Why is Abhimanyu becoming another Akshara ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

As far as I know the Trp’s are down so they had to bring Abhinav. I know ppl always defended him in his bad deeds too that doesn’t make him right or interesting to all. Whose good side? AbM’s? Then u r contradicting ur own statements

That was the official statement yes, but there really hasn't been a change in trps with Nav's introduction. In any case, I don't care much about trps. The character of Nav is written to represent the "good" to Abhi's "bad". Sorry if that was unclear. I meant the good side of husband-wife relationship. Whatever Abhi didn't have Nav has. So he has been written to be diametrically opposite to Abhi.

Sorry ,my bad I forgot that he is a handsome famous self centred Mr.Birla who never goes to his duty but still became a famous heart surgeon and he have his own set of rules which he never follows but expects everyone else to follow them or he will scream,divorce n kick out of the house because he have a special mumma

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

You see this bias or hate against Abhinav stems from the fact that he is nowhere in standing in comparison to the great Dr. Birla. He is just a driver with meagre means yet he is more magnanimous and chivalrous than him, and AbM can’t compete against him.

If he were rich, suave and handsome with same characteristics of poor AbN many would have started gushing about him. The hatred against AbN originates from the inherent bias against those who lacking in means.

I personally don't care much about the whole financial thing. But I still like AbhiM's character more than Nav's. I just don't care about goody two shoes characters, and I think a lot of people concur. Even Ak, in the beginning, seemed oversweet to me until they gave us more layers to her character of being bullied into it and having lying as an escape mechanism, etc. I would have enjoyed Nav's character had he also been given those layers. But the writers just didn't invest in his character much. They just took all the bad qualities of Abhi and turned them around and created Nav. Ak didn't like x,y,z about Abhi, so Nav is the exact opposite. That's it.

Infact, they are literally adding stuff to Nav's backstory NOW, that doesn't even make a lot of sense. Like his relationship with Muskaan and stuff. So that is the problem. If they showed Nav and Muskaan talking about their childhoods and stuff before it was a story requirement, then it would be believable. But as I said, it's shoddy writing. To root for a character, one must connect to them first, and people are just finding it hard to connect to the oversweet, over-amiable Abhinav.

Let me tell you the real reason...the writers are doing this to separate Abhinav akshara and make way for abhira...just like 6 months ago they separated abhira and brought Abhinav sharma's character to the show and made him a part of akshara's life😊

Abhinav is anyway an insecure person with zero self confidence...he might get hurt by this and leave akshara and abhir himself..so writers can proceed with abhira's reunion...that's the only answer..

And as far as Abhimanyu is concerned..well abhimanyu isn't here to snatch anyone's wife..he only came becoz Abhinav akshara ran away with his son to kasauli right after surgery..he's here for his son..he's also paying money for staying there and he interfered in kairav's matters becoz its ITV and kairav has past with abhimanyu and his sister anisha..he isn't planning plotting like vamps of ITV to separate any husband wife..If he did we would've got dramatic scenes of villain abhimanyu...so there's no use villainizing abhimanyu..if Abhinav and Akshara’s marriage is so weak that it breaks becoz of abhimanyu's presence then it only proves that this relationship was never meant to be...its test of Abhinav and Akshara’s marriage and they have to deal with it on their own...6 years of delusional happy family life is useless if the family breaks apart when life starts testing and troubles come..

PS..it's so sick to blame a third person for breaking a marriage when the actual culprit is the partner who cheats their other half with third person..its akshara who has given hopes to Abhinav that she wants to stay with him and if akshara rekindled her feelings for Abhimanyu and if she still loves Abhimanyu then it's akshara's fault not abhimanyu's...she's confused about what she wants...that's it..

Originally posted by: lagjagale

First, this is out of character for Abhi. But he has actually hidden stuff before. He usually comes out with it soon, though. Comparing that to Ak hiding things is another thing. Ak usually hides things, creates a fake narrative around them, and defends her lies tooth and nail. Abhi has hidden stuff like his hand issue for a few episodes or Ak's pregnancy issues for a few episodes etc. But it's more passive stuff. He won't lie if asked point blank. But anyways, back to the issue here.

I think if you want to go by what is being shown, they did show Abhi's reason was not to hurt Mr. Sharma. He said Mr. Shrama doesn't deserve this. So I don't think he wants to hide it, just doesn't want the truth to come out in a bad manner where it hurts Nav too much. If you want to say he doesn't care about Nav and stuff, then we are really not watching the same show. He has shown care for Nav on multiple occasions, to the point where there is a ship called NavManyu. So I think Abhi wants Ak to handle all of this her way. He is trying to be better. He is trying to show some form of redemption etc. And for him, the only way to do that is for Ak to take the reins.

As to why is he doing that without Ak asking? Because they did communicate about that. When Ak got done with the exam, both Abhi and Ak looked at each other and then decided to lie about Ak getting late for the exam. Then when the Sharma fam got home, there was again an expression from Ak to Abhi. It is open to interpretation, but my interpretation is that there were enough signals from Ak that she wanted Abhi to keep quiet. Even now, Ak isn't sharing the fact that Abhi helped with the Kaiaan thing or how much she and Abhi have discussed things.

I don't think Abhi actively wants to harm Navra's relationship by this. It's not his fault that Ak has hidden this from Nav. Infact, how would he even do that? I think in some other instances I do think he is subconsciously trying, like when he confessed to Ak about losing his love cause of his mistakes or when he had that argument with Nav about second chances.

Yes, he always hidden things but did come out of it soon too.But when someone else does the same he will have completely different reaction. He dont understand/realise the fact that 2 ppl cannot be the same. They can deal things in a different way .

I know his intentions were right and genuine to hide the truth from Nav but I didn’t see Ak’s expressions or signals made him think she doesn’t want Nav to know the truth. It was his decision to hide ,he snatched the letter and said Sharma ji doesn’t deserve this. When he knows how a lie can hurt someone why should he do that? When Ak did the same she have her own justifications for hiding and lying too.

May not be actively but sub consciously he is definitely trying to create rifts and always trying to be in Ak’s good books.

We are finally getting to witness the "manipulative" side of Abhimanyu. He is trying to create a rift between married couple. His bad intentions for Akshara are crystal now

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Liked reading ur perspective though I may not agree with some of ur point.

Yes, he always hidden things but did come out of it soon too.But when someone else does the same he will have completely different reaction. He dont understand/realise the fact that 2 ppl cannot be the same. They can deal things in a different way .

I know his intentions were right and genuine to hide the truth from Nav but I didn’t see Ak’s expressions or signals made him think she doesn’t want Nav to know the truth. It was his decision to hide ,he snatched the letter and said Sharma ji doesn’t deserve this. When he knows how a lie can hurt someone why should he do that? When Ak did the same she have her own justifications for hiding and lying too.

May not be actively but sub consciously he is definitely trying to create rifts and always trying to be in Ak’s good books.

It's true that Abhi has like no empathy and no idea how to see things from another person's perspective. I have always maintained that. I think he tries, though, and right now he is trying. That is all I am gathering from this. He is trying to be more patient, he is trying to give Ak respect, and he is trying to not create any ripples. He is going against his basic nature and instinct. He didn't reveal the truth to Abhir, and similarly, he is not revealing it to Nav either. He is trying to trust in Ak.

Abhimanyu has become another naira .

Dkp is very biased towards the goenka clan. In season 2 naira singhania loved kartik goenka regardless of the fact that kartik moved on and remarried . She even died saving him and was forgotten by everyone . Goenka side ultimately thriving ( kartik in this case ).

In season 3 this akshara goenka being the toxic wife tortured abhimanyu mentally and even physically assaulted him in hospital . No big deal she moved on so easily from abhimanyu, it's in the blood . She recieved this mean nature from her father and goenka family , it comprises of never loving the respective first spouse as much they deserve, mentally torturing them , remarrying , moving on quickly , having no considerations for the feelings and perspective of the spouse . She definately took these traits from her father's side .

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It's true that Abhi has like no empathy and no idea how to see things from another person's perspective. I have always maintained that. I think he tries, though, and right now he is trying. That is all I am gathering from this. He is trying to be more patient, he is trying to give Ak respect, and he is trying to not create any ripples. He is going against his basic nature and instinct. He didn't reveal the truth to Abhir, and similarly, he is not revealing it to Nav either. He is trying to trust in Ak.

See if Ak flips and shows her soul connection (which I personally feel very fake from both the sides) with AbM. Ak will be the one who will be wrong and will be blamed more. Not that I want her to choose AbN if she doesn’t really have feeling for him.(I never liked her around AbN. ) She has been giving him false hopes after their 1st visit to UD. Nav asked her to go back to her family but she denied and she gave him hopes. So even AbM tries to create rifts and Ak fails in her relationship with AbN it will be her fault more than AbM as he always wanted her back into his life ..though it’s a shameless act he confessed her in the temple. So he was always constant even after he promised Ruhi and stopping Ar from leaving the house.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

That was the official statement yes, but there really hasn't been a change in trps with Nav's introduction. In any case, I don't care much about trps. The character of Nav is written to represent the "good" to Abhi's "bad". Sorry if that was unclear. I meant the good side of husband-wife relationship. Whatever Abhi didn't have Nav has. So he has been written to be diametrically opposite to Abhi.