Leave Abhi alone AK - Page 4

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

So, it was Akshara's bhoot who was hugging & smelling Abhimanyu's shirt & even imagined their romance in Abhimanyu's room, while Abhi was still engaged to Akshara's dear sister. 🤣

People are behaving as if Akshara didn't run to Abhimanyu to confess her love on the day of her sister's wedding & also started romancing Abhi just the next morning after the wedding broke 🤣

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Everyone’s only interested in what Abhimanyu does whether they like what he does is a different matter! No one has given any attention to Akshara it seems.

Fact is no one cares about the character of the so called female lead as an individual or even as a lover....They just want a perfect & ideal man ( more like a henpecked husband) for their pathetic legacy kid..... I think that's why even makers don't care & put any effort while writing Akshara's character.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Yes! Unconditional love does not equal accepting every mistake of their loved one without any proper acknowledgement. Unconditional love doesn't mean never getting anger at your partner.

Unconditional love doesn't mean having zero expectations from a relationship. It means loving them despite the fact that they didn't measure up to those expectations.

It means loving them despite the fact that they didn't measure up to those expectations but divorce them for the same ?

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

So if you love someone you cannot be angry or upset with them? Can’t be hurt because of them?

No. If you love someone you love them for the person they are..anger/ upset/ hurt don't end up in 2 min Maggie divorces... If she's so despicable for him, he should be happy he divorced her , not love her .

Also, before claiming such big big words for abhim such as unconditional love , let's understand the true meaning of it....unconditional love doesn't come with conditions.

He still.loves akshara bec he feels guilty for divorcing her . He feels guilty to have lost her ..he expected the same from akshara..that she will burn in pain of separation ? What a joke !

Originally posted by: Deltablues

I mean, we wouldn't be here if Abhimanyu just took Akshara's rejection of his rishta with some amount of normalcy and had joined Bumble or something to meet other people—like normal dudes.

Instead of, y'know, getting engaged to her sister, then faking a suicide to manipulate her and leaving her sister at the altar.

If you see, Akshara is in Abhimanyu's life because he cannot— he was never taught to respect—women's no. So much so that he proposes them despite them being married to other people.

Could have just taken the rejection normally and met other people lol

We wouldn't be here if Ak wasn't crossing boundaries of relationship with her sister's fiancée, roaming in his bedroom and touching his stuff. Your argument would make sense if Ak was compelled to do something, which she was not. It wasn't a rejection but her drama of being mahan for her sister, leaving him so he gets married to her sister, knowing that he loves her not her sister, essentially in her mode of sacrifice and her God complex ready to mess two lives so she can tell her dead step mother how good she is as a sister. Abhi's actions are not in a vacuum where there's no other character. You can try to paint a picture of a hard-core criminal as much as you want to by twisting narratives and picking up on scenes claiming things without seeing what happened before and after it. I replied this because it appears to me that you have seen 2 episodes of this drama and repeat same thing on every discussion, which is redundant at this point.

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

As far as I can see Akshara will be pregnant with nav's kid & Abhimanyu will marry & accept her even after that... I think that's why Akshara was given dialogues today on unconditional love .

Is she laying groundwork for her another kand? How I wish Abhi was the villain everyone wants him to be, so we wouldn't have to tolerate Ak and her kids around him

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

I see a major pattern from the beginning whenever Abhimanyu starts ignoring & stops giving attention to Akshara , this woman starts following him like crazy... I can't understand now that she has achieved what she has wanted & punished Abhimanyu in the worst way possible, why doesn't she leave Abhimanyu alone?

He ignored her and she ended up in his house, the woman who made sure that her son would never accept Abhi as a father saying she wants to help him, is nothing but a joke.

Originally posted by: Krinya

No. If you love someone you love them for the person they are..anger/ upset/ hurt don't end up in 2 min Maggie divorces... If she's so despicable for him, he should be happy he divorced her , not love her .

Also, before claiming such big big words for abhim such as unconditional love , let's understand the true meaning of it....unconditional love doesn't come with conditions.

He still.loves akshara bec he feels guilty for divorcing her . He feels guilty to have lost her ..he expected the same from akshara..that she will burn in pain of separation ? What a joke !

And its alright if someone wants to breakup or divorce because they don’t find themselves being able to overcome their differences. The timing of divorce - and how impulsive it was and the state she was in - is wrong but I don’t think divorcing her was wrong in anyway even if he loved her!

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I get Abhimanyu’s love or Abhinav’s love. What’s the definition of love for Akshara? She keeps praising or insulting another’s love for her but what about love she had or has for them?

Ak loves herself and her image of a God in front of her family so she tries to play God all the time instead of acting like a normal human. She thinks she can't make mistakes. She told Abhi that he lost his love because it was conditional but where was her love in it? She is expecting Abhi to stick around Abhir and wait for crumbs and accept him as it is, what did she do for her relationship with Abhi? It took one line of anger for her to erase him from his son's life, she likes living with An because he wouldn't say anything to her as their relationship is not of an equal, she is way out of his league so he is forever grateful to her for marrying him and she wants her husband to feel that he is small in front of her, with Abhi, it wasn't a possibility because he excelled in every department

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Loving someone doesn’t mean they need to accept everything about the other person if it appears senseless.

And its alright if someone wants to breakup or divorce because they don’t find themselves being able to overcome their differences. The timing of divorce - and how impulsive it was and the state she was in - is wrong but I don’t think divorcing her was wrong in anyway even if he loved her!

The way he is treating n behaving Abhir today is just proving how pathetic he is. Why he is making the kid guilty for choosing his parents over him who he knows all his life. Can’t he go visit Abhir every weekend ,the 6yr old is more sensible than this grown up man.Even Abhir said they can visit each other and spend time together. He can never be happy with what he have ,and once he get what he wants he will never value that. He have no value for Ruhi who is loving him unconditionally or else he will never act the way he acted yesterday.