White day and Black day DT pg 7 - Page 6

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

No one asked Manjari to stay in a loveless marriage where her husband had an affair n cheated on her.Yes she had guts to accept that child but ended up letting him get abused by his own father yet she never opened her mouth n revealed his identity.It was her fault that when she knew her husband doesn't love her she still remained married to him n didn't divorce him.She was selfish enough to bring Neil home but at the same time when he was getting abused by his father she remained silent.

Manjari was actually abused by Harsh. That was a real abuse situation as opposed to white day and all the false narratives about Abhira. It is possible that Harsh and Manjari were at some point in love, but we know he married her for her money inorder to build Birla hospital. Then he abused her for years and years. People under such situations actually aren't able to speak up or remove themselves from the situation. We see her being scared of Harsh and that being the reason she kept Neil's truth to herself. She was scared what Harsh's reaction would be. That doesn't mean she was right in doing what she did. And she accepted her mistake as well, infact we see her standing up for Neil's rights after that so he can get his place in Birla house as equal to Abhi.

The point is, that ultimately Harsh is responsible for how he treated Neil, not Manjari. Manjari tried to shield him and give him love as a mother, but she wasn't a great mother because she denied him his identity. Just like Ak isn't, because she has denied Abhir his true identity.

Guys,

Kindly stick to the topic without triggering fights and moral policing each other. Everyone has right to their own opinions and views. If you don’t agree ignore or disagree without insults/mocks on other members.

YRKKH DT

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I think this can also be counted as moral policing😆

And I think you are also deviating from the poster’s point. Abhinav-Akshara, etc get bashed on a daily basis anyways, mocked for literally anything; crying, shouting, parenting, romancing🤣, uske liye wo kuch nhi bol rhi. She is just asking to be sensitive around topics like death, or being orphan, etc. You just judged that person and called her as someone having double standards without even knowing them personally, very good😆

seriously? I need to know her personally to see that she is acting differently around different fan groups on the forum? When I can see her posts and reactions on these topics - and thats the only thing I highlighted. Why are you jumping in and exaggerating to make it personal?

And I ask you too - when she can tolerate and enjoy mockery of all other issues - why start policing others solely on these select issues? Aren’t other issues relevant or sensitive?

Don’t ask anyone to be sensitive when you’re yourself insensitive to the topics that bother them - thats all I wanted to say - how is that wrong?

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

seriously? I need to know her personally to see that she is acting differently around different fan groups on the forum? When I can see her posts and reactions on these topics - and thats the only thing I highlighted. Why are you jumping in and exaggerating to make it personal?

And I ask you too - when she can tolerate and enjoy mockery of all other issues - why start policing others solely on these select issues? Aren’t other issues relevant or sensitive?

Don’t ask anyone to be sensitive when you’re yourself insensitive to the topics that bother them - thats all I wanted to say - how is that wrong?

Soo u r saying death, widow, orphans and foster parents r mockery worthy topics…..nice knowing u🙂

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Both of these days r sad and cruel but it is sad that people mourning for WD and but celebrating BD and making mock posts and even making insensitive comments about a particular character death and making fun of them and I didn’t know people became this heartless to celebrate and become happy with someone death and even mock about widows, orphans or foster parents….don’t they have rights to live happily….

I should specially appreciate mods for monitoring such posts and editing or removing them…

I am not enjoying his death but rather his exit - and I am not liking the way its done because Akshara - Abhinav never apologized to anyone about it and now with his death we won’t get that satisfaction or closure on these issues! And I am not saying other characters don’t have faults. I am highlighting theirs because Abhinav is the one who is leaving right now and his exit does make me happy!

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Soo u r saying death, widow, orphans and foster parents r mockery worthy topics…..nice knowing u🙂

Also, my best friend is an orphan - brought up by foster parents. My mom is a widow. I have a few real victims of domestic violence in my social circle - so I do know very well the sensitivity of these issues. I only took issue with your post - not with these issues! And I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else about how sensitive or open minded I am.

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

I never said any of that!

Like wise when did i say anything that is double standard…..because of ur previous comments it occurred that u r implying it….never judge a book without know complete story soo u cannot and who r u to judge me

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

seriously? I need to know her personally to see that she is acting differently around different fan groups on the forum? When I can see her posts and reactions on these topics - and thats the only thing I highlighted. Why are you jumping in and exaggerating to make it personal?

And I ask you too - when she can tolerate and enjoy mockery of all other issues - why start policing others solely on these select issues? Aren’t other issues relevant or sensitive?

Don’t ask anyone to be sensitive when you’re yourself insensitive to the topics that bother them - thats all I wanted to say - how is that wrong?