Leave Abhi alone AK

What is with this girl and her saviour complex? Why can't she just leave him alone and let him take his time figure things out for himself? He will feel happy seeing you flaunting your happy family in his face, he should remain at your son's back and call, shouldn't have any right to his feelings? Abhi was right when he said that he has to live without Abhir so he has to figure out a way to cut him out of his life, what is wrong with it? He is not bothering you or your son. Ak was adamant on white day too, didn't listen to anyone and we know the result. Abhi's love isn't conditional that's why he is still in love with you, your absence, your marriage and all the heartbreaks you have given him couldn't shake his love because it is not conditional, Ak should be the last one to talk about staying at one place and trying, she is someone who left her whole family multiple times and got married within months of divorce. When you can move on, why not Abhi? Why should he continue trying to be there for your son? He has no right to his own life and feelings. I don't know how they are planning to reunite Abhira, the direction of this show doesn't seem like they want Abhira rather they are in the process they are destroying the characters which will stay back in the show.

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Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

What is with this girl and her saviour complex? Why can't she just leave him alone and let him take his time figure things out for himself? He will feel happy seeing you flaunting your happy family in his face, he should remain a doormat to you and at your son's back and call, shouldn't have any right to his feelings? Abhi was right when he said that he has to live without Abhir so he has to figure out a way to cut him out of his life, what is wrong with it? He is not bothering you or your son. Ak was adamant on white day too, didn't listen to anyone and we know the result. Abhi's love isn't conditional that's why he is still in love with you, your absence, your marriage and all the heartbreaks you have given him couldn't shake his love because it is not conditional, Ak should be the last one to talk about staying at one place and trying, she is someone who left her whole family multiple times and got married within months of divorce. When you can move on, why not Abhi? Why should he continue trying to be there for your son? The way these characters casually has light Abhi is triggering, he has no right to his own life and feelings. I don't know how they are planning to reunite Abhira, the direction of this show doesn't seem like they want Abhira rather they are taking revenge against Abhira FD who never accepted their cameo as main character and with a half heart they have to let him go but in the process they are destroying the characters which will stay back in the show.

That's her problem....she thinks she can solve all problems in everyone's life keeping her happy family intact and destroying others peace

Regarding revenge from makers....

Don't worry...Unko hamare paas aana...cameo toh gaya tel lene

Its a mahaanta complex. She needs to feel like she is being mahaan, and if someone doesn't want to accept mahaanta, then they are wrong.

And this will not end here, tomorrow she will end up accusing Abhi of her useless good for nothing husband's glorious death, like this girl needs help, anyone near her dies or loses their mental stabilty, be it Sirat, Arohi, Neil, Manjari, Nav ji or Abhimanyu, koi maargaya and the zinda ones are literally suffering from child loss, mother loss or depression, what an example of an epic female lead 🤢🤣

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

What is with this girl and her saviour complex? Why can't she just leave him alone and let him take his time figure things out for himself? He will feel happy seeing you flaunting your happy family in his face, he should remain a doormat to you and at your son's back and call, shouldn't have any right to his feelings? Abhi was right when he said that he has to live without Abhir so he has to figure out a way to cut him out of his life, what is wrong with it? He is not bothering you or your son. Ak was adamant on white day too, didn't listen to anyone and we know the result. Abhi's love isn't conditional that's why he is still in love with you, your absence, your marriage and all the heartbreaks you have given him couldn't shake his love because it is not conditional, Ak should be the last one to talk about staying at one place and trying, she is someone who left her whole family multiple times and got married within months of divorce. When you can move on, why not Abhi? Why should he continue trying to be there for your son? The way these characters casually has light Abhi is triggering, he has no right to his own life and feelings. I don't know how they are planning to reunite Abhira, the direction of this show doesn't seem like they want Abhira rather they are taking revenge against Abhira FD who never accepted their cameo as main character and with a half heart they have to let him go but in the process they are destroying the characters which will stay back in the show.

I agree with you that he has every right to have space and feel his feelings. Those are his alone and him separating himself is perfectly okay. I honestly do feel bad for the guy.

The only thing is...why is Abhir now only Akshara's son?? He's still Abhi's son too isn't he? Why couldn't these people figure out a healthy way to co-parent?

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

I agree with you that he has every right to have space and feel his feelings. Those are his alone and him separating himself is perfectly okay. I honestly do feel bad for the guy.

The only thing is...why is Abhir now only Akshara's son?? He's still Abhi's son too isn't he? Why couldn't these people figure out a healthy way to co-parent?

Abhi needs time, he has faced the worst rejection of his life, he is someone who attempted suicide yesterday, he doesn't need to be forced into action or a new option right now. He has to cope up with his feelings and make peace with the knowledge that his son will never acknowledge him as a parent, does he want to stay a friend to his son or he wants to cut all ties with him and his family? Everything is valid, he doesn't need to be a part of Abhir's life if it brings pain to him, letting go is the best thing people can do in a situation like this. He'll continue seeing Ak and Abhir and will never move on

I agree with you, AK is not good at leaving alone. Abhi does this leaving job better than AK, I mean we saw it when he left her alone at her lowest with bitter words and divorce and now leaving Arohi.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Its a mahaanta complex. She needs to feel like she is being mahaan, and if someone doesn't want to accept mahaanta, then they are wrong.

Totally..she has this need to solve problems and 'do something' and without any awareness of what situation actually demands to be done...she does more damage than help..half of problems between Abhira were ...Akshara doing exactly what she was explicitly told not to do..when it backfired.. everyone reacted and then she became victim..

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

What is with this girl and her saviour complex? Why can't she just leave him alone and let him take his time figure things out for himself? He will feel happy seeing you flaunting your happy family in his face, he should remain a doormat to you and at your son's back and call, shouldn't have any right to his feelings? Abhi was right when he said that he has to live without Abhir so he has to figure out a way to cut him out of his life, what is wrong with it? He is not bothering you or your son. Ak was adamant on white day too, didn't listen to anyone and we know the result. Abhi's love isn't conditional that's why he is still in love with you, your absence, your marriage and all the heartbreaks you have given him couldn't shake his love because it is not conditional, Ak should be the last one to talk about staying at one place and trying, she is someone who left her whole family multiple times and got married within months of divorce.

Wow ! His love isn't conditional so he kept loving akshara when she moved on. But his love was conditional Enuf to divorce her ?🤔

Originally posted by: Krinya

Wow ! His love isn't conditional so he kept loving akshara when she moved on. But his love was conditional Enuf to divorce her ?🤔

Yes! Unconditional love does not equal accepting every mistake of their loved one without any proper acknowledgement. Unconditional love doesn't mean never getting anger at your partner.

Unconditional love doesn't mean having zero expectations from a relationship. It means loving them despite the fact that they didn't measure up to those expectations.