Abhir fears losing Nav: Epi Air Date 27 June 2023 - Page 18

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Now this is what is called holding on to the past . No one can move on till he doesn't wants to. In real life too people deliberately keep remembering old memories instead of creating good memories with better people . There are more kind , good hearted people who can heal and make person happy but one has to take a step forward.

It can be called holding on to the past or it can also be called accepting the absolute truth about yourself. He will only ever love one woman no matter what.

Some people are clear-eyed enough about themselves to understand that they can try to go through the motions of life with other people but they have already loved enough for a lifetime with the one love they found. That is their truth....it may not be the truth for everyone else but for that person, it is his truth. It's not like Abhi made no efforts to move on from his past....he did. It just wasn't possible for him. He has accepted that after a lot of struggle and made peace with it.

One shouldn't keep feeling pity for him just cuz he can't find someone else to love other than Akshara😆.....yes it is a tragic fate in a sense if you want to talk about practicality of life....but then another way to look at is from the lens of a love that remained true no matter how many situations came up to kill it, devalue it, dismiss it....his love never died no matter whether or not it was reciprocated. Makes him an admirable character for fiction and makes the people who didn't value this love the real objects of pity - atleast in my eyes😆

Pranali said na she is trying to motivate him and she got him active in SM and likely to get reels soon . He promised that day and so keeping it up as he did not in the show.

Moreover SS is taken by Nav...poor guy workaholics cant shut down from keeping themselves engaged so socha hoga thoda SM mein active ho jaye ...But He is different ....❤️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It can be called holding on to the past or it can also be called accepting the absolute truth about yourself. He will only ever love one woman no matter what.

Some people are clear-eyed enough about themselves to understand that they can try to go through the motions of life with other people but they have already loved enough for a lifetime with the one love they found. That is their truth....it may not be the truth for everyone else but for that person, it is his truth. It's not like Abhi made no efforts to move on from his past....he did. It just wasn't possible for him. He has accepted that after a lot of struggle and made peace with it.

One shouldn't keep feeling pity for him just cuz he can't find someone else to love other than Akshara😆.....yes it is a tragic fate in a sense if you want to talk about practicality of life....but then another way to look at is from the lens of a love that remained true no matter how many situations came up to kill it, devalue it, dismiss it....his love never died no matter whether or not it was reciprocated. Makes him an admirable character for fiction and makes the people who didn't value this love the real objects of pity - atleast in my eyes😆

There is no such thing as loving enough in a life time that one wouldn't want to love someone else . As I had said , abhimanyu loved people before akshara came in his life and even after akshara went from his life . He loves his mother , son , brother , sister and will keep on loving them

And there isn't some necessity that he should have a new woman to move on . He needs to simply move on eighter in some way or the other . If a girl pining over her toxic ex isn't a good thing , howcome when the genders are reversed it can be glorified . A person is literally suffering mentally under the baggage of his dark past and present taunts .

I don't feel pity on an imaginary character , but I don't subscribe to the idea of glorifying and praising a human's depression which is clearly a case of a broken heart which many people in this world suffer through.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

This seems likely to me now. Initially I had thought that AbhiM won’t be quite, he will tell Abhir. But with this custody getting ugly, I am beginning to think AbhiM will win and back off after that at some point 😢

Yes, depending on how long the custody battle gets dragged on and how it takes a toll on Abhir, they may again find some lame excuse to hide the truth from him.

A custody win will be bittersweet for Abhi....he will be given permission to take his son with him but still not clear if he will get to have that father-son interaction with his son. No matter what reaction Abhir has, its way past time that atleast the thought is in his head that he is looking at his real father.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

There is no such thing as loving enough in a life time that one wouldn't want to love someone else . As I had said , abhimanyu loved people before akshara came in his life and even after akshara went from his life . He loves his mother , son , brother , sister and will keep on loving them

And there isn't some necessity that he should have a new woman to move on . He needs to simply move on eighter in some way or the other . If a girl pining over her toxic ex isn't a good thing , howcome when the genders are reversed it can be glorified . A person is literally suffering mentally under the baggage of his dark past and present taunts . Depression surrounds him with the only light being his son.

I don't feel pity on an imaginary character , but I don't subscribe to the idea of glorifying and praising a human's depression which is clearly a case of a broken heart which many people in this world suffer through.

Familial love is not the same as the kind of love that Abhimanyu has felt for Akshara so I don't see the point in comparing those two types of love.

And secondly, no one is glorifying depression. Just because a person is not skipping through life with joy doesn't mean they are depressed either....Abhimanyu has already shown he is going through life pouring love into his other familial relationships and his work.....that doesn't mean he needs to hide from the truth of what he will always feel for Akshara. There is no shame in accepting your truth. Doesn't make you toxic or depressed....it shows your capacity to have a heart large enough to accept a truth even if its not easy or practical. The first step to any healing is to accept your truths.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Familial love is not the same as the kind of love that Abhimanyu has felt for Akshara so I don't see the point in comparing those two types of love.

And secondly, no one is glorifying depression. Just because a person is not skipping through life with joy doesn't mean they are depressed either....Abhimanyu has already shown he is going through life pouring love into his other familial relationships and his work.....that doesn't mean he needs to hide from the truth of what he will always feel for Akshara. There is no shame in accepting your truth. Doesn't make you toxic or depressed....it shows your capacity to have a heart large enough to accept a truth even if its not easy or practical. The first step to any healing is to accept your truths.

Howcome It's different , there aren't varieties to love . Love isn't a sexual thing to be exclusive for a partner . A mother loves her kid , kid loves parents , all love are same . Love simply means wanting the best for the other person .

The reason it appears different in case of spouse is for the fact that there is an additional romantic angle between them and it gives this relationship a different vibe .

Abhimanyu always loved people and will continue loving .

https://twitter.com/AanShii3/status/1673637346925858816?t=8UKYLH_nlUzpDAb6A-kZ3g&s=19

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Abhira vs Abhirmanyu. Informal poll 😛

Heart for abhirmanyu

Like for abhira 😆

Checking in on the results of this informal poll....looks like Abhirmanyu won by a solid margin😛😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Checking in on the results of this informal poll....looks like Abhirmanyu won by a solid margin😛😆

https://twitter.com/Arya_Reyes24/status/1673664863002935296?s=20

Isse dekh kar lagtha hai. Akshu queen se kaalin(door mat) ban gayi hai 🤣