I feel bad for her - Page 13

Originally posted by: DevilHere

Naah Fahmaan was never introduced as a cameo nd gashmeer leaving was around the rumour mill much much before they introduced Fahman...also since Imlie is an adaptation they'd enough of Aditya Imlie story left...they were only halfway through the Ishti Kutum plot

Same I wanna see how they handle this mess... i don't know where but even I said this makes no sense for them to have a AkshNav confession in midst of Abhira reunion track...she does love Nav now nd i won't deny that fact

Totally with you on these points!! 💯

Idk why ppl degrade housewives? Why do you want to tell a woman what she should or shouldn’t do with her life? If she wants to be a corporate woman, more power to her! And if she wants to be the best wife and a best mother to her husband and kids then kudos to her too! Doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a life or ambitions. Both are boss ladies and deserve respect!

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

She has a life. She has her ambitions. She literally runs her household with her husband. She has a jam business and has sat for her law exams. All the while raising a kid. Even if she didn't have a jam business or law aspirations, she still would have had a life because in India that's 80 percent of our mothers. Women who dedicate their lives to running the household/raising a child. It's not a small feat. Housewives do unpaid labour in this country more than anyone else. One would think education and awareness would make ppl more sensitive to the issue and acknowledge it. But naah, a woman should be president while taking care of our household and child. Anything less? Oh she doesn't have a life or ambitions. She is not climbing mount Everest while being with her family? Blasphemy! What a loser! 😆

A woman can be happy as a leading astronaut in space and another could be happy with her small lil family in the hills with her husband and son. Both are equally valid because newsflash, women are not some homogeneous entity that have the same wants and needs and wishes. Let women choose what they want and let not others project your own wishes and wants on them. Men cannot decide that and neither can other women 😆

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

How about he getting insecured when Rohan is cordially talking with Ak? He was jealous n here Nav is not even jealous ,he have very valid reasons for the way he is reacting. I didn’t understand Arohi’s part in ur post

Hey so for Aruhi part you should see the scene again.

About AbhiM being jealous. I just cleared out for that particular scene. AbhiM will not become perfect if I point AbhiN flaws and vice versa.

Atm for me the only couple in the show is Abhinav and Akshara. So i am talking about them only.

Yes I feel they are trying to show that Abhira is destined and all but i will wait and see for it to make comments.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Again is emotions for anyone can ever be measured to claim is it enough or not.

What i feel is he is a grown up man who should learn not come under the manipulation of Manajari. If he does falls under her emotional manipulation.

I am going to take classes from her

Lol 😂 u should definitely try taking classes from her because she is pro at manipulating ppl either her son or Abhinav. It’s her who manipulated bachu to kick Ak out he is a grown up man too .she is a pro 😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Yahan par toh mein Abhinav ko hi gaaliyan dungi... Why did he even agree for stupid idea... Phasaad ki jad makers ne bohot easily usse bana diya😆

But then on the second thought... Logo ka kya hai...

Had he requested BhaiJi to find some other hotel, everyone would have called Abhinav selfish, turning grey and what not..

When he agreed to have BhaiJi at home, people are still criticizing him or targeting him as an excuse ke uska hi idea tha..

Cannot please all...

I was thinking about that too...

But Banda karein bhi toh kya karein?

AbhiM was not in a mood to calmly discuss anything.. ak and AbhiM were fighting like childishly...

Nav understood that AbhiM wanted to spend time with his son but did not trust Ak and Nav enough to leave them with his son.

His "I want to be with my son come what may on the way" attitude was kinda troublesome

He could say stay in the hotel... But kyaa karein... Nav knew Abhi would not listen to that...

Otherwise AbhiM would have suggested the hotel stay idea

Vinasha kaale vipareetha budhdhi🤦‍♀️😜😜

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I doubt if she loves Abhir as much!!!

She doesn't even remember the other twin, the only time they showed her crying for the other baby was in the hospital.

Her gratitude, her so called selflessness is above everyone and everything in her life!!!

She can make anyone Bali ka bakra for her so called righteousness!!

Off topic.

We need to revisit the past.

When Aaru's nani revealed the truth to Akshara about Naira and Sirat she was shattered.

Trauma started right away. Makers messed up with the psychological aspect of loosing parents at an early age.

Akshara became a doormat after Sirat's death.

Over the years she had own way of solving issues. For example instead facing or confronting the stigma or accusation hurled by step sister, she stayed away from the family.

After her return to Udaipur, Abhimanyu met her. He fell in love.

When Aarohi jumped headlong into the proposal, Akshara backed off. Rejecting AB was a red flag itself. As a doc he did not introspect the reactions exhibited by someone with visible panic attacks.

Akshara became very complex.

DKP had to copy Icche Nodee but thanks to their whitewashing principles, Aarohi never got exposed. In this season no one realises that they inflicted pain.

So pre lead period we saw Akshara willing to go to Jail during Manjiri's accident. She became a fugitive along with Kairav.

There was no communication between the couple. Atleast in Manjiri's case, she had a mild concussion and could not really understand what was going on but to safeguard Kairav and to keep a promise just disappearing to Mauritius on a false identity, forging KYC papers wasn't really expected.

Abhira alliance got jinxed thanks to their behavioral patterns when families got involved. They were never there for each other.

Akshara had great tact when her loved ones wer in danger somehow she could understand the extent or the fatal outcome of her actions.

For ex Neil.

Unfortunately Abhimanyu also exhibited certain traits which totally destroyed the relationship.

After getting married to Abhinav fingers crossed for her to rediscover love.

Originally posted by: Sana_a

Totally with you on these points!! 💯

Idk why ppl degrade housewives? Why do you want to tell a woman what she should or shouldn’t do with her life? If she wants to be a corporate woman, more power to her! And if she wants to be the best wife and a best mother to her husband and kids then kudos to her too! Doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a life or ambitions. Both are boss ladies and deserve respect!

I feel like you have to reach a certain stage and age in life to understand women who run the household and/or raise kids are the strongest humans out there. That realization will come to everyone. Those who degrade still haven't reached that age, stage or maturity and still think women have to do step out of their house to be ambitious or have a life or be successful and happy. Hopefully time will humble such thoughts.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Yahan par toh mein Abhinav ko hi gaaliyan dungi... Why did he even agree for stupid idea... Phasaad ki jad makers ne bohot easily usse bana diya😆

But then on the second thought... Logo ka kya hai...

Had he requested BhaiJi to find some other hotel, everyone would have called Abhinav selfish, turning grey and what not..

When he agreed to have BhaiJi at home, people are still criticizing him or targeting him as an excuse ke uska hi idea tha..

Cannot please all...

Then Abhinav would be accused of trying to stop AbhiM from spending time with Abhir 24/7.

Staying in the same house isn't the problem. But man, you are old enough to understand every couple needs privacy. The main issue is AbhiM always getting into their couple discussions as a third wheel. I actually thought atleast one of them will tell him 'yeh hum pati patni ki beech ki baat hain we rather you dont interfere' but no. He could have just stayed at his room when Abhir wasn't around but noo 😆

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

How can he ignore how Ak n AbM crossing their limits ignoring their respective partners? Abhinav is a man with a good heart and full of emotions so he will definitely get effected by selfish MJ’s manipulation, begging and emotional blackmailing..

Lol 😂 u should definitely try taking classes from her because she is pro at manipulating ppl either her son or Abhinav. It’s her who manipulated bachu to kick Ak out he is a grown up man too .she is a pro 😆

That's why i mentioned hrithik suzane example. I don't see them crossing any boundaries.

Are they constantly hugging eachother, chilling with eachother only? Today only she dropped the bowl on Abhi he shouted but i didn't see her overreacting like baby are you hurt no she normally asked lagi toh nahi.

They are being cordial, friendly mostly coz that's the future. Eventually they have to tell Abhir truth.

Why is it it's everybody's faults but the flaws in AbhiN is his goodness.

He is feeling inferior then why not he too decide to do something to be better than others if that's what he feels.

If he feels Akshara deserves better than why not be thag version of better or best ask Akshara what she wants.

More than AbhiN it's the forum members that are constantly blaming Akshara. Poor girl whatever she does is not enough for anyone be it her ex, sister, brother, ex mil, present husband and audience.

She is constantly boosting AbhiN ego. She is also equally busy with the wedding she is doing more infact.

AbhiN is doing the bare minimum in this wedding. Even the expenses are mostly handled by AbhiM yet the preaching is of AbhiN the best.

I will say it again He is clearly a 30+ year old man who should know how to handle his emotions, not need constant coddling, definitely not geg manipulated by his wife ex mil who he has seen behaving bad to his wife.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

That's why i mentioned hrithik suzane example. I don't see them crossing any boundaries.

Are they constantly hugging eachother, chilling with eachother only? Today only she dropped the bowl on Abhi he shouted but i didn't see her overreacting like baby are you hurt no she normally asked lagi toh nahi.

They are being cordial, friendly mostly coz that's the future. Eventually they have to tell Abhir truth.

Why is it it's everybody's faults but the flaws in AbhiN is his goodness.

He is feeling inferior then why not he too decide to do something to be better than others if that's what he feels.

If he feels Akshara deserves better than why not be thag version of better or best ask Akshara what she wants.

More than AbhiN it's the forum members that are constantly blaming Akshara. Poor girl whatever she does is not enough for anyone be it her ex, sister, brother, ex mil, present husband and audience.

She is constantly boosting AbhiN ego. She is also equally busy with the wedding she is doing more infact.

AbhiN is doing the bare minimum in this wedding. Even the expenses are mostly handled by AbhiM yet the preaching is of AbhiN the best.

I will say it again He is clearly a 30+ year old man who should know how to handle his emotions, not need constant coddling, definitely not geg manipulated by his wife ex mil who he has seen behaving bad to his wife.

Ak deserves better so she got AbN. By watching Ak, AbM ‘s over friendliness , Ashirvad, now selfish Mj begging he is feeling an outsider there and nothing wrong in that. I will criticise Nav too if he is behaving stupid not like some who will defend an abuser too for their love to that ckt.
@ bold May be u r watching a diff show but all the arrangements are done by Abhinav and Ak .. faux bro Mr Birla is helping but not financially, Nav clearly said he doesn’t want to take any financial help from AbM and Ak too cleared it.But some ppl want to make him mahan in every situation doesn’t work.

Not every person behaves same , so his wife is happy to handle his emotions. At least he is not being aggressive and kicking her out in his emotions. I guess He will not even leave after Mj begging him but something else might happen too ..I won’t jump into conclusions until the episode is aired.