Is this EGO or PAIN?

Abhinav was crying by seeing Abhir calling Abhi dada ,, and Akshara was upset ...
If Abhir stopped calling him papa and started calling Abhi as dada , i would appreciate the tears ... Yes it is painful... But what is this , why he is crying for this ,,, jealous ??? EGO ? complex ???? kya hai guys .. .. Acha Aadmi ,, yea yea ,, definitely ...
Now Akshara .. she was happily smiling , all of a sudden it vanished ,, why ? because she felt like she was failing in front of Abhi ... Is she considered it as a war ??? a revenge ??? a fight ??? ..

yae yea , and she is the best mother in the world ...

Your interpretation provides a unique perspective, however, my interpretation is different that these emotional reactions are more about the complex dynamics in their relationships rather than jealousy or a sense of competition.

Abhinav's reaction could stem from his deep affection for Abhir. Hearing Abhir call someone else 'Dada' might have saddened him, not necessarily out of jealousy or ego,.

Akshara's sudden shift from happiness to disappointment could be due to her realizing the complex situation her son is in, caught between two father figures. It's less likely about a sense of competition with Abhimanyu and more about her concern for her son's emotional wellbeing.

It's important to remember that these characters are navigating complex emotional terrain, and their reactions are likely driven by a mix of love, concern, and the struggle to adapt to their unique circumstances.

It ij pain cause now Nikke Ji will prioritise his Dada over him and he will lose his importance as Akshara ji will be running to Birla Shanty daily to meet Betu and his Dada so she’ll barely spend time with him.

Therefore, he will lose both Goenka’s ki Beti and Birla Hospital ka Waaris and will be left with nothing.
Saara Khel Khatam.

Originally posted by: mickeym

i should respect you !!! it is a talent to close our eyes and tell it is darkness everywhere ...But anyways i'am not like that , sorry

While I appreciate your candid feedback, it's crucial that we maintain a respectful tone towards each other, even when our viewpoints differ. Our shared interest in the show makes these discussions worthwhile, so let's continue to communicate in a way that promotes understanding and inclusivity!!!!!

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

Your interpretation provides a unique perspective, however, my interpretation is different that these emotional reactions are more about the complex dynamics in their relationships rather than jealousy or a sense of competition.

Abhinav's reaction could stem from his deep affection for Abhir. Hearing Abhir call someone else 'Dada' might have saddened him, not necessarily out of jealousy or ego,.

Akshara's sudden shift from happiness to disappointment could be due to her realizing the complex situation her son is in, caught between two father figures. It's less likely about a sense of competition with Abhimanyu and more about her concern for her son's emotional wellbeing.

It's important to remember that these characters are navigating complex emotional terrain, and their reactions are likely driven by a mix of love, concern, and the struggle to adapt to their unique circumstances.

@bold1 Abhir isn’t calling “someone else” dada. He is calling his other father dada. The same father who is Abhinav’s bhaiji. The same father whose truth Abhinav wanted to reveal to Abhir. The same father that Abhinav has put on a pedestal. Yes, he can be sad cause his son is no longer living with them. But not for this. He should be happy that his son is finally getting to know his other father. He should be happy that his bhaiji is finally getting to spend some time with his son while not diminishing the role of Abhir’s other parents in his life.

@bold2 This is not the reason her son is in a complex situation. Making one’s child believe that he is unwanted or a financial burden is the worst thing a parent can do. And after doing all that, not showing the affection by hugging him and greeting him properly will make him believe that they don’t love him at all. Akshara being a therapist made the biggest mistake in failing to understand her own child. And nothing would make this right.

Akshara was unhappy because she has fear for Abhinav’s position/value in abhir’s life because Abhimanyu is on the front seat now and nav is on back seat when it comes to abhir’s life.
Socha tha kabhi existence ka pata nahi chalne dege and agar pata chal bhi gaya toh abhimnayu ko abhir ki identity se completely discard kar denge and as a docman he usko apne bete ke sath entire life rehne dege isiliye restraining order, sirf mera and abhinav ka beta, sirf humara beta, nav pita tum docman karti rahi lekin kitna usne Abhimanyu se chupana aur china woh sab Court ne Abhimanyu ko de diya so ego crush ho gayi.
Must say Akshara 100% sirf abhir well being ka soch kar react nahi kar rahi hai, Akshara ke mostly reaction woh kaise nav ki importance banaye rakkhe, nav ka value kum na ho ussi point of view se hote hai.
Jab abhir ruhi ke sath mil kar apne real father ko search kar raha tha tab bhi uska thought process ka center nav he tha, abhir nahi.

Jab usne suna ki Abhimanyu ko abhir ne dedda bola toh immediately usne khud ko and nav ko yeh assure kiya ki papa sirf nav hai, Abhimanyu chahe dedda kyun na bane! Why so much insecurity! Fir se wohi same struggle for nav ka value/importance in abhir’s life! Baccha khud he itna mature hai ki sab ko apne life mai different position de raha hai lekin inka ego and insecurity kabhi khatam he nahi hota.
Abhimanyu ko sirf iss baat se matlab hai ki abhir unke relation ko acknowledge kare chahe fir dedda /dad kuch bhi bol aye and he has accepted this wholeheartedly that papa is nav. Lekin yeh sharma couple toh pura ego and insecurities ki dukan hai.

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

@bold1 Abhir isn’t calling “someone else” dada. He is calling his other father dada. The same father who is Abhinav’s bhaiji. The same father whose truth Abhinav wanted to reveal to Abhir. The same father that Abhinav has put on a pedestal. Yes, he can be sad cause his son is no longer living with them. But not for this. He should be happy that his son is finally getting to know his other father. He should be happy that his bhaiji is finally getting to spend some time with his son while not diminishing the role of Abhir’s other parents in his life.

@bold2 This is not the reason her son is in a complex situation. Making one’s child believe that he is unwanted or a financial burden is the worst thing a parent can do. And after doing all that, not showing the affection by hugging him and greeting him properly will make him believe that they don’t love him at all. Akshara being a therapist made the biggest mistake in failing to understand her own child. And nothing would make this right.

Abhimanyu never felt jealous sharing abhir. But abhinav ko dad bulathe hi uske ankhon se aansoon nikal gaye.

Ye hai uska double standard. Jab kisi aur ke saamne mere beta mera beta kartha tha thab usse dukh nahi hua. Jab log sharmaji ke bete hai abhimanyu ke saamne boltha tha thab usse bura nahi laga.

But jab abhir ne sirf dadda bula liya toh mirchi lag gayi bhaisaab ko 😄

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

@bold1 Abhir isn’t calling “someone else” dada. He is calling his other father dada. The same father who is Abhinav’s bhaiji. The same father whose truth Abhinav wanted to reveal to Abhir. The same father that Abhinav has put on a pedestal. Yes, he can be sad cause his son is no longer living with them. But not for this. He should be happy that his son is finally getting to know his other father. He should be happy that his bhaiji is finally getting to spend some time with his son while not diminishing the role of Abhir’s other parents in his life.

@bold2 This is not the reason her son is in a complex situation. Making one’s child believe that he is unwanted or a financial burden is the worst thing a parent can do. And after doing all that, not showing the affection by hugging him and greeting him properly will make him believe that they don’t love him at all. Akshara being a therapist made the biggest mistake in failing to understand her own child. And nothing would make this right.

Akshara and Abhinav's reactions may stem from their unique perspectives and experiences as parents.

In the case of Akshara, it's important to consider her intentions and the challenging circumstances she faced. She may have initially withheld the truth about Abhir's biological father to protect him from potential emotional turmoil. As a mother, her primary concern would be ensuring her child's well-being and happiness.

Abhinav's emotional response to Abhir calling Abhimanyu "Dadda" stems from his own perspective as a father. It reflects his attachment and sense of loss, as he navigates the complexities of sharing parental roles.Parenthood can evoke a mix of emotions and vulnerabilities.

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

Akshara and Abhinav's reactions may stem from their unique perspectives and experiences as parents.

In the case of Akshara, it's important to consider her intentions and the challenging circumstances she faced. She may have initially withheld the truth about Abhir's biological father to protect him from potential emotional turmoil. As a mother, her primary concern would be ensuring her child's well-being and happiness.

Abhinav's emotional response to Abhir calling Abhimanyu "Dadda" stems from his own perspective as a father. It reflects his attachment and sense of loss, as he navigates the complexities of sharing parental roles.Parenthood can evoke a mix of emotions and vulnerabilities.

Loved how you politely worded your perspective,