MyThoughts- Epi 954

Today's episode felt like dragfest.. filler episode..

Hence, thoughts are mixed highlights of recent episodes:

Ruhi, Abhir and house:Abhir shows her tent house to Ruhi. They are sitting in confined space. Ruhi says his house is cute but Abhir says it is too small compared to Udaipur homes. Ruhi is sitting on a swing (swing indicates freedom). She says Kasauli is perfect place. She is enjoying here. Ruhi represnts AK mindset, as she has seen the hollowness of rich palaces and found freedom in Kasauli. Abhir represents AbhiN mindset where he feels that material things can bring happiness ( I know AbhiN loves his home but also has a feeling of lacking which AK does not have).

AK- AbhiM interactions: As per AK, AbhiM POV, they are doing nothing wrong. They are interacting with each other as friends (??). One can hardly point out an act which is crossing any boundary .However, does their interaction gv platonic vibe? I don't think so. AbhiM- AK interaction gives more than friendship vibe, even though their talks are platonic. That is why it is making everyone uncomfortable. I remembered a scene, where after AbhiM's nerve damage, a therapist is supposed to visit AbhiM. Both don't know if the therapist is female or male. Even though it was a lighthearted scene, it showed how possessive they were about each other. How uncomfortable, possessive AbhiM got when AK interacted with the therapist who happened to be a singer. I feel AK ( unintentionally) is behaving nonempathetic because she is not placing AbhiN where she was once. I do not see her thinking how AbhiN would feel, with her overfriendly behavior with AbhiM.

Even today, the hall fight over bed.. Can you imagine exchanging the characters? Replace AbhiM with a friend who was in love with AK in college and AbhiM watching AK- her friend's banter. How he would react? How AK had reacted when she did not know who Anisha is?

Even today, she asked AbhiM to make Jam with her, he refused. When AR came, AK thought AbhiM came back. But when she saw AR, she could not openly say she was expecting AbhiM. Why? Because somewhere her subconscious knows that it is wrong. You interacting in such a manner with your ex, who is going to be your sister's hubby is not right.

AK and romance: I also think that all the MK-KV romance takes AK to the emotions (not memories of AbhiM) she has felt during her first wedding. Yesterday, when Nilamma was describing the pre-wedding groom and bride fun moments, AK connected that with her first wedding emotions. AbhiN was not on her mind, when actually they hv shared so many moments during Puja ceremony. If true, this is going towards emotional infidelity. It remains to be seen in future epi, but I do not think AbhiN would get carried away by AbhiMMata or BP's comments about AK's first wedding until and unless, he sees AK's behavior that supports those statements or looks like it. Already, there have been multiple occaisions where he has seen AbhiM and AK working in tandem. I know this time both have a very pure intention of protecting AbhiN. But, her overfriendly intreraction is going to add to it. Hence, BP and AbhiMMata can't be held solely responsible for the mess that would happen.

Focus on the partner: Focus on your partner, giving your partner priority is crucial in a relationship. There have been many problems in AK- AbhiN relationship as well, but you don't see AbhiN, AK making someone confidente (other than Nilamma) when they face problems. For AbhiN, it is either AK or no one. It was same for AK. Now, AbhiM and AK have become each other's confidente. Again it is a grey area, it looks like they are doing nothing wrong. But, they are repeatedly violating the relationship boundaries. Much of it is situational also and can be argued for and against. All this is happening on the background that AK has not made her POV clear to AbhiN. AK is unitentional violator. Wheras AR is victim of AbhiM, the repeated violator. Due to AbhiM- AK behavior, each's partner is feeling unwanted, neglected in a relationship.

As the curve is going, AK- AbhiN will see a rift in their relationship because they care a lot for each other and think that their respective acts are for their partner's happiness. Wheras AbhiM- AR relationship will see a rift in their relationship because they do not care for each other.

If I do not see AK crossing boundaries clearly in coming episodes and still AbhiN leaves, I'll hold AbhiN equally responsible for going sacrificial way and jeopardising their relationship. Him leaving as shown in the promo does not make him great for me, if it is not for right reasons.

Principle that apply to AK and AbhiM, equally apply to AbhiN. He is good human, but he is not without flaws for me.

I think this should happen so each character gets clarity about where they stand and grow.

I was actually waiting for your analysis as I enjoy reading them. I REALLY want the makers to speed this up and get to the main point. Who is Akshara going to choose? I’m done with the sweet banters and hum saath saath hain moments. I need the dhana dhan dhan! 🙏🏼

main honestly nahi samajh pa Rahi hoon k yeh ladki chahti kya hai?? Few episodes ago she was so against AbhiM staying and interfering in her life and now she is being so friendly with him that it’s almost giving more than friendly vibes. And I can’t tell what she feels for AbhiN at this point. There’s no indication right now that she has developed feelings for him and is inclining towards him. This girl flips so fast, I can’t keep up lol 😂

And how do you lose your engagement ring in one day?? Did MK just left it laying around? They should be honest instead of trying to replace as it will make them look bad. Pretty sure chachi is going to create a drama over this 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m sure manjari gonna flip soon too lol. They’re not gonna make her nice and lovey dovey towards Ak so soon. She is here for the drama and she will serve! But She needs to get a move on.

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I was actually waiting for your analysis as I enjoy reading them. I REALLY want the makers to speed this up and get to the main point. Who is Akshara going to choose? I’m done with the sweet banters and hum saath saath hain moments. I need the dhana dhan dhan! 🙏🏼

main honestly nahi samajh pa Rahi hoon k yeh ladki chahti kya hai?? Few episodes ago she was so against AbhiM staying and interfering in her life and now she is being so friendly with him that it’s almost giving more than friendly vibes. And I can’t tell what she feels for AbhiN at this point. There’s no indication right now that she has developed feelings for him and is inclining towards him. This girl flips so fast, I can’t keep up lol 😂

And how do you lose your engagement ring in one day?? Did MK just left it laying around? They should be honest instead of trying to replace as it will make them look bad. Pretty sure chachi is going to create a drama over this 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m sure manjari gonna flip soon too lol. They’re not gonna make her nice and lovey dovey towards Ak so soon. She is here for the drama and she will serve! But She needs to get a move on.

I give some free pass to itv as they are required to create a freeze point everyday which requires insane amount of creativity.

Bold: AK is extremely grateful to AbhiM for handling the Abhir issue the way he has. That was her turning point in regards to AbhiM. I do give a lot of credit to AbhiM for doing this as it is against his natural tendancy. She has mellowed down a lot since then. Next, he genuinely helped AK in KV-MK marriage issue adding to that gratefulness when AbhiN was not on her side.

Regarding friendliness: The teenager, bubbly part of AK still loves AbhiM. You rarely see her having bubbly, teasing, interaction with AbhiN. The woman, mother in her wants to be with AbhiN. Hence, she gives mixed signals. As I see it, the marriage function is going to bring the girl in her out who loves interacting with AbhiM more than AbhiN creating misunderstaning between her and AbhiN. AbhiN may see it as AK wanting to be with AbhiM for rest of her life which is not true. I think she does not mind spending some fun moments with AbhiM but when it comes to spending life, she wants to be with AbhiN.

The track right now is somewhat going in 'Nikah' movie way where first husband divorces the woman due to anger issues and second husband plans to leave her as he feels she still wants to be with her first husband. Whatever may be the motive of each husband, the woman suffers the same pain of being abandoned.

I said the exact same thing regarding the story taking Nikah route in another post a week or two ago.😍

We can’t go friendly with someone who we share abusivehistory. We escape from them too just leave peace full life & join withother innocent life for our betterment. We can behave normal just like nothinghappen & do hi-hello with social distance but no friendly behavior at all infront of current husband or his back.

It’s totally self-destruction behavior & other destruction too. Exactly Akshara & Abhimanyu doing with themselves & Abhinav & Arohi on the name of Parent of Abhir.

Same track happenning in GHKPM. There is abusive couple lead on third person on the name of gratitude & duty & destroying there life peace & behaving like doing any godess karma.🤢

Originally posted by: angaswamol

We can’t go friendly with someone who we share abusivehistory. We escape from them too just leave peace full life & join withother innocent life for our betterment. We can behave normal just like nothinghappen & do hi-hello with social distance but no friendly behavior at all infront of current husband or his back.

It’s totally self-destruction behavior & other destruction too. Exactly Akshara & Abhimanyu doing with themselves & Abhinav & Arohi on the name of Parent of Abhir.

Same track happenning in GHKPM. There is abusive couple lead on third person on the name of gratitude & duty & destroying there life peace & behaving like doing any godess karma.🤢

@BOLD I do like to disagree with that statement. Abhira were not in a toxic or abusive relationship. They were both young in love (I am talking about experiencing feelings not age), and they did not get much time to live as a couple which caused a lot of problems as they were BOTH strong in their personalities and worked as individuals more than together. Which was why their relationship did not survive the harsh time. I don't know why people view Abhimanyu as some sort of monster just because of the white day, both were at fault to some degree and situation was totally against them.

@UNDERLINED YRKKH is way better than GHKPM. Abhimanyu is NOTHING like virat, abhira had more happy times than sairat. Any time I saw that show I saw virat and sai on opposite ends and what virat did to sai was not just injustice but also torture. The stress and trauma that sai received from virat and chavans, cannot be compared to akshu. Except for white day and first divorce (where both were at fault) Abhimanyu and akshu stood by each other. What is happening is ghum is literally cheating just without them having affair, and satya insecurities are justified as both cheaters are in love, wanting to be together and are just giving lame excuses which doesn't even fool the viewers. Whereas abhira are not doing that.

Akshara hasn’t done anything to cross the line YET. She has just forgiven or moved on from the hate she has for AbhiM.

Let’s not bring in other shows while discussing yrkkh. The circumstances, the story everything is different.

Originally posted by: angaswamol

We can’t go friendly with someone who we share abusivehistory. We escape from them too just leave peace full life & join withother innocent life for our betterment. We can behave normal just like nothinghappen & do hi-hello with social distance but no friendly behavior at all infront of current husband or his back.

It’s totally self-destruction behavior & other destruction too. Exactly Akshara & Abhimanyu doing with themselves & Abhinav & Arohi on the name of Parent of Abhir.

Same track happenning in GHKPM. There is abusive couple lead on third person on the name of gratitude & duty & destroying there life peace & behaving like doing any godess karma.🤢

This is exactly what AK did for 6 long years. But, fate brought them together.

This is my POV, but I feel AK is having all this nok- zhok with AbhiM because of AbhiN. It may be funny example but explains AK's mindset with AbhiM: A kid plays even with a strager sitting in a parent's lap, because he is feeling secured. But the same kid will never leave the parent and go with that stranger.

Once again in today’s episode, Abhir’s paternity issue came up. Looks like everyone in the goenka and birla clan knows about Abhir knowing the truth except Abhinav.

What my guts feel is Manjari will use this point to create schism between Akshnav and make him feel unworthy to be a parent of Abhir.

Originally posted by: focus7

Akshara hasn’t done anything to cross the line YET. She has just forgiven or moved on from the hate she has for AbhiM.

Let’s not bring in other shows while discussing yrkkh. The circumstances, the story everything is different.

Agreed. I was watching a movie review recently and the guy said that people who wear rosy glasses in a relationship they see everything as lovely, sweet and even RED FLAGS seem like NORMAL. Which is what the fl from the OTHER SHOW is seeing, where as Akshu for 6 year and somewhat recently was seeing abhimanyu with gloomy and dark glasses - which are from the pain she received from abhimanyu. Those glasses clouded every good thing abhimanyu did to her or was doing and made her suspect him for literally everything. Right now akshu is seeing that she was over reacting and was being harsh for no reason so she is rectifying that by being friendly. The somewhat hate and ill feeling removed they get along and during that time they slip up and act familiar with each other - which they can't be blamed for. And that is what has nav feeling insecure and uncomfortable, and to be honest HE should be the one to talk to akshu about that till now akshu has done EVERYTHING keeping Nav in mind if she is overlooking that now he should talk to her - because communication is important in any relationship be it abhira or akshav.

The moment akshara or abhimanyu crosses the line, they are gonna be bashed left, right centre - from everywhere by EVERYONE (Abhimanyu, Akshara, Abhinav, Abhira and Akshav fans except for some delusional teenage abhira fans who thinks everything is love).