So... I think it's clear now how Abhimanyu becomes "Head" Ladkiwale - Page 16

If Abhira reunion happens which I think is most probable...Nav is kinda where he's coz of his own decisions....not absolving AK of anything (girl should really make up her mind)...but seriously imagine u help out someone out of genuine goodness nd they tell u let's marry nd u be my father's kid but don't expect any sort of marital relationship emotional/physical from this marriage

What do you do....say yes this is the best proposition I've ever had

Chlo for some idiocy you agreed to it....u see the ex nd u go round him going bhaiji bhaiji bhaiji... he's ex for a reason....chlo that' also fine since u r good

Where's the communication.... where's i don't think it's comfortable for anyone of us in a arrangement like this...live in a nearby hotel visit whenever u want to spend time with ur child.... ismein bhi he had to be Ohh I'm a good person so I'm gonna offer AbhiM to live but then given the history with my wife this arrangement makes me feel very uncomfortable (it should)...nd I'm pretty much weirded out seeing them interact casually

Why is there no conversation to maintain boundaries...since it was AK who insisted she wanted to give the marriage a chance.... it's rather healthy to have this conversation if AbhiM presence is uncomfortable.... he's got enough money to stay at a hotel nd take daily cab rides from hotel to kasauli home

Log bechare har jagah "male lead, male lead" ke naare lagakar khudko dilaasa de rahe hain, aur aapne isko vamp bana Diya? Bahut nainsaafi hai yeh toh🥲🥲🥲

+in my opinion

Chalo.. I fixed it for you

VampAre kya hota hai? Do you ,by any chance, mean Vampire?

Toh even I will agree. That Abhimanyu can be compared to one those blood sucking vampires who get obsessed with young girls and stalk them endlessly. And Harshad also has started wearing contacts to... I don't know, look like them perhaps? Toh we can all agree that Abhimanyu is a Vampire from now on.🧛🧛

Before concentrating on Abhimanyu actions or saviour moment you need to concentrate on Nav actions..No one told him to replaced it or hide the truth from goenka..Muskan herself should've accepted it infront of kairav..

I agree to this.. tho everything in yrkkh is far from reality but if let's say we do put the gist of events irl context... The biggest takeaway from this whole mess is that :

(a) Don't engage in unecessary help. If like other passengers Nav wouldn't have bothered himself with Ak or after admitting her in hospital called her fam & left... he would be in a much better situation today.

(b) Don't be good or empathic at the cost of your own peace & stability. I haven't heard people keeping their ex in home in name of real papa's feelings but I've seen people who've a tendency of putting others feelings, desires above themselves and they mostly never win in life... I don't remember exact quote but Bob Marley said that The problem with world is that it doesn't cherish good people but try to use them... which effectively leaves us with more takers than givers.

Chalo at last.. out of all the nonsense shown... this is one bitter but real msg this show will put out.

Help Krna is a good thing but uski koi toh limit kheechega insaan

I don't understand why is Nav pushing everything under the rug...he clearly see's Abhira nd that does make him uncomfortable nd insecure.... ekbaar bolne mein kya jaata h.... that' how couples should communicate

Yeh issues ko swipe under the rug nd act all happy happy...sbkch thik h ji...bdhiya hai ji se kya hota.

Forgive me for the language but isko madad Krna nhi C ktwana kehte hai

Originally posted by: verve

I agree to this.. tho everything in yrkkh is far from reality but if let's say we do put the gist of events irl context... The biggest takeaway from this whole mess is that :

(a) Don't engage in unecessary help. If like other passengers Nav wouldn't have bothered himself with Ak or after admitting her in hospital called her fam & left... he would be in a much better situation today.

(b) Don't be good or empathic at the cost of your own peace & stability. I haven't heard people keeping their ex in home in name of real papa's feelings but I've seen people who've a tendency of putting others feelings, desires above themselves and they mostly never win in life... I don't remember exact quote but Bob Marley said that The problem with world is that it doesn't cherish good people but try to use them... which effectively leaves us with more takers than givers.

Chalo at last.. out of all the nonsense shown... this is one bitter but real msg this show will put out.

A. Completely disagree. Nav helping Ak has nothing to do with him accepting to be her son's father and her fake husband. It's not like there weren't instances for him to back out. I think the bigger issue is constantly showing that the female lead is stupid. Why have the white day happen at all? I mean, why show Ak be wrong about going to rescue the girls? They could have easily made it a situation where Ak had to act, and there were no other options. Even the police came and said that they should have waited for the police instead of fighting themselves. Abhi can still have misunderstandings and still throw her out. Even now I am hoping she and Neil get recognition for the brave act they did instead.

B. Nav only did that to avoid conflict. He wasn't doing shit to respect real papa's feelings. The narrative is very clear on that. Nav was worried that Abhi would react badly, but like Ak he has no real care for how Abhi feels about all of this. In my book this is not empathy. He simply wants to avoid conflict and be the bigger man. But even so, it wasn't required for Abhi to stay in their house. I think it would have been better for Nav to say you can stay in Kasauli as long as you want and we can decide a schedule for you to meet with your son. I think Abhi would have been good with this and just stayed at a hotel.

Originally posted by: verve

I agree to this.. tho everything in yrkkh is far from reality but if let's say we do put the gist of events irl context... The biggest takeaway from this whole mess is that :

(a) Don't engage in unecessary help. If like other passengers Nav wouldn't have bothered himself with Ak or after admitting her in hospital called her fam & left... he would be in a much better situation today.

(b) Don't be good or empathic at the cost of your own peace & stability. I haven't heard people keeping their ex in home in name of real papa's feelings but I've seen people who've a tendency of putting others feelings, desires above themselves and they mostly never win in life... I don't remember exact quote but Bob Marley said that The problem with world is that it doesn't cherish good people but try to use them... which effectively leaves us with more takers than givers.

Chalo at last.. out of all the nonsense shown... this is one bitter but real msg this show will put out.

You know what your point makes sense.

As a good human he should have helped Akshara like it's actually said no one bothered.

But he should have informed her family and police of her condition coz in real life if Akshara had died bhai bht lamba jaata andar.

But that's his flaw right.. a person who has the right amt of helping tendency, right amt of drawing boundaries, right amt of empathy, right amt of giving back to others, right amt of letting go & right amt of exercising right is nearly impossible.

I understand what you're saying is the practical thing.. and I absolutely have never liked Nav's overfriendly or over giving actions... but the kinda personality sketch Nav's been given it clearly shows he's far from practicality...

Baki communication kyu nhi kar rahe hai.. plot convenience for ensuing mu or sudden ckt flaw surfacing... which ever it is only the path-breaking writers know.. bcos Akshnav used to communicate first but now they don't.