White day and Black day DT pg 7

Black day is done entirely to neutralize White day and its effects, so let us take it like that. On White day and the months after, both Abhi and Ak were wrong. But until now, neither has completely accepted their mistake or even understood the other person's side. Now both will. It doesn't matter really how extreme either of the two mistakes is. The point is to be put in the other person's shoes.

Ak will blame Abhi, baselessly and believe that he could commit such a horrible crime in the first place. Abhi will go through hell because of Ak (...again) but will come out the other side, proven innocent.

Ak will get that whatever Abhi did on white day, she has done something similar and has blamed him without understanding the full story. This proves that what she did as her little act of revenge in hiding Abhir was also wrong, and getting another father for her kid was also wrong.

Abhi will also understand that being blamed for a death is traumatizing, esp when you didn't do anything, And that people under such trauma can make bad decisions, such as Ak hiding her son from him.

So, this leads to both of them accepting the past and apologizing for it.

I honestly see Ak having to apologize more than Abhi here cause Abhi already accepted whatever she did and has let it go. It's up to her to accept what Abhi did and why he did it. So that is what will happen next. Obviously, first lots of DDP.

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Well said. Black and white day neutralise each other.

I just want to add what a horrible leap idea this has been. First of all white day was terrible, but to drag it for 8 months and end it this way, I am a-maze-d finally at their lack of creativity!!

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Black day is done entirely to neutralize White day and its effects, so let us take it like that. On White day and the months after, both Abhi and Ak were wrong. But until now, neither has completely accepted their mistake or even understood the other person's side. Now both will. It doesn't matter really how extreme either of the two mistakes is. The point is to be put in the other person's shoes.

Ak will blame Abhi, baselessly and believe that he could commit such a horrible crime in the first place. Abhi will go through hell because of Ak (...again) but will come out the other side, proven innocent.

Ak will get that whatever Abhi did on white day, she has done something similar and has blamed him without understanding the full story. This proves that what she did as her little act of revenge in hiding Abhir was also wrong, and getting another father for her kid was also wrong.

Abhi will also understand that being blamed for a death is traumatizing, esp when you didn't do anything, And that people under such trauma can make bad decisions, such as Ak hiding her son from him.

So, this leads to both of them accepting the past and apologizing for it.

I honestly see Ak having to apologize more than Abhi here cause Abhi already accepted whatever she did and has let it go. It's up to her to accept what Abhi did and why he did it. So that is what will happen next. Obviously, first lots of DDP.

But at least now, we can all collectively stop arguing about white day, because black day neutralizes it. We don't need any more comparisons here.

I agree but from ak side she even replaced abhi from her heart without trying to understand his trauma. Let's see how makers are planning to fix her deeds.

Lol exactly. Abhira were such an interesting and entertaining couple. It would have been far more entertaining if they had just shown us their fights with differences of opinion on raising a kid. Or how Ruhi and Abhir grow up together and Arohi is always trying to one up Ak. Or how Neil and Abhi handle their wives fighting each other....there were so many wholesome rishta tracks, but it's all ruined now. Chalo, at least khayalo me rahenge.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I agree but from ak side she even replaced abhi from her heart without trying to understand his trauma. Let's see how makers are planning to fix her deeds.

I am hoping this whole fiasco will lead to Abhi finally moving on from Ak cause she never understood him. To this date, Abhi always defended Ak and said she is not a bad person, no matter what she did to him. He never believed she could actually do anything bad. But here, she is shown to believe that Abhi would be capable of murder. Even before she thought Abhi would snatch her kid. She has a twisted idea of who he really is, and it's not his fault, but this will finally prove that to him. That he cannot control her opinions of him, and he just has to move on from someone who doesn't even know him, let alone could ever love him.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I am hoping this whole fiasco will lead to Abhi finally moving on from Ak cause she never understood him. To this date, Abhi always defended Ak and said she is not a bad person, no matter what she did to him. He never believed she could actually do anything bad. But here, she is shown to believe that Abhi would be capable of murder. Even before she thought Abhi would snatch her kid. She has a twisted idea of who he really is, and it's not his fault, but this will finally prove that to him. That he cannot control her opinions of him, and he just has to move on from someone who doesn't even know him, let alone could ever love him.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Black day is done entirely to neutralize White day and its effects, so let us take it like that. On White day and the months after, both Abhi and Ak were wrong. But until now, neither has completely accepted their mistake or even understood the other person's side. Now both will. It doesn't matter really how extreme either of the two mistakes is. The point is to be put in the other person's shoes.

Ak will blame Abhi, baselessly and believe that he could commit such a horrible crime in the first place. Abhi will go through hell because of Ak (...again) but will come out the other side, proven innocent.

Ak will get that whatever Abhi did on white day, she has done something similar and has blamed him without understanding the full story. This proves that what she did as her little act of revenge in hiding Abhir was also wrong, and getting another father for her kid was also wrong.

Abhi will also understand that being blamed for a death is traumatizing, esp when you didn't do anything, And that people under such trauma can make bad decisions, such as Ak hiding her son from him.

So, this leads to both of them accepting the past and apologizing for it.

I honestly see Ak having to apologize more than Abhi here cause Abhi already accepted whatever she did and has let it go. It's up to her to accept what Abhi did and why he did it. So that is what will happen next. Obviously, first lots of DDP.

But at least now, we can all collectively stop arguing about white day, because black day neutralizes it. We don't need any more comparisons here.

I agree with most of what you're saying here with the exception of "and getting another father for her kid was also wrong." She didn't set out to "get" another father for him. It happened through a series of events and it just happened to be that the dude that helped her was amazing and fully deserving of being a father to Abhir. Again, if it wasn't for him, perhaps Abhir would not be alive. No wonder they have a soul-to-soul connection.

No Abhinav's death can never be white day parallel, That day 2 parents lost one their twins. A mother lost an adult son, a wife lost her husband and a daughter lost a father she never had a chance to meet and she never will. Neil died fighting for a noble cause, Abhinav died due to his own stupidity.

Abhinav's death can never be parallel to white day

Abhir lost a father figure not his real father, AK lost a namesake husband who she clearly told in the hospital you can be Abhir's father but I will never give you rights over me. A marriaage of convenience has broken and a life has been lost and my condolences for it but I will never accept Abhinav's death as equal to White Day.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

I agree with most of what you're saying here with the exception of "and getting another father for her kid was also wrong." She didn't set out to "get" another father for him. It happened through a series of events and it just happened to be that the dude that helped her was amazing and fully deserving of being a father to Abhir. Again, if it wasn't for him, perhaps Abhir would not be alive. No wonder they have a soul-to-soul connection.

Disagree completely. There is NO issue with her moving on with someone else that she connected with or allowing him to assume a fatherly role towards Abhir. But her entire reasoning for putting Nav's name on the BC, having Abhir call him Papa, and not telling Abhir is that she wanted to build this fantasy, and that is where she is wrong. Truth is always right, no matter how painful. Ruhi was told the truth about her dad being dead. No reason not to tell Abhir the truth either, and at the least, prepare him for a possible custody battle in the future. The past six months have been hell because of Ak's lies.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

No Abhinav's death can never be white day parallel, That day 2 parents lost one their twins. A mother lost an adult son, a wife lost her husband and a daughter lost a father she never had a chance to meet and she never will. Neil died fighting for a noble cause, Abhinav died due to his own stupidity.

Abhinav's death can never be parallel to white day

Abhir lost a father figure not his real father, AK lost a namesake husband who she clearly told in the hospital you can be Abhir's father but I will never give you rights over me. A marriaage of convenience has broken and a life has been lost and my condolences for it but I will never accept Abhinav's death as equal to White Day.

I think they are parallels in terms of emotions and that is what matters. In that, Ak was implicated on wd, and Abhi is implicated now. Ak's issue was that Abhi believed those implications and blamed her along with everyone else. Now she will blame him too, based entirely on BP's misunderstandings. So that way it is equal.