Co-parenting is not an option - Page 3

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

No. Abhir should live with his parents - Akshara and Abhinav. Two people who love him the most in the world. Abhir is well brought up and secure kid. That is proof enough that AKshnav are great parents

You can say that you want that, I was talking about what I want to see in the show.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

There are more chances of Abhimanyu mistreating Abhir than Abhinav

Abhinav and Abhir share the purest bond in this show. They have immense love for each other

I don't understand why you guys want Abhinav to turn negative. But too bad for you, its not going to happen

Abhi has raised neil, roohi both consided abhi as their father like figure.

Neil was kid to abhi as abhi was his protector from harsh birla from his childhood only that's the reason why abhi has anger issues. He turned protector of many all the way from his childhood. And his father only know one language that is shouting and anger.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Abhi has raised neil, roohi both consided abhi as their father like figure.

Neil was kid to abhi as abhi was his protector from harsh birla from his childhood only that's the reason why abhi has anger issues. He turned protector of many all the way from his childhood. And his father only know one language that is shouting and anger.

Thank you for the mini Abhimanyu gyaan. But really that is irrelevant

The point is that Abhinav is Abhir s dad. A great one at that. He loves Abhir more than life itself. So, there is no option for him to mistreat his son

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Thank you for the mini Abhimanyu gyaan. But really that is irrelevant

The point is that Abhinav is Abhir s dad. A great one at that. He loves Abhir more than life itself. So, there is no option for him to mistreat his son

Yes abhinav is abhir'a adopted dad. But it was Abhimanyu's rights in the first place. Akshu should have informed abhir that he is adopted son of abhinav. A child has every right to know about his father. Like roohi knows neil is her father and still she chose abhim as her poppy.

But in future when abhir will have his own thoughts and thinking and if abhir rejects abhinav what he will do.

In daily soap akshu may tame him. In real life childs will have insecurities we cannot predict.

Don't derail the topic please, it is about co parenting

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

since you raised a point that abhimanyu will mistreat abhir i said that.

Yes abhinav is abhir'a adopted dad. But it was Abhimanyu's rights in the first place. Akshu should have informed abhir that he is adopted son of abhinav. A child has every right to know about his father. Like roohi knows neil is her father and still she chose abhim as her poppy.

But in future when abhir will have his own thoughts and thinking and if abhir rejects abhinav what he will do.

In daily soap akshu may tame him. In real life childs will have insecurities we cannot predict.

Abhinav will never mistreat Abhir. That has been crystal

There is no need for any sort of "taming"

Of course, Abhir will have insecurities. And his parents - Akshara and Abhinav will always be there to protect and guide him

Also, Abhir s life for Abhinav is just as clear. So there is no option of Abhir ever choosing Abhimanyu over his Papa

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Abhinav will never mistreat Abhir. That has been crystal

There is no need for any sort of "taming"

Of course, Abhir will have insecurities. And his parents - Akshara and Abhinav will always be there to protect and guide him

Also, Abhir s life for Abhinav is just as clear. So there is no option of Abhir ever choosing Abhimanyu over his Papa

But in the end we are free to disagree.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Jis post Maine originally quote kiya that us main solo custody ki baat hui thi.

Mere reply about Abrohui uske according tha. Jisko apne quote ke irrelevant bola

Abhimanyu and aarohi ka shaddi/baccha kuch bhi ho na ho , one fact will always remained unchanged that when it comes to abhir’s parents and guardians, Akshara ke sath second parent hamesha Abhimanyu he rahega as per law.

Agar kal ko Akshara ko kuch bhi ho jata hai toh abhir ka guardian/parent sab court sirf Abhimanyu ko he manega , abhinav raise kiya hai uss ground par bhi technically/legally abhinav ko court kabhi abhir ka parent nahi manega in the absence of Akshara.

Agar Akshara hamesha zinda rahe in that case also, court ke liye abhir ka second parent hamesha Abhimanyu he rahega, abhinav nahi.

Abhir ke 18+ ho jane ke baad he uska voice/opinion matter karega in the extraordinary circumstances like mother’s death.
Bottom line will always remain unchanged that in the eye of law only Abhimanyu and Akshara are abhir’s parents irrespective to Akshara’s second marriage.
Abhir par abhinav ke rights hamesha 3rd position par he rahege when it comes to law and legality till abhir turns 18.
Right now abhimanyu and Akshara both have equal rights on Abhir because court ne kisi ko bhi solo custody diya nahi hai and abhimanyu ne case hold par rakkha hai.
Akshara ko agar solo custody milta hai in that case also when it comes to legality after Akshara only Abhimanyu can be considered as parent/guardian for abhir, not abhinav.

Court and legality palnewale pita ko tab he bacche ka guardian banate hai jab bacche ke dono he parents ki death ho gayi ho yah baccha Anath ashram se adopt kiya gaya ho. Agar ek bhi parent zinda hai toh palnewale ko hamesha adopted father/mother tak ke he rights milte hai.

Coparenting is not possible here not because of Ab or nav but AK. She is being delusional thinking everything she did or doing is correct because she is abhir 's mother. She has to understand being a mother doesn't give you any right to keep your child from the absolute reality of his life. Ab is abhir's biological father and nav is adopted father is the reality. All the other things come secondary, because if not tell him everything in a positive and healthy way it will cause problems in his future life.

Events of childhood if not handled properly what it may lead to is shown with the insecurities of AR, anger issues of Ab or sacrificial and hiding things in case of AK. I don't want abhir being another one in the list as he was shown as an understanding and positive child.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Rights ka baat nahi hai yaha . They are heading for coparenting as per Akshara Abhinav’s dialog after seeing Abhimanyu’s case withdrawn papers today so that’s why dusre parent se direct touch mai rehna bhi zaruri he hota hai.

Zyada right kum right se uper hota hai DIRECT CLEAR COMMUNICATION in between ex-couple and the child of parent.

Yaha baat direct clear communication and some wait for other parent’s approval ki ho rahi hai jisme abhinav believe karta hua dikhaya aj that’s why he said like all 3 should take decision when it comes to abhir.

Abhimanyu can have kid with aarohi yeh sab side ke non relevant points hai kyunki abhinav and Akshara herself were acting like they want to go with coparenting way but again as usual failed to communicate with abhimanyu straightly due to xyz reason and didn’t keep him in loop for child.

This time agar woh genuinely coparenting way mai jaise woh bol rahe hai waise ja he rahe hai toh other parent se straight direct communication ke baad he jana chahiye tha chahe fir 48 hours ka delay kyun na ho just operated child ko kasauli le jane mai.

In Uk these courses are available for elderly who missed the technology bus so that could be a start 🤣 I’ll sponsor her course for my sanity 😂

baki her actually using effective communication will take a long time to happen. Woh ram barose hai, ab tak nahin sekhi tho patha nahin kab shekhegi 😂🤣