Why did Abhinav refuse for Alliance of MuKa? - Page 5

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Also, I have a query, if the current justification of abhinav is what he truly believes, why was he shown upset with Kairav when he had said no initially?

I didn’t get that.

There can be many reasons..he may think kairav led her on, kairav was playing with her feelings

Originally posted by: Krinya

Tell me about it . Whenever kairav speaks the truth (bec nobody else does) , manish shuts hum up saying "ye time nai hai ladne ka/ye sab baat karne ka" ..arre bhai we want to see the fight , when is the good time to fight ? Give me a good time where all can fight.

akshu and kairav to uss ghar ke bacche hain....muskaan ko to yeh sab kaccha chaba jaayenge....koi bhi aisa scenario aaya jisme muskaan akele padd jaaye to....

goenkas sirf abhi and arohi ki sunte hain...as they r more vocal, manipulative....itna sab akshu ke saath ho gaya and gorillas ke saame abhi ne aisa manipulate kiya ki akshu chali gayee hai....so that gornkas ki nazron mein bhi he is good...

muskaan ko seeda sada character dikhaya hai...if kairav is angry with hre. uski to watt lag jaayegi goenkas ke ghar...😂

Originally posted by: Krinya

Tell me about it . Whenever kairav speaks the truth (bec nobody else does) , manish shuts hum up saying "ye time nai hai ladne ka/ye sab baat karne ka" ..arre bhai we want to see the fight , when is the good time to fight ? Give me a good time where all can fight.

We thought everyone’s truth and points of view will be out during the custody battle - I feel makers also realized that - so have put the case on indefinite hold now! As then they can’t drag things further.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agree with the responses.

Limitless love / excessive love can be too suffocating

If abhinav said this , wah , point hai bande ki baat mei👏 his concern is right . Plus there is social disparity ..plus goenkas are totally untrustworthy . Suvarna was looked down upon by mimi for a long period of time bec she was manishs secretary ..apni beti ko toh defend karte nai bahu ko kaise treat karege ?

For past few days there has been lot of discussion on how Kairav wasn't wrong in rejecting Muskaan and that Abhinav was just being Harsh...

Abhinav gave all the valid reasons today for not being in support ot Kairav and Muskaan that could overthrow all the assumptions that he is being against it because Kairav once rejected Muskaan. I am glad that makers gave him good and logical reason. He was on point and questioned Akshara too - as to what was result of her "Beyhadh" pyar 😆 Akshara was shocked... Lol...

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I don’t think limitless love was the issue for Abhimanyu. It was his overprotectiveness and anxiety n control issues that created the problem and he lost his cool in grief. Whenever he has acted out of love, he has been understanding and accommodating.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

His limitless love towards his mamma is the cause of the issue ,only after her reaction this guy lost and did all the nonsense . With limitless love limitless expectations come to that makes the relations worst. His love towards Ak is always conditional not limitless though at least I felt so.

I kind of disagree here, even limitless love comes with conditions.. Unconditional love, for me, is always the one between parents and child. They love child without expecting anything in return. Baaki sab love comes with terms and conditions.

Beyhadh pyaar often drives you to change yourself and your partner to fit the mental image of person you love! I think everyone for that matter should watch Beyhadh.. It was horrible show but it did give great insights into mental illness and serious concerns around it. It was played by Jennifer and she just slayed it.

Abhimanyu may not have been as crazy but he had all the characteristics of being beyhadh lover and its very very unfortunate that people tag that love to word "Passion", even if they end up mistreating their love!

Abhinav ki iss baat se toh mai bhi agree karti hu ki limitless love is toxic lekin isme poor angle ghusane ki kya zarurat thi! Abhinav said that poor log ke liye yeh sahi nahi hai.

Kyun bhai! I am not lower middle class or upper middle class like them lekin fir bhi muje bhi hadd se zyada kuch bhi pasand nahi.

Isme hum poor hai so not good for us aisa bakwas nonsense and faltu laga muje.
Abhinav ne baat sahi kari lekin uss baat mai poor/rich class ko ghusa diya.
Sahi and sidhi baat bolo lekin aisa tag matt do ki bhai hum middle class , hamara yeh , tumhara woh etc.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhinav ki iss baat se toh mai bhi agree karti hu ki limitless love is toxic lekin isme poor angle ghusane ki kya zarurat thi! Abhinav said that poor log ke liye yeh sahi nahi hai.

Kyun bhai! I am not lower middle class or upper middle class like them lekin fir bhi muje bhi hadd se zyada kuch bhi pasand nahi.

Isme hum poor hai so not good for us aisa bakwas nonsense and faltu laga muje.
Abhinav ne baat sahi kari lekin uss baat mai poor/rich class ko ghusa diya.
Sahi and sidhi baat bolo lekin aisa tag matt do ki bhai hum middle class , hamara yeh , tumhara woh etc.

Agreed!

It was quite crazy of them to say hum sadharan log hai and all such stuff. More than class it's preferences. I also felt his initial claims were misguided - he said Muskaan and Kairav are too different and Kairav will find it difficult to adjust with Muskaan's simplicity (yaar pehle se usse pata hai ki she is simple and he has fallen for that...) and Muskaan will not be able to adjust with his zidd (?)

Yeh do points stupid the.. Baaki he wasn't wrong in claiming two families are way different and all that

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

For past few days there has been lot of discussion on how Kairav wasn't wrong in rejecting Muskaan and that Abhinav was just being Harsh...

Abhinav gave all the valid reasons today for not being in support ot Kairav and Muskaan that could overthrow all the assumptions that he is being against it because Kairav once rejected Muskaan. I am glad that makers gave him good and logical reason. He was on point and questioned Akshara too - as to what was result of her "Beyhadh" pyar 😆 Akshara was shocked... Lol...

Kairav can take his time as muskan took him by surprise by announcing they're a couple without even asking / proposing / discussing with him. It's huge , to announce it in front of the family. How cud she do it without confirming with kairav? However when both are In love and now confessed and marriage talks are on, everyone can express their concerns....for the first time yrkkh s3 took a logical route 😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Agreed!

It was quite crazy of them to say hum sadharan log hai and all such stuff. More than class it's preferences. I also felt his initial claims were misguided - he said Muskaan and Kairav are too different and Kairav will find it difficult to adjust with Muskaan's simplicity (yaar pehle se usse pata hai ki she is simple and he has fallen for that...) and Muskaan will not be able to adjust with his zidd (?)

Yeh do points stupid the.. Baaki he wasn't wrong in claiming two families are way different and all that

Aj kal abhinav ke dimag mai 2-3 baat zyada chal raha hai like hum sadharan, hum middle class, abhir ka asli pita nahi hu, mooh bola beta hai . Lagta hai inferiority complex ho gaya hai jo bilkul hona nahi chahiye kyunki uski wife akshara ne usko kabhi abhir ke mooh bole papa, poor/sadharan aise angle se na dekha hai na jataya hai.

Maine yeh bhi notice kiya hai ki akshara kabhi bhi kisi ke samne ya abhinav ke samne bhi abhir uska mooh bola beta angle se baat nahi karti. She has always used words like humara beta etc and also kept abhinav ‘s bond with abhir above her bond with abhir so this is looking in bad taste now jab abhinav Akshara ke samne baat baat par class ko bich mai lata hai or abhir ko mooh bola bol kar baat karna while giving example for muskan.