MyThoughts- Epi 966

Again great episode.

I enjoy multilayered drama, where some are privy to some secrets and some are not creating a complex relationship dynamics.With AK- AbhiN relationship getting strained in coming days, everyone is going to make conclusions about it differently.

However, what I m not liking is currently there is only one villan that is AbhiMMata. I want more people with grey shade to become part of the drama. That is how AK- AbhiN- Abhir relationship will get challenged in multiple ways. Currently there are too many good people against very few who are bad.

Darkness: All the revealation of truth part has happened in the dark. Also, MK- KV rituals hv happened in the dark. It possibly foreshadows that effect of Abhir's truth revealation, will affect AK- AbhiN relationship, which in turn will affect the MK- KV marriage. I am anticipating that AbhiN's reading about MK- KV relationship coming true in the future.It was easy to note that AK- AbhiN coming together will triumph over all the darkness and bring light. Also, the duo possibly would save MK- KV marriage in future.

Tufaan: One Tufaan brought AK- AbhiN together when Abhir was born. Again, this Tufan, when Abhir's truth is revealed (born) will bring AK- AbhiN together stronger than before in long term. In the previous Tufaan, AbhiN had done all the heavy lifting to save Abhir and AK. Rather, till now, AK has mostly remained on receipient end in AK- AbhiN relationship. Now, in this Tufaan, AK mostly will do all the heavy lifting saving AbhiN and Abhir. During last Tufaan, after getting tenan't notice AK wanted to leave and AbhiN never allowed her to leave. This time AbhiN withdrew emotionally, wandered a bit, but AK brought him back.

I felt bad for AK as she is handling too much, but at the same time, I feel it is AK's turn to contribute to her relationship with AbhiN.

AK on Ruhi: Because AK is an HSP, she is reading too much good in AbhiM's action. AR has explicitly told her that Ruhi is not getting attention of AbhiM. Still today, she said AbhiM is good father for both Ruhi and Abhir. Currently, AbhiM has all his focus on Abhir. You only patchily see him with Ruhi. AbhiM is wanting something like Kasauli house dynamics where all three parents of Abhir staying close or together. When AbhiM said, we three will hv to stay together for lifetime, AR and Ruhi were not even on his mind.

AbhiM and AbhiN: First I wanted to write AbhiN vs AbhiM, but then realized that they are completely different individuals and do not need a comparision.Their actions should be analyzed separately as much as possible.

As per me, AbhiM created a false logic to manipulate AK in doing what he wanted her to do. It almost felt like he used all his good acts of his Kasauli stay to convince AK that his impulsiveness is not impulsiveness. AbhiM even though subtly, gave ultimatum to AK, that she has to tell the truth to AbhiN immediately after the marriage. It was almost like an order in sweet words.

However, I am feeling that Sharma house has changed AbhiM for good to some extent. At the same time, AbhiM does not hv ability to think deeply and understand emotions. He read emotions in Abhir which are actually his.

AbhiN on the other side, could pick each and every emotion of Abhir rightly. How Abhir must have felt at each step after truth revealation. AbhiN could feel Abhir's pain to deepest extent. AbhiN in all the pain did not get upset that AK hid truth from him. All he was concerned was that his baby going thru so much pain since such a long time. Inspite of all, when AK asked for some time from him, he nodded Yes. Patience is key trait of AbhiN.

Last thing I want: Abhir kept asking AbhiM where his papa was and AbhiM genuinely handled the situation pretty well. However, I do not want AbhiM to play cupid for Sharma family in future. I want AK- AbhiN- Abhir to grow, struggle, realize their love for each other and their ' Haq' over each other and deciding to live together without any mediator.

Abhir, the key player: It is possible that Abhir will be the keyplayer due to which AK- AbhiN- AbhiM would take decisions with none of them hving any bad intentions. On the other side, AK had said once, that AbhiM would hurt Abhir just like he had hurt her. Which one will turn true?

Time will tell and I am excited to witness this journey.

The foreshadowing of light coming with Akshnav entering the house was so beautiful

I do hope your reference about this toofan bringing akshara and Abhinav together comes true. I agree akshu is doing too much right now, but isn’t that what life and marriage is? Someday you give 90, and someday you give 10 to have the other person take those extra steps!

Marriage is a very big responsibility and partners do it spontaneously. Wife generally has too much to handle

Nav is going through a tough phase and akshu is supporting nicely

But I could not understand the sudden urge from bhimanyu during this wedding

Post Bidadi he could pushed akshu seems after seing mata he became his old self

It is very difficult to change yourself

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

Marriage is a very big responsibility and partners do it spontaneously. Wife generally has too much to handle

Nav is going through a tough phase and akshu is supporting nicely

But I could not understand the sudden urge from bhimanyu during this wedding

Post Bidadi he could pushed akshu seems after seing mata he became his old self

It is very difficult to change yourself

yeah, I agree about akshu supporting Abhinav and it makes sense,

We’ve only seen them for 6 months, but they’ve lived together for 6 years before that, even as friends staying together you start understanding the other person better

for Abhimanyu, I really don’t understand why he does what he does!! The forceful inclusion with making of muskans brother was literally so extra and not needed!! And now in the middle of his “sister’s” shadi, when he knows akshu is stretched beyond her limits with the duties and stress, he found that the best time to talk to her

Agle din shadi bhi ho jati, muskan bhi khush hoti aur akshu bhi free hoti, ye baat tab bhi ho sakti thi but nahi,

I don’t think he’s ever changed himself, it’s like when he’s happy he’s a different person but turns into just something else under stress or when he doesn’t get his way!!! Today was just one of the days

You are absolutely right. Even with unknown person also we do not push them when they are in the midst of something.