Like always [DT Note: pg-11] - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?! I hope there won't be a stupid argument here saying that's because Abhimanyu loves Abhir more. 😁

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

This is the exact reason I stopped sympathizing at all with AB after custody. The guy can't handle one day of losing Abhir, but when he won custody he was like "I went to court so that Akshnav can win".. Lol lol lol.

I'd written it back then too that AB's ckt graph just makes him come across as someone who either doesn't have full grasp of potential consequences or no will to face the consequences.

Him & his mother have the worst combination of traits - Hypocrisy & Victim playing.

There's no winning with such people. They'll always come off as the more wronged party and the other side will always end up as the aggressor or perpetrator even when that's not the case.

Let go the adults even Abhir didn't behave this way on bring separated from his parents & home. The way even a 7 yr old kid isn't spared from feeling such guilty and burden for breaking Dr. Birla's golden heart only bcos he stated his heart's genuine wish Good luck to the kid & Akshara when they'll return to this guy n his mum.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?! I hope there won't be a stupid argument here saying that's because Abhimanyu loves Abhir more. 😁

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

Very well said!! That is the reason I can't watch this crap anymore. This victim card thing I saw in precap and was like what the hell.. Why are you behaving like kid.. Why can't he stay happy with Aarohi and Roohi.. He always run after something he doesn't have and once he gets it doesn't even value it.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Very well said!! That is the reason I can't watch this crap anymore. This victim card thing I saw in precap and was like what the hell.. Why are you behaving like kid.. Why can't he stay happy with Aarohi and Roohi.. He always run after something he doesn't have and once he gets it doesn't even value it.

When Abhi cries for Abhir, he’s in pain because he’s the best father and is wronged by everyone.

When Akshara cries for Abhir, it’s karma hitting for hiding Abhir’s truth and she deserves it.

When Abhinav cries for Abhir, it’s OTT he’s not even the real father, he’s the fake father who stole Abhir from Abhi and for selfish reasons manipulated Akshara and Abhir to be with him all these years.

Can someone tell my why Abhi was crying in the episode? I’m thinking because he got rejected and he can’t take rejection but please let me know if it was for something else.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Yeah. Because she went through a difficult pregnancy and gave birth to her son and raised him for 6 years. Of course she will be shattered. Abhir stayed with Abhimanyu for two weeks and his mom spread enough venom against Akshara that Abhir had to run away.

They didn't show up to Birla house to show their Mahaanta, they did that because Abhir asked his mom to take him there so he can give the card. Are you watching the show by any chance?

She went through a difficult pregnancy??? Wasn't that her own choice??? Didn't abhi and Akshara rejoice their pregnancy news together?? Wasn't he caring for her during the initial days?! Isn't father and father's love nothing?? Manju wanted Abhir to get used to BH and the members here, Akshara constantly kept coming adding additional stress to her son. And Manju was equally scared that abhi will give up on Abhir!!!

Abhir wanted to BH, anybody could ve taken him there, why did they have to go with him?? Jale pe namak chidakne?? And if they went there with abhir, y are you blaming that abhi is playing victim card?? Did abhi dream of abhir coming to BH with a card???

I am very well watching the show and understanding as well!!!

Originally posted by: focus7

https://twitter.com/lsecretkeeper/status/1687298938863341568?s=20

Exactly.

It's so obvious that he wants the world to revolve around him and everyone should live according to his rules. And when they don't he whines like a baby who didn't get the candy!

Originally posted by: janecastle

Nobody even expects basic human decency from Dr Birla. That's why the slightest thing he did, after his son begged in front of him, is considered some mahaan act. 🤪 In reality, that's the smallest thing a father could do for his child.

If, if you take Abhimnayu Birla and place him in reality, he is the classic example of an gaslighting abuser and probably ranks second after Harsh in toxicity.

But Harsh showed the decency to apologise and get better. This dude doesn't even do that. Just keep crying, I am the victim, I am the victim!

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

If, if you take Abhimnayu Birla and place him in reality, he is the classic example of an gaslighting abuser and probably ranks second after Harsh in toxicity.

But Harsh showed the decency to apologise and get better. This dude doesn't even do that. Just keep crying, I am the victim, I am the victim!

But the great Mr Sharma who agreed to a loveless marriage because he probably couldn’t find a partner for himself and got a family. Took free help from Birlas while Abhimanyu always paid for their services - be it cab or homestay! And still had the audacity to hide the truth about Abhir! Even after it was out, he recounted it as a favor!!! If this is the difference between Achha and “abuser”, I am definitely gonna choose “abuser” always!

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Wow! So the abuser has been doing the slightest at every turn - saving Abhinav’s life in Kasauli, offering free surgery to Abhir(when he didn’t know the truth), helping in Muskan’s wedding - none of which he was expected to do nor he rubbed it in anyone’s face.

But the great Mr Sharma who agreed to a loveless marriage because he probably couldn’t find a partner for himself and got a family. Took free help from Birlas while Abhimanyu always paid for their services - be it cab or homestay! And still had the audacity to hide the truth about Abhir! Even after it was out, he recounted it as a favor!!! If this is the difference between Achha and “abuser”, I am definitely gonna choose “abuser” always!

A person who kicks out divorcing a miscarried wife accusing her for 9 murders is an abuser. Abusing doesn’t have to physical always ,it can be mental abuse too. These kind of abusers will not even be my last option to choose as a life partner, who cannot see anything beyond them and their pain ,he can only hurt ppl(he accepted in yesterday’s episode) with his actions and obsession.

@Jsutfan

Why can’t he be happy with Ruhi as before as he used to be with her before Abhir then why not now ? He can stil spend his weekends with Abhir going to kasuali ,he is rich and that’s the only reason he won the custody of Abhir. So he can fly n meet him every week like how every divorce couple does.

He is always like this he can handle only one relationship at a time and hurt others with his actions. He hurt Ruhi too in that family summer camp with his behaviour, he can’t balance relationships,except with his mom! Today from his actions and behaviour I feel He don’t really care about Ruhi .

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

First of all, I have no idea and I did not say where I said kids are like chocolate and when one is gone, you should be happy with the other. I am explicity stating this so you will not misunderstand me again.

My idea is he is sad. He says he has got nothing to live for. According to that he had nothing to live for when Neil and his unborn children died and he threw Akshara out. But he still found a reason to live in Roohi and his mother. The fatherless child of his brother. She became one of the sole reasons apart from his mom to live.

Now he gets Abhir, Roohi takes a backseat for him. It was explicitly shown in some episodes especially picnic ones. Now Abhir has rejected him and wants to live with his parents. What Abhimanyu Birla can't take is rejection. He becomes sad. Anyone will be. Even Akshara was when she had to give Abhir to Abhimanyu.

But saying I don't have reasons to live when there is Roohi who loves her poppy to the core, it feels like just because he cannot be with his khoon, nothing else matters. And it is not even like Abhir is dead (God forbid), he is with his mom where Abhimanyu can meet him anytime he wants. He is financially so well off, he can fly to Kasauli anytime he wants. That's how custody works in divorces, right? Do parents wash their hands off the other kid's responsibility because one of their kids is with the mom is the question? Akshara got weekends. He can come visit Abhir on weekends. Why is he blowing this out of proportion? Akshara used to wait for weekends so she can spend time with Abhir. She got sick only when Manjari suspended all kind of her visitation rights.

Again, let's see today's episode. Your 6 year old son without whom you cannot apparently live with is, standing behind you, hugging you. What does he give prominence to? His feelings, not the kid's. Who will make a kid feel guilty because the kid just asked for their wish? (I know Akshara and Abhinav did and I do not agree with it all but the context is different. It was not selfish reasons or taking revenge on Abhir because he hurt their feelings or anything, not supporting what they did. Just saying context is different.)

Abhimanyu's character has been very consistent since the beginning of season 3. He hasn't changed even a bit. And that is exactly the problem. In a way the core of his personality is just like Aarohi's pre leap. Both of them want to be the centre of the universe and everyone else to revolve around them. The only difference is the modus operandi. Aarohi schemed, plotted and manipulated. Abhimanyu shouts, breaks stuff, cries and gaslight others. I think Abhimanyu felt entitled for this wanting to be the centre of attention because of his mom and how she raised him. And everytime Akshara showed any priority towards anyone other than Abhimnayu he used to behave so badly making her feeling extremely guilty.

I hope this is clear.

Just tagging Noorain here, since you asked about rejection.