MyThoughts- Epi 954 - Page 2

Originally posted by: focus7

Akshara hasn’t done anything to cross the line YET. She has just forgiven or moved on from the hate she has for AbhiM.

Let’s not bring in other shows while discussing yrkkh. The circumstances, the story everything is different.

In acts: Agree. But she keeps on touching that border. Even today with 'loving my jam' sentence, she touched it. But, she realizes it quickly and retreats.

I am not sure about hate. I don't think AK as person can hate. AbhiN had said it nicely during Kalash scene, inspite going thru so much AK does not hv any hate in her heart. She never hated AbhiM, but feared him.

For now, I feel she is just grateful to him for making her life easy with regards to Abhir. I do not feel she has forgiven him. Rather, forgiving him is not even on her mind. Her all energy is invested in protecting her Family from AbhiM (his impulsive immature acts) and Manjiri's whims.

Yes, agreed. I feel the protagonist hv maintained overall decorum in YRKKH till now. After temple confession, I do not see AbhiM crossing the line as well.

Even though he has shifted from Mrs.Sharma to Akshara and from aap to tum. Akshara has done the same. All these changes by AK and AbhiM don't feel significant but they are. They hv and wll not show it explicitly but these changes by the duo are noticed by their repective partners. They will take it as a hint of AK- AbhiM reconcilliation process and back off.

Today I almost felt that AR wanted to ask AK if she is still interested in AbhiM, but due yo her past expetiences realized that there is no point in asking AK as she will never say the truth up front.

I don't know if there are any good co-parenting shows or divorced couple as friends or not. But in real life a relationship doesn't end in a flash especially if 2 families are friends and family. I know of people that are divorced for whatever reason but they are still friends and get along. They don't bring their past problems or behave like they are tensed or uncomfortable all the time. They are very mature adults so while they are familiar with each other they dare not cross the boundaries. Which I am expecting from both Akshu and Abhi.

There is a term 'boundary' line and crossing the limit. Staying in the same house is fine, but the tashan is no longer looking as innocent and cute. Akshara does not look like naive and it is a pity that she is not understanding the impact and implication. What was she expecting that she and Abhimanyu will make jam together. Arohi seems more matured, if you compare Arohi is a doctor and independent. Her only stupidity is to run after Abhimanyu. Hope she can now throw the ring on Abhi's face and also give some sense to Nav. Sometimes I feel Akshara has been using people to achieve her purpose of getting a father and home for Abhir, so that she does not have to get any favor from Birla and Goenkas. She just need one sorry from AbhiM and her mom and ready to run singing janiye janiye.

Originally posted by: Fantasyera

@BOLD I do like to disagree with that statement. Abhira were not in a toxic or abusive relationship. They were both young in love (I am talking about experiencing feelings not age), and they did not get much time to live as a couple which caused a lot of problems as they were BOTH strong in their personalities and worked as individuals more than together. Which was why their relationship did not survive the harsh time. I don't know why people view Abhimanyu as some sort of monster just because of the white day, both were at fault to some degree and situation was totally against them.

@UNDERLINED YRKKH is way better than GHKPM. Abhimanyu is NOTHING like virat, abhira had more happy times than sairat. Any time I saw that show I saw virat and sai on opposite ends and what virat did to sai was not just injustice but also torture. The stress and trauma that sai received from virat and chavans, cannot be compared to akshu. Except for white day and first divorce (where both were at fault) Abhimanyu and akshu stood by each other. What is happening is ghum is literally cheating just without them having affair, and satya insecurities are justified as both cheaters are in love, wanting to be together and are just giving lame excuses which doesn't even fool the viewers. Whereas abhira are not doing that.

Abhimanyu maybe not like Virat but plot is same both the show's lead are doing nonsense on the name of the child & parenting love. Makers are serving regressive rubbish story. Showing man or women who have children never live & stay happily after separating, they always involve each other life too much unnecessary & not related to children matter. Also give mess-up life to current spouses. Maker portraying very wrong about divorce peoples who share co-parenting smoothly with out disturbing each-other personal space. They are degrading both man & women, marriage,parents, children & family bond, gods everything.

At this point it would have been true that Akshara has not thought of Abhimanyu in terms of going back to him .. at least that is how I see it .. And I also don’t think even in the initial days , Arohi was unaware of Akshara’s feelings for Abhimabyu .. but Akshara told her that she is stepping back because Arohi and her relationship with Arohi is important to Akshara ..

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

In acts: Agree. But she keeps on touching that border. Even today with 'loving my jam' sentence, she touched it. But, she realizes it quickly and retreats.

I am not sure about hate. I don't think AK as person can hate. AbhiN had said it nicely during Kalash scene, inspite going thru so much AK does not hv any hate in her heart. She never hated AbhiM, but feared him.

For now, I feel she is just grateful to him for making her life easy with regards to Abhir. I do not feel she has forgiven him. Rather, forgiving him is not even on her mind. Her all energy is invested in protecting her Family from AbhiM (his impulsive immature acts) and Manjiri's whims.

Yes, agreed. I feel the protagonist hv maintained overall decorum in YRKKH till now. After temple confession, I do not see AbhiM crossing the line as well.

Even though he has shifted from Mrs.Sharma to Akshara and from aap to tum. Akshara has done the same. All these changes by AK and AbhiM don't feel significant but they are. They hv and wll not show it explicitly but these changes by the duo are noticed by their repective partners. They will take it as a hint of AK- AbhiM reconcilliation process and back off.

Today I almost felt that AR wanted to ask AK if she is still interested in AbhiM, but due yo her past expetiences realized that there is no point in asking AK as she will never say the truth up front.

Loved your post as always ! I think Abhira are just in friendship mode. There are no real romantic feelings from either side so there is no emotional infidelity. I doubt it will happen as well. Ak and Abhi have always been comfortable with each other. They were each other's saviour and lifeboat against their families from the beginning. That's how their story is written. And pretty much everytime they are angry with each other, then band together for resolving some issue which brings them together. Now what we are seeing is just all of that progressing without any romance.

Ak has never been comfortable with Nav to that level. How can she be ? She has had no inclination to share any part of her life with Nav for six years. Once she opened her heart to him she is trying and we see her opening up to him emotionally. But once a relationship is set in a mold, it's hard to break from that.

I think Nav will misunderstand and be influenced by Manjari. He may leave Ak or distance himself from her. In any case, I have always hated the part where he wants to leave Ak and Abhir cause Ak is not into him. I think if he does that, then no matter the reason I will still hate him for breaking Abhir's heart. I would prefer if he just dies rather than him abandoning them.

Ak wanted father figure to her son, so used Abhinav

Manyu wanted to be father figure to Ruhi so used Arohi

Both were the first one to initiate relationship with their current partners and these both are the ones constantly hurting their partners either directly or indirectly.

If hurting others is what makes them happy ending then they will never be happy

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

Ak wanted father figure to her son, so used Abhinav

Manyu wanted to be father figure to Ruhi so used Arohi

Both were the first one to initiate relationship with their current partners and these both are the ones constantly hurting their partners either directly or indirectly.

If hurting others is what makes them happy ending then they will never be happy

Well said 👏👏

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

There is a term 'boundary' line and crossing the limit. Staying in the same house is fine, but the tashan is no longer looking as innocent and cute. Akshara does not look like naive and it is a pity that she is not understanding the impact and implication. What was she expecting that she and Abhimanyu will make jam together. Arohi seems more matured, if you compare Arohi is a doctor and independent. Her only stupidity is to run after Abhimanyu. Hope she can now throw the ring on Abhi's face and also give some sense to Nav. Sometimes I feel Akshara has been using people to achieve her purpose of getting a father and home for Abhir, so that she does not have to get any favor from Birla and Goenkas. She just need one sorry from AbhiM and her mom and ready to run singing janiye janiye.

AK has always been shown naive, speaking out things at wrong time and to a wrong person without thinking about implications. I do not doubt her intentions. She is not a person who will use someone. She has a pure heart. She making AbhiN father of Abhir, was already a sign that she liked that man enough to be ready to spend life with, had faith in him way more than her family.

Rather not flipping will be a sign of her character growth. Now, with AbhiN leaving and everyone seeing good side of AbhiM in the marriage track, pressure is going to mount on her to reconcile with AbhiM for sake of Abhir. Makers can change storyline based on TRP, but as I have felt on multiple occaisions that AK is deeply in love with AbhiN, but yet to realize it. With AbhiM, she was ready to sacrifice him, but if similar situations comes, she will never sacrifice AbhiN. She is going to hold onto him with her life. AK will say that after experiencing wifehood with AbhiN for 6 long years, she can't imagine being anyone else's. My guess if makers don't flip. If they write it well, we will witness a deep grand love story.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Loved your post as always ! I think Abhira are just in friendship mode. There are no real romantic feelings from either side so there is no emotional infidelity. I doubt it will happen as well. Ak and Abhi have always been comfortable with each other. They were each other's saviour and lifeboat against their families from the beginning. That's how their story is written. And pretty much everytime they are angry with each other, then band together for resolving some issue which brings them together. Now what we are seeing is just all of that progressing without any romance.

Ak has never been comfortable with Nav to that level. How can she be ? She has had no inclination to share any part of her life with Nav for six years. Once she opened her heart to him she is trying and we see her opening up to him emotionally. But once a relationship is set in a mold, it's hard to break from that.

I think Nav will misunderstand and be influenced by Manjari. He may leave Ak or distance himself from her. In any case, I have always hated the part where he wants to leave Ak and Abhir cause Ak is not into him. I think if he does that, then no matter the reason I will still hate him for breaking Abhir's heart. I would prefer if he just dies rather than him abandoning them.

Thank you for bringing up this point. This was one of the my most loved scenes where AbhiN says, he can't come between AbhiM and AK. It was night tea convo between AK- AbhiN. But still he only emotionally withdrew. Never physically. Even AK knew he will never leave. Hence she said 'Hamara rishta photo ki tarah nahi hoga na..' Meaning just for a sake of it. So AK knew all along that even in pain AbhiN would not leave them.

He was and is always fine AK not being into him. What he fears is coming between AK, Abhir and their happiness. Now, he will leave because he will feel that AK and Abhir have got their real family due to AK- AbhiM, AbhiM- Abhir cordial interactions and they sharing secrets with each other rather than with him. Him feeling that he is the reason their real family is not becoming a reality. From AbhiN's POV, he is letting Abhir go ( how much ever pain it causes him) where Abhir's happiness lies. Also, AbhiN is assuming that once he leaves, AbhiM will take over his place.