Abhi is being used for AbhiRa

This is about the precap where Abhi is in jail and still worried about Ak, what is wrong with this man? I won't even call it self respect, it seems like he enjoys pain inflicted by Ak and her family, some other person would have left long ago, he is being abused for years, in first leap when Ak left him and ran away, he was in terrible state, had a mental breakdown was taking anxiety pills. Goenka family members use him whenever they want to then discard him like a thing whenever they are done with him and that's the case with Ak and also Abhir. After WD, Abhi went to Ak's house the next thing, was worried about her and kept looking for her till he found out that she had married, his search ended after news of her marriage. He took one decision in rage and grief of losing his brother/kids and paid for it by losing his son and love, he tried to rectify the mistake the moment he came to his senses, he went back looking for AK, it wasn't like he was uncaring or didn't have a reflection of what he did was wrong, he realized it in the next episode itself. Did Ak think about his state once? Did she even care about how he must be coping with loss of so many lives? She didn't have to care, she didn't owe him any care after the divorce but we are not discussing legalities here, we are discussing how Abhi is shown caring for her, even when he is being wronged, he is in the jail for a crime he didn't commit and he is thinking about her and An's well being, when they can show Ak moving on then why Abhi is stuck on her? Why can't he get the same chance? Why use him to beat a dead horse which is AbhiRa?