MyThoughts- Epi 960

Fun episode overall.

Abhir's curiosity expedition: It was innocent. Abhir saying that he would give it a 2% thought to his RWP, if he is a hunk like AbhiM pierced hard. I know that was innocent too. But still. It is going to be so hard for Abhir to choose. He has shown to be in awe of charisma, materialism, perfection to some extent. AbhiM has it all and AbhiM loves him too. AbhiN only loves him, but does not have the charismatic qualities like AbhiM. It would be interesting to see how and why Abhir will choose AbhiN over AbhiM, if he chooses?

Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries: AK, it is going to cost you big. Your husband wants to be there for you, he wants to care for you, he wants to be the sole person whom you reach out to when you need in simplest tasks that you do. Your lovey dovey gesture had made AbhiN feel so happy, needed. But, as one person who does not know how to respect boundaries, and you playing along with him, pushed him back. When I see such things, I remember AbhiM, who would exude fire even if Rohan tried talking to you cordially. Now the same person, is acting as if he is your partner. AbhiM doesn't care abt AR, but you do for AbhiN. Hence, you should be the person thinking about it. Today, we can't even blame AbhiN for feeling insecured as AR felt uncomfortable too, which clearly meant you two crossed limits. Partner is not only about sharing private space, but sharing your platonic space too. A wife loves cooking for her husband, she does not even like MIL cooking for him. She wants to be the sole person caring for him. It is same with the husband. A husband loves it when his wife depends on him, even for taking down something kept high on the kitchen rack. Feeling needed is crucial part of husband- wife relationship. You two definitely are violating that space. I know you are naively doing it, and what is in your heart, but the guy even if has no ill- intentions has his heart in what he is doing for you.

AR vs AK: A beautiful scene and AR aced it. Ruhi was picked up by AbhiM and Abhir by AbhiN. Both child- father duos looked exactly the same. Each was adoring their kid. AK was beaming with smile, pride looking at the bond beween AbhiN and Abhir. AR had sad smile on her face. Why? Why the difference? Because she knows that this happy scene is to stay for only for a moment in her kid's life. Ruhi's poppy has abadoned her already.

From horses mouth: What I was feeling all these days came from horses mouth, AbhiMMata. She knows her son in and out. AbhiMMata knows that for her son, love means possession, love means haq (at least till he came to Kasauli. I somehow still think that the change in AbhiM shown in kasauli is temporary). All these days due to freedom given by AbhiN, under the guise of being platonic, he is acting as AK's partner. AbhiMMata said, 'Will AbhiM love Ruhi still the same if marriage does not happen and when Abhir is there in his life?'. It shows that she knows that priorities for AbhiM change quickly ( as we are already seeing), he gives importance to blood relations (closest haq vs distant haq), not heart relations and his love is shallow, just a mirage.

Precap: I would say, thank you! If the pre-cap is true, AbhiN will not leave by himself. Looking at the story till now, I had felt that AbhiN would leave just due to his own insecurities without a villian. But, now there is a clear cut villian in the story and I will not have to hate him for leaving. Going forwards, I anticipate AbhiM standing with AbhiMMata.Let's see!

Not from the episode:

Hospital secret: AbhiN has never told AK what happened in the hospital. But, I want AK to know it somehow. Yes, that was something of the past, but whatever AbhiM said, made deep impact on AbhiN. The statements by AbhiM, that AK in hearts of her hearts knows that she belongs to him, specially that time when his statements were supported by AK's action. Hence, how much ever AK tries to prove that she loves AbhiN, even her simple cordial action is getting correlated to the statement made by AbhiM in subconscious of AbhiN.

I agree with the boundary comment. AK is crossing the limit many times. Every action has an opposite reaction. So Manjuri will be instrumental for make AbhiN leave. I am eagerly waiting the consequences. A bomb blast (may not happen though).

I am disgusted by manjari in the precap! I’m also surprised to see that a few Abhira fans low key support this behavior and thinking. only because they want Abhira back? I’m sorry but Clearly, what manjari is saying to AbhiN is wrong on all levels. She is asking him to leave his wife for her son?! To break his marriage! What?! 🤯 I can try to understand why AbhiM said that to AbhiN but manjari has no right to ask this!

And why is she even talking to AbhiN? She should go to AK and directly ask her if she wants to come back to her ex-husband. It’s her decision to make not AbhiNs.

On top of it, where is Arohi and Ruhi for her now. She forgot them as per convenience. She has totally lost it and same with the people supporting her. Waiting for Manjuri ka tai tai phis.

I kind of disagree with you on the boundaries part especially in today's episode.

She didn't specifically called for AbhiM to come and help her out. She got water and he was standing near her who decided to took of her load by himself. I don't see AK ka fault in this. About the little funny banter okay concerning the history it's weird depending on how you see it- they are eventually planning for a coparenting thing so i think they can be a little freindly(cordial) with eachother. About AbhiN if he feels uncomfortable with this he should speak his heart to AK and not suppress it.

Also, comparing how AbhiM have reacted in past or how would he reacted to similar situation. I think that's the difference between them no. Also, this should not ne the benchmark for something. Stating or seeing things like hey i behaved better than your ex is not good. I am glad that AbhiN has not shown to say things like that and it's only audience who presume it this way.

Coming to precap- I will still find AbhiN stupid if he comes under the manipulation of Manju mata emotional speech. I mean ek baar ko i understand AbhiM is her son sorry devotee son so him always coming under her manipulation is still somewhere how they worked since forever but AbhiN have to be plain stupid to not give her a reality check, or ask Ak what she wants. I would rather prefer him dieing a heroic death instead of just leaving or turning negative.

I also dont think there was anything wrong with AbhiM trying to help AK. I mean he was closer and it can also be an instinct. I think it’s just how one perceives it. I’ve also been thinking that is AK really doing something wrong and giving out mix signals? I mean whatever incidents that has happened between AbhiM and Ak(blessing confusion, kitchen convo with Manju) etc happened either by mistake or are coincidental. I don’t think it should’ve triggered AbhiNs insecurities. AK has been cleared with him that she wants a life with him and Abhir in kasauli. Isn’t it just AbhiN who is reading too much into these incidents and making himself doubtful? I don’t see AKs fault in this. If they all are going to coparent then AbhiN needs to get used to the idea of having AbhiM and his family around and AK being on friendly and cordial terms with them. He will need to trust AK to make this work.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I kind of disagree with you on the boundaries part especially in today's episode.

She didn't specifically called for AbhiM to come and help her out. She got water and he was standing near her who decided to took of her load by himself. I don't see AK ka fault in this. About the little funny banter okay concerning the history it's weird depending on how you see it- they are eventually planning for a coparenting thing so i think they can be a little freindly(cordial) with eachother. About AbhiN if he feels uncomfortable with this he should speak his heart to AK and not suppress it.

Also, comparing how AbhiM have reacted in past or how would he reacted to similar situation. I think that's the difference between them no. Also, this should not ne the benchmark for something. Stating or seeing things like hey i behaved better than your ex is not good. I am glad that AbhiN has not shown to say things like that and it's only audience who presume it this way.

Coming to precap- I will still find AbhiN stupid if he comes under the manipulation of Manju mata emotional speech. I mean ek baar ko i understand AbhiM is her son sorry devotee son so him always coming under her manipulation is still somewhere how they worked since forever but AbhiN have to be plain stupid to not give her a reality check, or ask Ak what she wants. I would rather prefer him dieing a heroic death instead of just leaving or turning negative.

Can you imagine how hard it must be for abhinav to see AbhiM and AK? Yes he invited him to stay for abhir, doesn’t mean he doesn’t get to be insecure about it. He still doesn’t know AK loves him and because of which it’s not wrong of him to think she is probably with him out of obligation cos nothing changed between them. He has to constantly witness the guy who AK for so long was not able to forget the memories off, he has been witness to all such incidents and adding on to AbhiM ka hospital nonsense. Constant reminders of their wedding. It’s easier said than done. He doesn’t doubt AK or abhiM of anything, he is just worried that he is a hurdle to someone’s happy family which btw Manjari accused him off during abhir reveal, also thanks to AK unwittingly blurting out their private matters everyone also knows their marriage truth.

Abhinav is right in his place to wonder. Although AK and AbhiM need to be extra wary of their interactions cos of their past but they aren’t doing it on purpose , so no one is wrong in their place, except for AbhiM for the lack of care and concern for arohi but well I guess no one cares about that.

Originally posted by: focus7

Can you imagine how hard it must be for abhinav to see AbhiM and AK? Yes he invited him to stay for abhir, doesn’t mean he doesn’t get to be insecure about it. He still doesn’t know AK loves him and because of which it’s not wrong of him to think she is probably with him out of obligation cos nothing changed between them. He has to constantly witness the guy who AK for so long was not able to forget the memories off, he has been witness to all such incidents and adding on to AbhiM ka hospital nonsense. Constant reminders of their wedding. It’s easier said than done. He doesn’t doubt AK or abhiM of anything, he is just worried that he is a hurdle to someone’s happy family which btw Manjari accused him off during abhir reveal, also thanks to AK unwittingly blurting out their private matters everyone also knows their marriage truth.

Abhinav is right in his place to wonder. Although AK and AbhiM need to be extra wary of their interactions cos of their past but they aren’t doing it on purpose , so no one is wrong in their place, except for AbhiM for the lack of care and concern for arohi but well I guess no one cares about that.

It was hard for AK too. When she did the Tilak of her baby's father with her sister.

But you didn't see her getting riled up.

It's hard obviously but it's on AbhiN.

I don't understand why AK or Abhi needs to be wary of anything they are not doing anything wrong. This whatever this is comes naturally to them.

Aren't Hrithik and Suzanne behave friendly now?

Many couples in our social circle too.

AbhiN needs to grow up they are not teenagers.

Whatever a 30+ year old man is feeling is on him. For where I see AK has been clear to him always since start- we can be friends, we can start a fresh, i want us to be family, nav is the best loud and clear she said it all. I don't want AbhiM back.

So without saying it loud is it like ab physical hogi tbhi security aayegi Nav ko?

Aese nahi hota.

I am feeling bad for AK in this situation. Too much to handle tbh

Did I say anywhere in the post that AK has no right to be feel bad or hard? Who are you and I to dictate who should feel what? If you want to empathise with AL feel free to do so but doesn’t mean AbhiN has no right to feel insecure.

He just made a sad face, wasn’t rude to abhiM or AK, he was just feeling bad all by himself that’s it. He is now not allowed to do that too kya. Did he even say abhiM and AK can’t be friends or what they are doing is wrong? Did he accuse Akshara or abhiM? Where did Hrithik and Susan’s come? Or did Hrithik’s current girlfriend personally come and tell you that she doesn’t sometimes feel insecure at all? are Hrithik Susanne and Saba living in the same house? Even for a point of comparison how is their situation same as this fictional situation.

All that guy did was wonder if he is coming in between abhirs biological parents. Anyone human will feel insecure and wonder or atleast feel jealous.

Do not worry, some characters are not allowed to feel sad or any other emotion. They are expected to always smile. Emotions and excuses are for everyone but not the one some people have problem with.