after the leap or those who forgot due to the 8 months of Akshara scolding and yelling at Abhi regarding how he didn't do this or that for her and how he can never be the father of Abhir.

For those who have watched the show seen both Abhi and Akshara and how they were prior to the leap know the truth that Abhi was always there for Akshara minus WD.

Originally posted by: Siasia2014

Also they realized her having Nav fb and memories and whatever is not getting her any sympathy. So they are falling back on the original one where she gets panic attacks. It would work bettter than her celebrating a almost not existing marriage anniversary for the 2-3 rd time in few months or wearing his socks or cleaning nose with his shirt.

Makers should realize Akshara ko sympathy milna kafi time pehle band ho gayi hai...the time she started demeaning Abhi as a Father relentlessly..and did paternity fraud.. sympathy mode ke raste Jana ka point nahi hai makers ka ..they should go redemption way for her..and realization way...that will be way more effective. Now also they can show her grieving and reflecting her life choices...they can show her introspecting past 6 years along with grieving and then people may be can relate better to her...

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

True!!!

I personally am not liking this side of abhi!!!!. He can be there for akshara all he wants, but magnifying only her grief is not what I get from abhi. He is an empath, but neglecting everyone else's pain and his own pain just for akshara is a big no no.

He himself has dealt with anxiety and insomnia in the past, now dealing with passing away of his friend. Someone other than Manjari should get his side of story, it would be a revelation if Akshara actually tries to understand his pain and be there for him showing her empathic side too for a change since, everything seems like a one way bridge now. Currently, it’s just about Abhi being there for Akshara and healing her while she is neglecting his emotions.

Before the leap, Akshara had capability to get Abhi’s side of the story,understood his emotions to a certain extent and calmed him down.

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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

But Grace, how can the makers undo the love/hate for abhi she was holding onto for 6 long years!!!!

She was never up for moving on until Manju announced abhi's engagement with arohi!!!

Audience hasn't forgotten that!!! Isn't it easy to undo the one month old love than negating the entire abhira equation!!! And giving it a fresh start..

They will give a fresh start but my guess they will go the Abhi route of delete, delete, delete meaning soon no mention of Abhinav at all. No more pictures hanging around in the background. No more clothes and socks laying about. No more anything about him. Since Muskaan is there to misunderstand everything about Abhi and Akshara interactions Akshara will soon start defending Abhi saying things he has been a great support for me and Abhir, he is the biological father of Abhir and has the same haq as me on Abhir, etc. She will just say Abhinav was in one chapter in my life and that is over now. It is time to move forward.

This is the thing for me Akshara did love Abhi prior to the leap. I won't negate that from the history. I do think both Abhi and her were immature in their thinking about "love" and "marriage". I felt they thought once they got married they could fulfill their dreams about what a family is suppose to be. For Abhi it was a nuclear family whom he can shower love and receive love. He can have that relationship that he never saw with his parents. A husband and wife in love and a son or daughter having a great relationship with him as a father. For Akshara she dreamed of getting a family that would support her and be with her. We know how Goenkas treated her. They usually sided with Arohi because she made the loudest noise and she was the youngest. They pampered her more and allowed her to dictate what she would or would not do. When Abhi gifted Manjari to Akshara on Valentines Day it was like part of Akshara’s dream coming true. She was getting a mother figure after so many years.

The unfortunate thing is reality hit them both really hard about "marriage" and "family relationships". Love was there but their communication was not. They had their own traumas that impacted their relationship that they had trouble navigating through. It didn't help that the families also meddled. Abhi tried to run from the family drama while Akshara dove head in or somehow unwittingly got involved in a way she couldn't just step away. "Marriage" isn't the end of the run of life. Both partners have to work at their relationship and learn from the mistakes they both make.

They separated for 6 years. Learned some things about themselves as individuals. And for one person at least he learned a lot from his mistake. It remains to be seen if Akshara learned anything.

I know it is hard to see one side of the couple completely detached. Akshara said some very horrible things. It was too excessive and crossed the line. That I blame the writers for. They showed 6 years of anger coming out to somehow match the one really really bad day Abhi lost his cool. It will take time to remove. If we get back sensible Akshara it may be a bit more palpable to take.

Sometimes to move onward you have to let some things go and attempt to rebuild. If you always hold onto everything in the past then the relationship will never heal. Its sometimes the only way other wise it is just a cycle of hate upon hate.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL see, Abhi's mere existence feels like fighting to some people na. To me it's amusing to see people calling him passive now.....would a passive guy have bluntly said to Ak that do you also want to hide in a cupboard like Abhir? 😆.....he is just being calmer now and people are already jumping to call him a doormat over that😆.

People say Abhi is a character of extremes but these days it feels more like people are assigning extreme judgements to his actions in a knee jerk fashion 😆.....he is only trying a calmer approach to help those who are struggling with grief. Putting aside your own emotions, your own pain to help someone who is facing the grief of losing a loved one - how can this also be twisted into a bad thing is beyond me😆. But when it comes to Abhimanyu, I'm learning that people will never have a moment of peace....lol no matter what he does, it will be judged in an extreme fashion😆

As for Abhi's rights as the biological, ACTUAL father....lol that will be a continuing drama I suppose since characters in the story want to deny that as per their convenience 😆....this is why Abhi isn't getting into the flip-flopping of these opinions and simply trying to fulfill his duties and responsibilities as a father to the best of his abilities in whatever access he's being allowed.

Exactly! He would have just let her be like Nav used to 😂😂😂

But he's not passive and he's being there for Ak not just because he loves her but mainly because she is his son's mother and his happiness is related to her's and his love is always there to drive it.

And I don't know how is being there for Ak and Abhir being unfair to Manju. Manju is not affected by Nav's death. She doesn't give a damn. When Manju lost Neil Abhi was there for her and Ar wholeheartedly. Similarly now that Ak and Abhir are in grief he's being there for them. Also the last she was grieving and left unattended she ended up doing huge kaands spoiling so many lives. This time is son's life is on the line. Another stupid decision of her's and Abhir is dead or will end having new fatherji who's a criminal or something or something other horrible possibilities.

And he saw how his older ways to handle her turned so he's trying this new way. It's simple. And when it comes to Ak yes he doesn't care about self respect and I hate it about him!

Originally posted by: OnyxOutlaw

He himself has dealt with anxiety and insomnia in the past, now dealing with passing away of his friend. Someone other than Manjari should get his side of story, it would be a revelation if Akshara actually tries to understand his pain and be there for him showing her empathic side too for a change since, everything seems like a one way bridge now. Currently, it’s just about Abhi being there for Akshara and healing her while she is neglecting his emotions.

Before the leap, Akshara had capability to get Abhi’s side of the story,understood his emotions to a certain extent and calmed him down.

I haven't seen Akshara supporting or understanding abhi's pain except in one of the episodes after 1st leap.

Before marriage, all she was worried about both families coming together for marriage. She didn't care much about abhi and harshu's equation then.

Even after marriage, she didn't try to help mend their relationship, even during small fights, she used to go to Goenka's.

After first leap, abhi was blamed for not trusting Akshara!!! Whereas she didn't give any reason for abhi to trust her!!! Still he apologized and it was shown that she gave him a second chance!!!

And after WD, we all know how he's been treated!!!

Atleast Manju understands his pain, but she doesn't know how to help him!!! She tries in her own way!!! And creates more mess!!! 😔😔

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Vansh and Ranveer Uncle 🤣

Ps: why is he looking so sad 😲