Middle class VS Rich family - Page 2

Middle-class parents Work extremely hard to raise their babies. They are very capable of providing a good life to their family..They do but for that they have job they earn money .At present akshara and abhinav both are jobless..

I don't disagree with you. But to be the devil's advocate, Ak might have just been too busy managing everything to get a proper job or start a career. I have said this before, when she met Nav he was working a driver in someone else's agency. In likely the first year of Abhir's birth, Navshu set up their own business and started renting the larger house. Then over the next few years, they must have had to focus on that a lot. Ak is shown to handle the finances and everything while doing housework and taking care of a child all by herself. Only after Abhir would be 3 or 4 would she have had any time to focus on herself. Then immediately, she likely started studying Law, which can take a long time if she is also managing a household. Could she have used her singing/dancing yes, but likely she didn't want to out of trauma.

Finally, why she didn't take Goenka's help is beyond me. Maybe so she can hide from them for longer and doesn't invite any questions.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I don't disagree with you. But to be the devil's advocate, Ak might have just been too busy managing everything to get a proper job or start a career. I have said this before, when she met Nav he was working a driver in someone else's agency. In likely the first year of Abhir's birth, Navshu set up their own business and started renting the larger house. Then over the next few years, they must have had to focus on that a lot. Ak is shown to handle the finances and everything while doing housework and taking care of a child all by herself. Only after Abhir would be 3 or 4 would she have had any time to focus on herself. Then immediately, she likely started studying Law, which can take a long time if she is also managing a household. Could she have used her singing/dancing yes, but likely she didn't want to out of trauma.

Finally, why she didn't take Goenka's help is beyond me. Maybe so she can hide from them for longer and doesn't invite any questions.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

only upbringing is not enough to survive in today's world.

Competition is very high and abhir will feel left out.

Now he is still a kid. But in future they require more and more. As i said that zeal to earn more is missing in navra.

I have never seen them having a convo ki paisa kam pad raha hai should we try some other way of earning. Should i resume my singing. Woh pov mujhe dikha nahi.

It could be bad writing too. But as i said parents will have that zeal to give best for their child.

What competition ? There r schools which cater to all categories of children plus in india there is a special quota for children of ews. Plus , there r scholarships at university levels..to give iit or neet exam , one doesn't need to be rich ...all govt medical colleges and iits iims have nominal fees , only the private colleges charge beyond . For a child who is intelligent enuf , he will make it big no matter what..don't tell me children who belong to lower and middle class families never succeed in life.. infact they r the ones who have higher chances of making it big bec they have seen life at the ground level and they know the value of everything.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

ok that makes sense. I was actually expecting her to look into naira's dance academy. Akshu teaching dancing would be a treat to watch

Tell me something, didn't you see her dancing on Ghanghor? I mean, don't give them ideas

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Tell me something, didn't you see her dancing on Ghanghor? I mean, don't give them ideas

Originally posted by: Krinya

What competition ? There r schools which cater to all categories of children plus in india there is a special quota for children of ews. Plus , there r scholarships at university levels..to give iit or neet exam , one doesn't need to be rich ...all govt medical colleges and iits iims have nominal fees , only the private colleges charge beyond . For a child who is intelligent enuf , he will make it big no matter what..don't tell me children who belong to lower and middle class families never succeed in life.. infact they r the ones who have higher chances of making it big bec they have seen life at the ground level and they know the value of everything.

I see competition in this only.

See as i said i am from middle class i have only said about my parents struggle. I never middle class ppl can not succeed in life.

If they have to succeed equal efforts from parents and kids are needed.

Some kids will do it without parents help like abhinav but here the point is about custody. Custody main they can not expect anyone to not to question her financial status. It's a court they have to provide justice by analyzing all aspects.

My only point was its expected in court these questions will be raised. If akshu was studying law if she was not ready for all this then why did she challenged abhi in the beginning that if abhi don't keep distance from abhir she will take legal action for which abhi said that's why you were reading law books is it. Kyunki legal action legi toh uspar bhi barsega she could have avoided it by letting ppl talk to her son and have personal talk ke main life main aage badh chooki hun my kid is really small usko smajh nahi ayega. You guys can visit once he grows up we can tell him the truth.

Originally posted by: Siri918

Who said middle class people can't raise kids yar! majority of the world population is middle class. In that case, no one raising kids!

I came from the middle class. I and my brother used to see my mom struggle as my dad cheated on her.

still, she made us successful in life. I did my PG with honors and worked as lead Engineer in the US and my brother as a TV anchor and actor.

leave all of this, how come Abhir is more successful and mature than Ru!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

how many ppl will get ews and what percentage of ews we have. The caste quota is higher than ews. And ews can include all casts too.

I see competition in this only.

See as i said i am from middle class i have only said about my parents struggle. I never middle class ppl can not succeed in life.

If they have to succeed equal efforts from parents and kids are needed.

Some kids will do it without parents help like abhinav but here the point is about custody. Custody main they can not expect anyone to not to question her financial status. It's a court they have to provide justice by analyzing all aspects.

I also belong to middle class and trust me , people from all classes struggle bec they always aim for higher that they can afford.

My maids daughter studies in a private school whose fees is almost equal to my daughter's school. And she's not in ews quota. Other staff children study in govt school where fees is nominal, uniform.books etc r free...

Let say I pay 10k monthly for my daughter's school , and I want her to study in a school which is 1 lakh per month , toh I can't cry ke I have to struggle so much, hayee why was I born middle class , i can't afford etc etc . I will send her to a school which I can afford ...... Pick up any reputed institution / university / school/ college , their fees is always nominal but admission is only on merit. The most reputed school in my city is a convent school whose fees is the lowest in the city but admission is toughest...nothing cN stop a meritious student from succeeding...

Like they say if somebody is a talented cricketer he can also learn in gully and make it big. There is no way they won't be noticed. Mr Ambani when he started , he belonged to a lower middle class family , he lived in a chawl in Mumbai...

Anyways , akshu will counter all the bakwas allegations from ma beta ..that's the whole point of this custody case.

Why should Aksara ask for help from the goenkas who also blamed her for neil’s death?