Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 9

Otherwise she should just "let the ml take care of all hers problems and do as he says" like the good girl she is. "Sunti kyun nahi woh uski baat?!!""

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

What is the problem in Akshara working for "need"? A lot of people work to fulfill basic needs. Many work other jobs while simultaneously pursuing a career.

Nothing wrong with either

The presentation is wrong. This is something that a mass group watches, gets inspired. It is a moral duty of a film maker story teller to inspire people, aware them. What you are saying is right but it is not what they are presenting on screen.

Do you know why it has been shown her making jam even during the wedding for Manju mata to see her struggles. They themselves are presenting a normal lifestyle as a struggle and that's what the problem is.

They are failing both ways.

What they have shown so far:

Insulting middle class life

Presenting the basic necessities as struggle

Abhinav being insecure

They failed to set this as an example that it's fine for a women to not be ambitious like Aruhi too plus

It's fine to be someone like Aruhi. Both are fine in their own way.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

The presentation is wrong. This is something that a mass group watches, gets inspired. It is a moral duty of a film maker story teller to inspire people, aware them. What you are saying is right but it is not what they are presenting on screen.

Do you know why it has been shown her making jam even during the wedding for Manju mata to see her struggles. They themselves are presenting a normal lifestyle as a struggle and that's what the problem is.

They are failing both ways.

What they have shown so far:

Insulting middle class life

Presenting the basic necessities as struggle

Abhinav being insecure

They failed to set this as an example that it's fine for a women to not be ambitious like Aruhi too plus

It's fine to be someone like Aruhi. Both are fine in their own way.

I think the aim is not present normal middle-class life as a struggle. But showcase how far removed from reality Manjari actually is.

People like Majari exist.

Another point is Abhinav s inferiority complex regarding his financial status. Again a very common basic human emotion. We all have felt insecure at different points in our life about various things. Many struggle with it for years.

As a writer, you have to portray a lot of different POVs and emotions. That does not mean that you agree with all of them.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Akshara needs to be in a drunken state to say ILU to her husband from 6 years. From my and my point of view marriage between Akshara and Abhinav is not a marriage at all. It is a comprise that Akshara has made with her life so that she can give a stable family to Abhinav.

It is a compromise that Abhinav has made so he can have a wife, a child and a family. He has even adopted the neighbour as his own sister.

Honestly anything coming from AK is a total bakwaas. The lady is still making jams, could not even expand her business or the brand name.

Instead of focusing Abhinav (who btw is a prince direct from a fairy tale but without any kingdom), the writers should have focused on building AKs character as a woman and mother. Women do not always marry a male who helps her in need, there is something called friendship too and I that is something the writers could have explored as well but no they had to make a jalebi of all relationship in the show for the sake of their title.

Really I don't care whether she says ILU to Abhinav or I hate you to Abhi but certainly I will not marry a man who offers me his seat in public transport or a doctor who will help save my child or the friend who has helped me in finishing my project or the bank manager who approves my loan.

Women are getting into leadership roles, have gone to the moon, are flying planes and here we are stuck with a jam making mother

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I think the aim is not present normal middle-class life as a struggle. But showcase how far removed from Manjari actually is.

People like Majari exist.

Another point is Abhinav s inferiority complex regarding his financial status. Again a very common basic human emotion. We all have felt insecure at different points in our life about various things. Many struggle with it for years.

As a writer, you have to portray a lot of different POVs and emotions. That does not mean that you agree with all of them.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I think the aim is not present normal middle-class life as a struggle. But showcase how far removed from reality Manjari actually is.

People like Majari exist.

Another point is Abhinav s inferiority complex regarding his financial status. Again a very common basic human emotion. We all have felt insecure at different points in our life about various things. Many struggle with it for years.

As a writer, you have to portray a lot of different POVs and emotions. That does not mean that you agree with all of them.

Trust me itna aim lekar toh I am 100% sure yeh show nahi bna hai

All that was Manju Akshu patchup and see how fast the night changes.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Trust me itna aim lekar toh I am 100% sure yeh show nahi bna hai

All that was Manju Akshu patchup and see how fast the night changes.

Toh jab itna aim lekar show bana hi nahi toh hum kyun soche ki deliberately Middle class ko neecha dikha rahe hai 😆

But I will give some amount of credit to Zama Habib- The man has written and produced some of the best shows - Sasural agenda phool, Saas Bina Sasural, Nimki Mukhiya, and Zindagi Mere ghar aana

Hell. He was the one who created OG Kaira. Before Karthik got ruined

Originally posted by: janecastle

Why can't she marry the man she wanted and trusted? Both are grown up adults who formed a safe, secure family for Abhir and each other. He was not a rebound, but a man she trusted, respected and chose to be her husband and her child's father. Not every relationship need to start with love when there are other important factors involved.

Sorry, I have to disagree with your take on this. I’m stating my personal opinions here and it’s okay if it doesn’t match yours. Firstly, I feel marriage should be about love and companionship, not just an easy solution to a tough situation. Akshara and Abhinav did create a safe place for their child. But, She didn't necessarily need to be married to ensure her child's well-being. This could have been a great opportunity to challenge some outdated ideas about single moms. The show provides a narrow minded take on this subject.

Secondly, shouldn't overlook the importance of love in a marriage. Trust and respect are essential, yes, but spending 6 years in a marriage without love can send the wrong message. It suggests it's alright to be in a relationship without love, which isn't a good thing to encourage.

Abhinav could've been there for Akshara as a good friend, but instead, the story put him in a husband's role. This gives the impression that only a husband can provide the right kind of support, which is a bit narrow-minded. Akshara could've had a supportive and strong friendship with Abhinav, which would have allowed her to remain independent and show a different kind of support system outside the usual marriage setup.eventually if she fell in love and married him it would have seem better. Again its just my personal opinion and its normal for people to have different viewpoints.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

What is the problem in Akshara working for "need"? A lot of people work to fulfill basic needs. Many work other jobs while simultaneously pursuing a career.

Nothing wrong with either

I see your point about people often working out of necessity, and you're absolutely right. This is my personal opinion. There's no shame in doing what you need to do to make ends meet. However, I felt too that Akshara's jam-making job is being portrayed as something she has to do, rather than something she chooses or enjoys to do.

What if instead, the show portrayed her as someone who found joy, creativity, and fulfillment in her work, despite it being born out of necessity? Like her working in the nearby hospital as a music therapist or taking music classes. This could make a big difference in how viewers see Akshara's situation. Instead of seeing her as someone who's just getting by, they could see her as someone who's making the best out of her situation and finding happiness in it.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Sorry, I have to disagree with your take on this. I’m stating my personal opinions here and it’s okay if it doesn’t match yours. Firstly, I feel marriage should be about love and companionship, not just an easy solution to a tough situation. Akshara and Abhinav did create a safe place for their child. But, She didn't necessarily need to be married to ensure her child's well-being. This could have been a great opportunity to challenge some outdated ideas about single moms. The show provides a narrow minded take on this subject.

Secondly, shouldn't overlook the importance of love in a marriage. Trust and respect are essential, yes, but spending 6 years in a marriage without love can send the wrong message. It suggests it's alright to be in a relationship without love, which isn't a good thing to encourage.

Abhinav could've been there for Akshara as a good friend, but instead, the story put him in a husband's role. This gives the impression that only a husband can provide the right kind of support, which is a bit narrow-minded. Akshara could've had a supportive and strong friendship with Abhinav, which would have allowed her to remain independent and show a different kind of support system outside the usual marriage setup.eventually if she fell in love and married him it would have seem better. Again its just my personal opinion and its normal for people to have different viewpoints.

I completely disagree with you. But yeah, let's end it here. Different people, different views. I'm glad that you put it as your personal view and not a general opinion.