Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 10

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

I see your point about people often working out of necessity, and you're absolutely right. There's no shame in doing what you need to do to make ends meet. However, I felt too that Akshara's jam-making job is being portrayed as something she has to do, rather than something she chooses or enjoys to do.

What if instead, the show portrayed her as someone who found joy, creativity, and fulfillment in her work, despite it being born out of necessity? Like her working in the nearby hospital as a music therapist or taking music classes. This could make a big difference in how viewers see Akshara's situation. Instead of seeing her as someone who's just getting by, they could see her as someone who's making the best out of her situation and finding happiness in it.

Akshara is making the best of the situation she got. At no point was it mentioned that Akshara hates her Jam-making business.

There are millions out there who are just getting by. Some not even that. It is the reality of the world we are living in.

Akshara s situation is much better. She and her husband both work to run their small nuclear family. So, they are sharing all the responsibilities. Akshara s jam business is famous. Abhinav does well enough according to middle-class standards.

They have a house of their own. Which is a huge thing in itself.

Akshara is also studying law.

She has a peaceful life, a loving husband, and an adorable son. Also, a great career ahead

Trust me she living a good life. In her own words, she is content and happy

Lmao the topic is successfully diverted as usual. TM should have known the nature of this forum lmao one character will be dragged for no reason at all

Folks sympathizing with ak and her choice on wd to make random dude father of her child, if / when she goes back to her "abuser" I hope she gets such viceral support 😂😂😂 i mean in nav dies tomorrow abhir will need a dad right. AK will need another man for her support.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Then she could’ve made Nav her really good friend who would have helped her heal her emotional wounds and baggage.why they needed to

Marry..?cant they be neighbors and good friends,support system?..she could have eventually fell in love and married him..he was just a longterm rebound she tried to stick on to all those 6 years in my opinion..

Dude how many times it has been called out that Ak didn’t marry immediately after coming into contact with AbN. They lived together for 7 months and only after that they got married. So please stop your random random chant coz AbM is more random than AbN by your standard when they gor married.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

You seem to have skipped the arc where Ak post divorce goes to Pathakot, is kicked out of a girl’s hostel because she is pregnant, then is held by police because they blame her of prostitution and then Abhinav claims about all this wife thing? She did not marry him immediately, she did not trust him immediately, there was 5-6 months gap before they actually married. Someone with such long trauma, its natural that there will be insecurities, and Abhinav made her feel secure. They initially started off as being friends, but he was there for her in her complicated pregnancy, something Abhim should have done, he also took care of Abhir when Ak was sleeping post giving birth, so she must have seen a good man in him and would have wanted to give him a family that he always craved for. He must have reminded her of old Ak, both Abhin and Ak craved for a family, because one never had one and another was always the neglected one. And no doubt single Ak would be great but what if she wanted Abhir to have the love of a father and that might have drove her to marriage. So what she did not marry for love, more than half of India’s population does arranged marriage. She had a baggage with her called Abhim, and after 6 years, after meeting him and calling him out for the WD and putting out all the burden she carried, she must have felt lighter and is finally ready to open up her heart, which is also okay. Why she did not go to her paternal family like any logical person, because she heard Manish blaming her for Neil’s death, and she was already living the guilt and this might have increased her trauma

Sorry buddy come tomorrow for my lecture and discussion class.todays classes already got over at 6pm in this topic and I’m on a break to recharge my energy after lecturing and discussing with the tough batch of Abhinav and Akshu fans. 😌😁 Tomorrow you can expect another discussion class for Akshara and Abhinav fans which you may or may not participate its your choice. sorry it’s a joke 😄and again whatever I mentioned in my previous posts were my personal opinions and I didnt force anyone to agree and my opinion stays too. so no need to be so fired up dear ones we cant change each other’s perceptions its fine.

Who invited you to spout your poison here? If you don’t have guts to hear the replies, better not post your nonsense.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Sorry buddy come tomorrow for my lecture and discussion class.todays classes already got over at 6pm in this topic and I’m on a break to recharge my energy after lecturing and discussing with the tough batch of Abhinav and Akshu fans. 😌😁 Tomorrow you can expect another discussion class for Akshara and Abhinav fans which you may or may not participate its your choice. sorry it’s a joke 😄and again whatever I mentioned in my previous posts were my personal opinions and I didnt force anyone to agree and my opinion stays too. so no need to be so fired up dear ones we cant change each other’s perceptions its fine.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Lmao the topic is successfully diverted as usual. TM should have known the nature of this forum lmao one character will be dragged for no reason at all

Folks sympathizing with ak and her choice on wd to make random dude father of her child, if / when she goes back to her "abuser" I hope she gets such viceral support 😂😂😂 i mean in nav dies tomorrow abhir will need a dad right. AK will need another man for her support.

Again yes, it would be her choice whether we like it or not. I wouldn't find socioeconomic reasons to mask my disappointment. If she doesn't cheat on Abhinav, I would just find her bit cringe and move on.

Abhinav being a random stranger is valid when Abhim, a cardiosurgeon, and Akshara, a girl in her early 20s clearly went to school together before sending rishta for her and then her sister immediately afterwards. Lol

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Toh jab itna aim lekar show bana hi nahi toh hum kyun soche ki deliberately Middle class ko neecha dikha rahe hai 😆

But I will give some amount of credit to Zama Habib- The man has written and produced some of the best shows - Sasural agenda phool, Saas Bina Sasural, Nimki Mukhiya, and Zindagi Mere ghar aana

Hell. He was the one who created OG Kaira. Before Karthik got ruined

Yahi toh mera point hai inka presentation is wrong. And not in this case scenario you pick kuch bhi:

1) Here to show struggle, this was clearly for AbhiM and Mata rani to understand Akshu k struggle

If you present it right people will accept and related.

Abhinav is the nice guy almost 90% of people stopped liking and relating. There must be something wrong no in the presentation that this is happening

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I think the aim is not present normal middle-class life as a struggle. But showcase how far removed from reality Manjari actually is.

People like Majari exist. Another point is Abhinav s inferiority complex regarding his financial status. Again a very common basic human emotion. We all have felt insecure at different points in our life about various things. Many struggle with it for years.

As a writer, you have to portray a lot of different POVs and emotions. That does not mean that you agree with all of them.

@bold True. Insecurity & under confidence arising due to financial status is a v.common phenomenon irl. That's why in India still during many arranged marriages, more than mental compatibility socio-economic compatibility of bride & groom families are taken into account.

Gorilas are filthy rich. Under normal circumstances a guy of Nav's standing would just be someone working for them and not their jamaisaa. And Nav knows this v.well. That's why he feels out of place amongst them.

As far as its shown, Sharma fam is a middle class family who were living fine in their means. There were minor deficits sometime like whether to use the money for buying new saree or shoes, Abhir's annual day fees... but it was nothing major. Abhir's illness threw them off track & in reality too in a country like India where there's not universal health coverage a major health issue can strip a family of its savings.

I feel the main issue here's the execution. Ever since that hole in the heart track started things had been rushed... which rendered the treatment of real, sensitive topics inadequate.

PS I hope I haven't deviated from what was gettin discussed 😅