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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: focus7

Did I say anywhere in the post that AK has no right to be feel bad or hard? Who are you and I to dictate who should feel what? If you want to empathise with AL feel free to do so but doesn’t mean AbhiN has no right to feel insecure.

He just made a sad face, wasn’t rude to abhiM or AK, he was just feeling bad all by himself that’s it. He is now not allowed to do that too kya. Did he even say abhiM and AK can’t be friends or what they are doing is wrong? Did he accuse Akshara or abhiM? Where did Hrithik and Susan’s come? Or did Hrithik’s current girlfriend personally come and tell you that she doesn’t sometimes feel insecure at all? are Hrithik Susanne and Saba living in the same house? Even for a point of comparison how is their situation same as this fictional situation.

All that guy did was wonder if he is coming in between abhirs biological parents. Anyone human will feel insecure and wonder or atleast feel jealous.


And he is stupid to feel that. A man who needs constant validation. Humanly it's not possible for any woman or man to constantly keep assuring them.


He is a 30+ year old man and all i am saying is AK isn't at fault here

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I wouldn’t say he’s stupid to feel that way. After all, He’s a human and is feeling human emotions. His emotions are also valid. All I’m saying is that AK isn’t doing this on purpose. Everything that happened was just either due to someone else’s mistake or by coincidence. But it’s his and manjari’s perception of it that is making them think otherwise. He’s not doubting AK but his place and value in her life.
I mean if AbhiM is allowed to feel all his emotions and act on it then why can’t AbhiN at least be confused?
plus I think AbhiM as a person had much bigger issues than AbhiN. He knew AK loved him but still he acted out. He has also been manipulated by his mom, his aunt. Have Acted impulsively and served divorce papers twice!
Here AbhiN doesn’t know that AK loves him so that fear of losing her will always be there until she makes her true feelings known to him.


Originally posted by: chaipaani


And he is stupid to feel that. A man who needs constant validation. Humanly it's not possible for any woman or man to constantly keep assuring them.


He is a 30+ year old man and all i am saying is AK isn't at fault here

Edited by Sana_a - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sana_a

I wouldn’t say he’s stupid to feel that way. After all, He’s a human and is feeling human emotions. His emotions are also valid. All I’m saying is that AK isn’t doing this on purpose. Everything that happened was just either due to someone else’s mistake or by coincidence. But it’s his and manjari’s perception of it that is making them think otherwise. He’s not doubting AK but his place and value in her life.
I mean if AbhiM is allowed to feel all his emotions and act on it then why can’t AbhiN at least be confused?
plus I think AbhiM as a person had much bigger issues than AbhiN. He knew AK loved him but still he acted out. He has also been manipulated by his mom, his aunt. Have Acted impulsively and served divorce papers twice!
Here AbhiN doesn’t know that AK loves him so that fear of losing her will always be there until she makes her true feelings known to him.


Thank you for saying this. AbhiN is just harmlessly wondering to himself. He isn’t even hounding Akshara for validation or anything. But apparently him behaving like a normal human being is seeking validation and assurance. Did he even say Akshara is at fault etc? he had every right to feel his feelings.


I have nothing to say to folks who just want to find fault in abhiN and not think from his perspective, and the irony is that ABHIM is still considered god after all his acts and every wrongdoing of his is justified and understood

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sana_a

I wouldn’t say he’s stupid to feel that way. After all, He’s a human and is feeling human emotions. His emotions are also valid. All I’m saying is that AK isn’t doing this on purpose. Everything that happened was just either due to someone else’s mistake or by coincidence. But it’s his and manjari’s perception of it that is making them think otherwise. He’s not doubting AK but his place and value in her life.
I mean if AbhiM is allowed to feel all his emotions and act on it then why can’t AbhiN at least be confused?
plus I think AbhiM as a person had much bigger issues than AbhiN. He knew AK loved him but still he acted out. He has also been manipulated by his mom, his aunt. Have Acted impulsively and served divorce papers twice!
Here AbhiN doesn’t know that AK loves him so that fear of losing her will always be there until she makes her true feelings known to him.



Agreed with this. More than abhinav I am pointing out to the audience constantly blaming everything on AK.

It's like whatever she does isn't enough. More than Abhinav it's been the audience who is like she should love him and now when she is in love with him. They're like she is not doing enough for him.


Coming to Abhinav: The fact that he is constantly doubting the life they have created together is stupid. He should have known by now that this is his reality and they are together in this. One moment he is calling Abhir mera beta hai ji and another main chahu na chahu par woh Mera beta nahi hai, mera khoon nahi hai. Maybe choose one option.

He is an unsecured person and that's not on Akshara that's all my point is.

I don't even care about AbhiM in this equation.


About Manjari manipulation let's wait and see what Abhinav do and react. Will hold my comments till then

Edited by chaipaani - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhira didn't have that normal matual divorce that they will be soo friendly SUDDENLY.. It's not like they co-parenting abhir for 10 years.. nobody knows why they are so normal now.specially their current partners. Ak not confessing her love and hiding truths from nav, Abhimanyu not caring about ar at all,and behaving like cutie cutie with each other.. ofcourse people will be uncomfortable

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I really love all your posts 💕 💕

Though I’m doubtful about Abhimanyu standing by Manju this time around.. specially when he knows that akshu loves Abhinav..

That would be too much of a shitty move.. though he did propose a married lady with a child so I’m not sure.. 🙈🙈


I understand Abhinav’s insecurity and kinda like that his insecurity isn’t about akshara’s loyalty, it’s about whether he’s standing against destiny or a happy family..

also I’m slightly surprised with akshu’s behaviour because she was so damn guilty and uncomfortable talking with Abhimanyu during and after the accident, how has she moved on so much that he’s like a pal now???


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