I had enough....... [DT NOTE PG 21]

I get it. Abhinav is not welcome in the show and his fans are not welcome here. We cant make posts, can't debate, can't even defend ourselves against baseless accusations because that apparently is "Bullying"

You know what I give up. This amount of unhealthy, unwelcoming environment just because I do not support Dr. Abhimnayu Birla or ABhira is not good. The constant complaining. Let me say that we do nothing that Abhira fans don't do. Hell many of their posts are worse and the best part is that they don't even get deleted.

Neither Do I want to participate in this unhealthy back and forth

You want the forum to yourself. Please have it back. You won

I just want to say goodbye to the friends I made here. I had a good time with all of you. You guys are great

@Mods I know you are going to delete this post. Please go right ahead and delete it. But please also take a look at countless other mocking us

I have also decided to be done with a particular fd. If i reply to their insinuations, my posts get deleted for the most frivolous reasons. And if I dare to reply to these ppl in the same language, they start playing victim.

It’s better to keep off the prevailing toxicity here.

I had written same post yesterday but couldn't post it because it is against rules to discuss moderation openly.

Looks like both parties are facing the same thing, we are all adults, they have appointed 2 more Moderators, why don't we act like adults and not attack each other?

This is for every member on the forum, thoda to sab control kar hi sakte hai. Everyone will meet in different forum might end up supporting same characters, there's no point fighting

I am writing this in case people are looking for solution because I know every side is feeling like this

When unnecessary replies are made which have nothing to do with the post but rather question the TM's views, why? If they feel Abhimanyu is a sane character, it is their opinion, if they like a BGM, it is their opinion and same for these things happening to Abhinav fans.

This is just a show, watch it like one, moderators will obviously help but we can do something from our side

Diya's 3 posts were locked yesterday and weren't restored, Moderators aren't biased towards anyone. They are doing this for free and considering the fact that both sides have same issues, I guess it is more to do with people using forum than moderators

I admit I did not like what I read on the global forum post. And everyone's response on this post is sort of reassuring that I need not spend my time in completing the banner... If everyone of us is going to leave, what's point of getting new banner...

We may not come here. But just FYI- Posts from both the fandoms are deleted, locked and trashed. I was glad that forum had reached a point to stop using name callings and emoticons and things did get better, but constantly reading posts bashing one character in worst way or being called manipulator for just being there isn't party for us either. But we are back to same old place again with increased restrictions.

@Nora You talk about behaving like adults and then you block me even though i have never been rude to you and then keep replying to my post

Tell me Is that an adult behavior according to you?

@Agni

The blocking on this forum works to stop people from quoting you and since it is my account and my decision, I block people who I feel have been passive aggressive towards me. You provoked me twice in 2 of my posts, I don't indulge in fights and arguments, I prefer ending it from my side.

We can reply to your posts, the site allows it. I am well within my rights to do this, it has nothing to do with my age and the post wasn't about me. I only tried to help because I know the other side was feeling exactly the same yesterday and made the same complaint to Moderators yesterday

Blocking someone is my personal issue, nothing to do with forum moderation

I do not think the moderation is biased because when I made anti abhi post and name called him they got deleted and when I called abhinav names then also it got deleted.

In this post only someone accused me of invading their posts and called me Ullu. But from the morning I only visited my friend's posts whom I treat as my friends except one to which I just now replied. from the morning I was not a part of that thread. So did I bully anyone? Did I invade anyone's space or visited any thread which should not have my reply. ? But still, I am called Ullu openly. Guys, please let me know if you guys feel I am unwanted in your thread. thanks!

Nora, I have never provoked you. I don't provoke. Not you. Not anyone else. The last time we ever interacted was in a post about Having more than siblings. I know you since Mb forum days

My last reply was- " Sharma and Birla should just lead their lives separately"

That s not provocation at all

understand that this forum is not heathy or open anymore because the so called faux soul love ka THE END kardiya makers ne ! But that’s their story and they know what’s better for the show so introduced a new character Abhinav, it may be hard to accept the new parallel lead but the extreme reactions , mocking ,abusing the characters and also actors on personal levels and personal targets on other forum members after Akshara confessed her love to Abhinav is beyond the limits now just because the old ML is not being glorified by Ak and new parallel lead FD

They themselves start mocking but when react suddenly bring victim card and blame

I won’t force u but I don’t think or want u should leave the forum for someone else who is intolerant because u have a different opinion and liking from them.

We are all adults and behave like one without mocking ,abusing and making personal comments ! Can be limited to Healthy discussions about the show and characters !