Akshnav as parents [DT Note: pg-9]

This is not a Abhimanyu AT/BT please let's discuss Akshnav only as a parent.

I just have one question regarding the Custody Case. So Abhir clearly doesn't want to leave the family he grew up with. Understandable and fair enough.

No 6 year old would want to live without his mother and the father(as he until recently knew Nav as his father)

But Akshnav knew since the Abhimanyu got to know the truth that this situation may arise why didn't they prepare the kid for his own well being or let's say why not when after Muska wedding they came to Ud for case why not prepare him a little or worse i felt today when they have lost they know that Abhir doesn't want to go to another place( a place unknown to him)

Why not explain to him pyaar se that Abhir you are not going too far it's nearby your father is Docman you know him, like him it's not some boogy man who is coming to get you. And we will be here for you just a call away.

Tell him that you will try to get him back and actually try. I am not sure about retrial or not but find a way its about your Kid now.

In my view they are destroying the peace of their Kid too and not realising it.

Could have handled better.

P.S: Not getting why Surekha chachi is so sad. Also, KV crying like he was there since the time Abhir was born. And his statement that Middle Class logo ko haq nahi hota kya bache palne ka aese hi kisi ko dedenge doesn't make sense. Aese hi nahi diya hai no matter you want to acknowledge or not but Abhimanyu is Abhir's father biologically and now Legally and he kinda won a case started by Goenkas so why blame him.

Again let's try to maintain a healthy discussion on how Akshnav could have handled Abhir better and Maturely coz in my opinion they let their own emotions take the front seat instead of the peace of their Kid.

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

@bold : hekdi, ghamand akad ki wajah se

they were of that opinion that no matter what abhir will stay with them and a situation like this will never arise where he will go to birla house because akshara never wanted abhimanyu to know that one of their kid survived akshu madam chapri University se law sikh Rahi thi to prepare for the D-day

ab jis gali Jana hi nahi uska zikr kyun kare.

The court verdict came out as a surprise to everyone that's when panic hit them and I dont know why people cry financial condition ki wajah se abhimanyu won when it's clear as day that along with being financialy stability the judge also mentioned legal document forgery by akshu which will be dealt separately.

If they had prepared abhir I don't think he would have panicked this way.

Akshu could have easily mentioned Abhimanyu's name in BC or left it blank and tell the lie to anyone she wanted as shown.

Kaunsa ghar wale ya abhimanyu BC mangta 🤷‍♀️

I mean she is supposed to be preparing for this moment and see what happened and now they are even though intentionally but twisting the narrative of RWP in Abhir's mind. Kid is more scared to go to an unknown place why not tell him, explain him.

Talk to Abhimanyu once maybe. Didn't they discussed whoever wins they will do things as per what's best for Abhir.

Akshnav is the perfect parents. They can never be wrong as per the current story. if we go as per your explanation when how will Abhir hate his docman and be unhappy with him.

All those thing should happen so that he can return back to Akshnav because AbhiM is at fault for wanting his son's presence in his life.

Akshnav as parents before Abhimanyu came into the picture were amazing. It is also because apart from financial conditions, there were no complications in their life. They could face life together as a family, only till the time problems were "normal". But the minute Abhimanyu entered the picture, Akshara kept switching between arrogant and over confident, and scared and anxious. Then she told herself she had a good guy and she didn't move ok so she forced herself to move on with Abhinav, and then she truly started loving him. But in that journey, she became overly focused on only her husband, and them her child's surgery and then again her husband. As soon as Abhimanyu found out the truth, she went to her arrogant and self confident place because she didn't want Abhimanyu to see her scared. As time went on, she kept penduluming between these two emotions and in that, didn't focus on her child and what awaited him at all. She focused on how it would affect Abhinav, whose emotions were new to her but not her son.

She could have prepared Abhir better, but somehow they both chose to turn Abhimanyu the boogeyman the minute instead of explaining, they told him your real dad wants to take you from us. Even if they won, she knew her son wanted answers, and yet she didn't prepare him for the wait she was going to give him. They both only prepared Abhir for the scarey boogeyman coming, but never for winning or losing.

Originally posted by: switangel27

Akshnav is the perfect parents. They can never be wrong as per the current story. if we go as per your explanation when how will Abhir hate his docman and be unhappy with him.

All those thing should happen so that he can return back to Akshnav because AbhiM is at fault for wanting his son's presence in his life.

I hope this is a sarcastic comment.

Forum ne mujhe trust issues dediye hai please enlighten 🤭

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Akshnav as parents before Abhimanyu came into the picture were amazing. It is also because apart from financial conditions, there were no complications in their life. They could face life together as a family, only till the time problems were "normal". But the minute Abhimanyu entered the picture, Akshara kept switching between arrogant and over confident, and scared and anxious. Then she told herself she had a good guy and she didn't move ok so she forced herself to move on with Abhinav, and then she truly started loving him. But in that journey, she became overly focused on only her husband, and them her child's surgery and then again her husband. As soon as Abhimanyu found out the truth, she went to her arrogant and self confident place because she didn't want Abhimanyu to see her scared. As time went on, she kept penduluming between these two emotions and in that, didn't focus on her child and what awaited him at all. She focused on how it would affect Abhinav, whose emotions were new to her but not her son.

She could have prepared Abhir better, but somehow they both chose to turn Abhimanyu the boogeyman the minute instead of explaining, they told him your real dad wants to take you from us. Even if they won, she knew her son wanted answers, and yet she didn't prepare him for the wait she was going to give him. They both only prepared Abhir for the scarey boogeyman coming, but never for winning or losing.

6 years are left for our assumptions in my view plus the real strength of any relationship is tested in high waves. From my lens today what they did and how they are behaving is bad parenting.

Goenka's too are blaming Abhimanyu for something they initiated. It's like hi i hit you how dare you dodge and won.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

6 years are left for our assumptions in my view plus the real strength of any relationship is tested in high waves. From my lens today what they did and how they are behaving is bad parenting.

Goenka's too are blaming Abhimanyu for something they initiated. It's like hi i hit you how dare you dodge and won.

Oh I agree! Thats why I said before Abhimanyu came into the picture. We can obviously only assume since the 6 years weren't shown but Abhir is a wonderful child and that does come from upbringing.

But yes. This is also true that as parents, Akshnav failed when the tides turned high. Whether it was letting a son be on deathbed and a father not knowing about his son, Akshara wanted a different doctor even then, and now, letting their son be in dilusions because it serves their purpose. They want their happy family, but not their family happy, and thats the flaw in their parenting. They don't want everyone of their 3 people to be happy, they want the 3 people to be happy only together.

Akshara doesn't belong to this planet!!!

Things would have been so easy and clear, had she told the truth to Abhir. Abhir would have decided instead of the court and it would it in their favour.

And abhi would never go against his junior's will.

Khud complicate Karo aur abhi ko blame Karo. That s all Akshara has been doing since the beginning of this season!!!

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Akshara doesn't belong to this planet!!!

Things would have been so easy and clear, had she told the truth to Abhir. Abhir would have decided instead of the court and it would it in their favour.

And abhi would never go against his junior's will.

Khud complicate Karo aur abhi ko blame Karo. That s all Akshara has been doing since the beginning of this season!!!

That missing confidence is the first reason I think they are bad parents. They couldn't trust their own love, upbringing and child, even when he was saying continuously he wants to stay with them.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I hope this is a sarcastic comment.

Forum ne mujhe trust issues dediye hai please enlighten 🤭

If abhir accept AbhiM as his father and happily accept to live with him.. so there wont be any story to continue. 😛