From dada to docman

In today's episode Abhimanyu tried his best to communicate with Abhir as Docman.

He wasn't successful.

Talking from personal experience it's not easy for a 6 - 7 year old to adapt so easily when certain relationships are in place.

I preferred Kairav's track because it's authentic. Children do not have decision making abilities, they can excel in academics but they are thrown off guard when their parents turn hostile hence the term broken home is used where a child is shared by two individuals.

Akshara and Abhinav have erased Abhimanyu's position in his life. That child thinks docman as a solution provider, indebted for saving his life, he considered him as a friend. After the custody battle Abhir realised why Dr. Abhimanyu Birla became a part of his life. Now he's not wanted because Papa has taken over the position of Dada since six years, instead of sharing his concerns, Abhir has started hiding challenges faced, he never mentioned or complained about Shivu.

In the precap Abhir's goes missing.

Abhimanyu's journey as dada has crashed before it started.

I am not clear so I wanted to ask directly are you blaming Akshara and Abhinav that abhir could not accept Abhimanyu if so I am not going to argue no patience any more

Forgot about sharing things with Abhimanyu

Abhir is not even trusting him 🤪😒

In today’s episode he told Akshara that she can share the news of she becomes Abhir music 🎶 teacher only with his Pappa(Abhinav)

He knows if he tell Abhimanyu he will definitely tell his dida 🤪😒 ……….

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

I am not clear so I wanted to ask directly are you blaming Akshara and Abhinav that abhir could not accept Abhimanyu if so I am not going to argue no patience any more

All I can say every action has an equal and opposite reaction.

As of now I am highlighting the after effects of a storm. Can we exactly pinpoint one cause, certainly not, there are many factors to consider.

Similarly my post has nothing to do about the sequence of events that took place six years ago.

I am talking about current situations faced by the main characters.

And look I am not biased towards one particular ship or character, if you have read my post two years ago, I have pointed flaws as and when reqd.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

All I can say every action has an equal and opposite reaction.

As of now I am highlighting the after effects of a storm. Can we exactly pinpoint one cause, certainly not, there are many factors to consider.

Similarly my post has nothing to do about the sequence of events that took place six years ago.

I am talking about current situations faced by the main characters.

And look I am not biased towards one particular ship or character, if you have read my post two years ago, I have pointed flaws as and when reqd.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

It's so so so so sad that Abhir got a mother like AK who would rather lie just to pump her ego and support her 'abhinav pita hai' agenda

Some kids are just unlucky and Abhir is very unfortunate that he is trusting the Sharma couple. Mr and mrs sharma are just abusing his trust

yeah I know you are very balanced it was quite natural for abhir to be like this but there can be some understanding between 3 parents but the 4 th angles interference is destroying child’s happiness so if they want to be happy they have to be transparent and avoid the grand parent but that is not possible it seems

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It takes place in real life also.

Normally a husband and wife can work out their differences, when either of them allow parents, sisters, brothers, friends to come in between, they will take away everything and go.

off topic

BB16 contestant Shalin, spoke about getting visitation rights.

Which means he had to go without any company.

No third party involvement. Recently his ex got married the second time, she shifted to SA along with her son.

Court works out a settlement.

In Abhimanyu case until he realises the extent of damage caused by Manjiri, nothing can be done.

Similarly Akshara should make attempts to speak with Abhir about how he should try his best to adapt etc.

All 3 parents can sit and chart out a plan for Abhir's well being.

One of the reason why Abhir had immense trust in Docman was that the latter saved his papa and treated him. By removing the same man from his life, Abhimanyu has lost all the goodwill and love of Abhir.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

yeah I know you are very balanced it was quite natural for abhir to be like this but there can be some understanding between 3 parents but the 4 th angles interference is destroying child’s happiness so if they want to be happy they have to be transparent and avoid the grand parent but that is not possible it seems

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It takes place in real life also.

Normally a husband and wife can work out their differences, when either of them allow parents, sisters, brothers, friends to come in between, they will take away everything and go.

off topic

BB16 contestant Shalin, spoke about getting visitation rights.

Which means he had to go without any company.

No third party involvement. Recently his ex got married the second time, she shifted to SA along with her son.

Court works out a settlement.

In Abhimanyu case until he realises the extent of damage caused by Manjiri, nothing can be done.

Similarly Akshara should make attempts to speak with Abhir about how he should try his best to adapt etc.

All 3 parents can sit and chart out a plan for Abhir's well being.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

This is not about Manjiri

This is about Abhir and the lies AK and Abhinav are feeding him

Please let's not talk about what is not relevant

What Manjiri did or didn't do is not what I am talking about. You can open a thread about Manjiri and her lies...by all means